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Safe Sex

Saturday, June 18th, 2011

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It’s a myth that there was ever once a time when fucking was safe. There has always been risks for sexual activity, no matter the age of the participants, from difficult childbirths and poor medical care to all sorts of diseases, these days the risks from unprotected sex and risky sexual activities can be very risky if not outright fatal. The important thing to remember about safe sex that the most dangerous thing is not any one activity but being ignorant about what is safe and what isn’t. Unprotected sex of any kind; oral or vaginal; but anal sex is extremely risky and even protected and with all kinds of precautions and such accidents can still happen and because anal sex also has the possibility of blood and body fluid mixing it is especially risky for many serious diseases or illnesses such as HIV and hepatitis.

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Even other types of sexual activity, like oral sex, that may appear to have a lower risk have their own issues and problems. Herpes, for instance, can easily be spread by oral sex of all kinds and once you get herpes there simply is no getting rid of it. Beyond illnesses practicing safe sex is also key to avoid unplanned pregnancies. Unfortunately, many men and women have far too many inaccurate if not outright wrong beliefs about pregnancy, believing that certain times are safe when they simply are not; or that they may be statistically less likely but still carry other risks such as transmission of sexual illnesses or such. Education is the best defense against any unwanted complications from fucking and sucking we might not want to encounter. Condom use, dental dams and so many other approaches will keep us safe.

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So take the time to be as informed as you can be about sexual illnesses, risks, safe sex practices, and pregnancy. As the old saying goes: no sex is worth dying over and if you do it right you can have great and safe sex for a very long time, have multiple partners and enjoy all kinds of activities. From kinks to straight vanilla sex we should enjoy how hot we get and how hot we can get another person, and with a little caution we can enjoy it all.

Have More Sex

Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

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A lot of people don’t realize that having sex has a lot of health benefits, and the vast majority of people don’t realize that fucking and having an orgasm can boost people’s immune system quite a bit and make them much more healthy and resistant to illnesses that are going around like the common cold and flu. Studies have shown that just having sex once or twice a week will increase the body’s production of a lot of healthy antibodies and hormones that boost people moods, immune systems and well-being.

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Frequent sex has a lot of health benefits, including burning calories which helps to lose weight or maintain a healthy body weight. In addition to that, it is an aerobic exercise, which is good for the cardiovascular system. It’s also a great stress reliever, and it boosts self-esteem. Unfortunately for the ladies who may use this excuse, sex can actually help get rid of headaches. It helps reduce pain, and the release of endorphins can help temporarily relieve cold and allergy symptoms like stuffy noses. Certain hormones that are released during orgasm actually help people to sleep better and reduce insomnia.

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The same hormone that makes people fall asleep after sex is also the hormone that makes people feel attached to others and more intimate and trusting, and it’s often referred to as the ‘Love Hormone’. Those increased feelings of intimacy are very beneficial for happiness and feeling centered. A lot of people probably think that the feelings of intimacy come solely from touching another person, because what’s more intimate than touching someones boobs or genitals? What can be more intimate than a long, deep kiss? Well, science has proven that even though touching does produce emotional feelings of intimacy, there is actually a hormone that is released in our bodies during orgasm which causes those feelings as well. Feeling intimately connected to another human being is very beneficial to a person’s mental health and well-being, because most humans want to feel connected to others, to feel as if they belong and are a part of some sort of community. Feelings of intimacy with another provide all those things. Because of this, a healthy sex life can also help to alleviate feelings of depression and sadness.

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Having At Those Videos

Thursday, May 19th, 2011

Interview any self-respecting porn moviemaker involved in the business in the last thirty years and they will relate in no mixed terms how video killed the porn industry. How movie houses showing exclusively Xxx fare closed because there was simply no reason for audiences to come out to see a film when they could watch a rented porn video. That the quality of films suffered so much being shot for video and on video that it’s been only recently where a resurgence of quality has produced some startling DVD releases. That now almost anyone can make a few films, download the content on the net and release free porn videos.

