There’s no denying it — everybody who’s tried it enjoys the feel of unprotected fucking — of nothing between one and the body of their lover but their wetness or favorite sex lube. A naked cock and a naked cunt or, perhaps, a naked ass-fucking. One loves to share this kind of intimacy with the right lover, one with whom one is committed and knows to be safe, and one loves to see it in porn.
And yet how often is one in this situation? There are many times — indeed most times — when the best kind of sex is safe sex. Perhaps one picked up that smoking hottie at the local gay bar or the singles meat market. Maybe one has tried to put up a profile on an online adult dating site. One has met that sexy online date and is ready to take it back to the bedroom. Whether you’re gay or straight, a lesbian, a queer. If one is into bondage and domination or a swinger, one can learn to enjoy safer sex. Of course if one already has a latex fetish, lucky you!
Of course condoms are the safer sex suppliers one encounters most often. One can find all kinds of condoms nowadays. One can find huge condoms for huge dicks and smaller ones for smaller cocks. One can use a condom on one’s favorite dildo or sex toy for sharing it with others. One can find flavored cocks for a tasty sweet blowjob. There are even condoms made from polyisoprene now, which are just as tight as latex condom but safe for those with allergies. They also smell better and don’t leave that condom taste on your cock or cunt — a big help for cunnilingus and fellatio during a long fuck time.
Of course safe sex doesn’t stop there. One can use gloves to protect hands during sexy play. This is great for anal fingering when it keeps things clean and makes one’s fingers extra smooth and slippery when one adds lubricant. There are dental dams for oral sex — great with a little flavored lube and hear her moan.
Don’t let the need for hygiene and protected sex turn one off. Instead look at it as a way to enjoy new kinds of fun with more new people.
exhibitionist, 
The problem with trying to analyze sexual language and people’s reactions to it is that it varies so much across regions, cultures, and subcultures. What sounds erotic to one person may sound perfectly vulgar to another. To an absolute prude, none of the naughtier words will ever sound nice, but especially for those who have a little tension between what they think they are supposed to be like and what they really desire, taking the chance and using some porn-ified language can be a major turn-on.
Men only ever become pussy whipped because they want to.
Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.
A leopard cannot change it spots –
neither can young adult males decrease their testosterone flow. Whether gay, bi or straight, guys are all over the net not only downloading porn but looking for someone to hook-up with. Whether joining on-line dating sites, social networking hubs or simply trolling the groups section of Myspace guys are just as horny as ever, but now have the net to temper their pursuits in what seems a socially acceptable and respectable approach.