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Our technology allows for everyone to grab that infamous fifteen minutes of fame. Videos of puppies and babies go viral daily, to such a wide degree they make evening network news broadcasts! Everyone has a video/DVD player in his or her phone and everyone is videoing. The same is true for amateur pornographers or just the couple next door whom get-off on sharing their sex life. With ability and desire, mixed in with a dash of exhibitionism, it’s a surprise that we don’t see more free porn then we do.

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Free porn though is not necessarily good porn though. The price, or lack of one, does not determine quality of product. Just because we can shoot a video of ourselves fucking and we can post it on the net, doesn’t mean we all should. The fun thing about porn was that it was a fantasy, featuring actors and actresses sporting body parts that we’d never get to see in real life, let alone enjoy and they had sex like we all wished we could have but knew we never would.

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And for all those snippets of movies professing to be free, there are a bunch of folks looking to make a pretty penny off of what they have downloaded; when you click your mouse over their website address to see more of what they are about you are faced with the price of the movie.

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Optimum Positioning

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

If it is true that at the most only ten percent of women reach orgasm through intercourse, then how are the rest getting-off;and are they even? In most cases women need clitoral stimulation as much as or more so then vaginal and if their lover doesn’t know this, the woman continues on here merry sexual way unsatisfied; as a lot of women are.
Straight fucking is just not going to cut it for most ladies.

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Some sexual positions, if done with enough clitoral stimulation in mind, will make it easier for a lady to get off;for various reasons.
The classic missionary position allows the woman to use a man’s weight atop her to good advantage. Her pressed breasts between a man’s chest-for the most part-pinned down receiving a good hip thurst-ing, many women as much grow aroused from the physical sensation of this position as much as the idea of being overcome by the man. Intimacy is also high in this position as both partners face one another and if the man is positioned correctly he can rub his public bone atop his lady’s clitoral mound while inside her.
Many women report that running the fuck, generally being on top sitting on their man’s cock, arouses them to an extreme degree. In this position, whether a woman is sitting facing her man, or with her back to him-the classic reverse cowgirl she can play with her breasts with no hindrance of the man pressing down on her and grind her pelvis in the exact way she needs to connect her vagina and her clit to the man spearing her.

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Lastly, in the three basic positions of love-making, the man can take the woman from behind. Bending her or positioning his lady on all fours, the man enters the woman’s vagina standing or kneeling behind her spread hind quarters, in effect pushing up under and into her. This position allows for deeper penetration for most couples, and both the man and woman can alter the rhythm by how much the man moves forward and the woman back. A woman or man can also reach under and stimulate the clitoris and though the less intimate of the basic positions sometimes men and women take advantage of a more animalistic routing as fucking from behind certain has some deep attachments to our more prehistoric ancestry.

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Roommates

Sunday, April 24th, 2011

Over the long haul any relationship is bound to see some rocky times. Maintaining a love affair, not to mention a sex life is hard for even the horniest of us, not to mention men and women who have seen their partner naked hundreds of times! It is simply impossible to assume we will keep the same level of romance and attentiveness to sex that we had when we first began dating.

For some couples they find intimacies far afield then just the physical. The mature couple builds on the life they have, maybe the family they have nurtured, certainly more than just the physical. Some couples build their sex life from this, others have to introduce porn into their bedroom, while others allow a little swinging from time to time; any long term commitment requires compromise.

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And some couples choose to live like roommates, with the occasion foray into one another’s bedroom when the urge just gets too much. Just because conventional wisdom dictates that partners involved in a love affair must indeed be making love to keep the love affair healthy, doesn’t truly mean all people have to act in lock-step to this edict.

Once we acquiesce to what we will have in our lives with another person-and what we won’t-then we can begin to try and live with the concessions. We might marry someone with no inclining or interest in kink so we will either have to live without, surf on-line fetish sites or find a partner to play with outside of a marriage. Over time our sexual preferences can just as much stay cemented as they can change, our partner will have to contend with this as well if they want to stay with us. Men and women both see their desire for fucking change over the years and simply one partner might stay more libidinous then the other who grows less so.

If a couple can come to a compromise with their sex life, maybe allow some outside dalliances, or agree to a once a month romp in bed, there might be nothing wrong in two people otherwise living like roommates.
Good or bad sex, having it or not-or wanting to have it-is certainly not a good enough reason to call a love affair quits or break-up a family.

Water & Sex

Saturday, April 16th, 2011

For many a couple the eroticism of water; having sex in it, playing with it, even the buoyancy of how it carries and lifts our bodies, is very intense. The very specific physical nature of floating in water while fucking, naked bodies sliding this way and that in the shower or under a pool, even the coolness or heat felt as certain liquids are tickled across certain body part, truly makes water one of the most sexual of all elements. The cliché couple rolling across a sun-kissed beach while waves splash them, or two people frolicking in a pool matches well to the sloshing sounds of water breaking over its container or the orgasmic crash of waves smashing against a rocky shoal. We are one with water as much from our being as to our sexuality.

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From the steamy surrounds of hot tub sex to masturbating with a shower head, to the deep fetishes of water sports of piss and scat, to the sensation arousal of lighting a bare buttock with a spray of cool water before spanking it, or a woman going down on her man with ice-cubes In her mouth, all the forms of water at all its various temperatures is arousing to lovers, from gay to bi to straight couples. A quick perusal of on-line sites will reveal just as many fetishes and sexual escapades with water as without.

Better in then out though, water presents a host of problems as a lubricant and should not be introduced into the vagina or anus. A woman’s natural wetness is as much washed away by water as a man will find jerking-off in the shower nearly impossible-certainly more abrasive then arousing-if he uses the needle spray as a lubricant. Though we are made up of 70% water and can be mightily aroused by it, sticking to silicone lubes or any other variation of other safe liquids beats water-based lubes every time.

The actual act of making-love in or around water-considering we are clutched close so not much water can come between us-possibly cooling or heating breasts, buttocks or testicles with a nice fast splash or finding romance with the rolling of the sea beyond are all ways water fuels the sexiness in our sex lives.

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The Sex Video

Thursday, March 31st, 2011

The obligatory sex video once held the casual pornography viewer as well as the ardent connoisseur in an iron-fist grip of aching need; where to buy it, affording the tape, where to watch it even, were all deep concerns. These days a naughty video is viewed more as a collector’s item, obsolete really in the way we view dirty images, certainly an old paradigm of the way we buy and view or porn. People are not halting their viewing of men and women getting it on, have no less an interest in cum shots, oral sex and all manner of nasty activities and fetishes, it is just nowadays we can get all this stuff easier than renting a tape.

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As we grew from 8-millimeter to triple x movie fare, to home video to straight-to-video features, so now do we view what we view across our PC screens in the privacy of our own homes. As all other businesses progress in some way or die on the vine, digital technology made the selling, distributing and production of the modern day porn films a wholly different business then it was even five years ago, let alone from way back in the day when stag films were produced for bachelor party viewing. Pornographers today realize that current technology renders old idea obsolete, that the time is well passed to ruminate over the changes in the business, that even when one idea is being tried another, better, faster and newer one is being considered. In all business this quicker-than-you-can-think-it mentality exists but never stronger than in the world of providing visual stimuli for masturbation. Technology is both a blessing-for those who wish to assimilate and dissect these images at and ever faster cheaper rate-or a curse-for those trying to sell their porn downloads to an audience who can get all that sucking and fucking for free if they wish to.

The scenarios, images and ideas of the classic fuck show will never go out of style. As a culture we like our naughty images and will forever search for them from various sources. It is not a question of what do about the production of dirty movies as much as how to produce and distribute a good sex film and how to create something ever newer that people will be willing to pay for.

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Rock Star Fantasies

Wednesday, March 30th, 2011

Some people use the word “starfucker” as if that would be a bad thing. You may or may not have had the opportunity to fuck your favorite rock star, but it isn’t surprising that for a great number of serious fans, entertaining fantasies of their favorite singers can enhance sexual experiences with partners. Women are by far the most intense when it comes to being star struck for a singer, but guys are not without their crushes on the rich and famous, too.

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Desires might run the gamut from wanting to be close to a sensitive artist with immense talent, or to just be a slut and blow a whole grunge rock band backstage. It could be something in between or all of the above. These kinds of porn fantasies lend themselves to good role-playing games. If the partner of a star-struck person is a good sport, many fun games can come about through this avenue. If you’’ve ever wanted to know what it would be like to be a good ol’’ bluesman seducing your beautiful woman, putting on some deep Delta sounds and fucking real slow might be in order! Your lover might get so caught up in the fantasy that your stiff cock will benefit from all of that pent-up energy she’’s been storing up for the sweet and sexy punk musician she has always thought about. If a gang bang is more yours or her scene, you could even invite some friends in, don some tough-boy British accents and you all can have an orgy with The Rolling Stones.

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Glam rockers are also very alluring, as are flannel-shirted grunge types, introspective and cross-gender gay rockers; they are all just as good to fantasize over as any prototypical Elvis or Fabian. The main thing for the fantasizing couple is to let the scene overtake you, use the music of the stars you are emulating and let yourselves go with the wildness of the era.
Couples need to let their imaginations run wild every now and again. Nearly everyone fantasizes, masturbates and can marry the two over a image, song or idea. Leave time for hot talk and space for your fanboy or girl to express what would make the setting perfect to experience lovemaking while the music of choice is on. Kick back and let go.

Infidelity

Tuesday, March 29th, 2011

People in general, but especially husbands, have trouble believing that a woman would cheat on a good man, a loving husband. Truth is, unless men in their affairs are only going after single women or gay men,  they have to be cheating with someone. New studies claim that there is a widespread problem of female infidelity.

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The reasons women give for fucking around include having feelings that something is missing in their lives. They might have all the things that they wanted, including a stud muffin as a husband, but they feel they should be happier. This feeling that they should be happier usually leads to a loss of interest in sex. They go out of their way to avoid going to bed at the same time as their husbands. Fucking their husbands becomes a job that they don’’t like.

Now, any man looking to get his cock into the cunt of an unhappily married woman will find the timing right, because at the
same time the woman is feeling violated by her husband’’s sexual advances,  she is also reawakening her sexual desires for fresh meat. She longs to be seen as sexy and wants to feel that passion she had early on for her husband.

People that have affairs will feel sexier, happier, but for many women these feelings may cause guilt, pain, remorse and a need to justify their actions . Many women are taught to believe that good women do not stray. Only  porn “whores” sleep around. So they may justify their actions by thinking that they have found their soul mate in the person they are cheating with.

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After an affair women may be more verbal about what they want in and out of the bedroom. Sometimes the affair makes the marital bed better, but in most cases it has the woman looking for someone new to start over with.

Men who are cheated on and the women that cheat are usually left with emotional scars. There are many reasons for infidelity, such as boredom, the rush of a new partner, the desire for more sex, to fill an emotional void, or sexual addiction.

Hot-Blooded

Friday, March 25th, 2011

There are some men and women who seem to be the very epitome of the classic hot blooded lover. They seem overtly passionate about life, and certainly their sensual pursuits, and walk with a certain swagger, a sexual animus they seem to exude. Of course a good amount of the time what passes for sex style and cat-like sexuality is more anger or sometimes even deep psychosis, still there are those men and women among us who seem to be very hot blooded and ready to take on anyone who will engage their sexual prowess.

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Regardless if one person is sexier than another, anyone courting the player of a crowd may need to be on their guard with a well-seasoned lover. True, the hot blooded guy or girl knows their way around the bedposts and round back again, they can act like a real life porn star, but these are most likely people who have left more than a few broken hearts in their wake. One doesn’’t grow a sizable reputation with a chunk of sexual animus usually unmatched without using one’’s seductive power at least a few times!

But in most cases, even the sexually voracious, the lothario, and the seductress play more on their reputation than they do any real sexuality. True, there are those that exude more confidence than others, but somewhere along the line they had to have begun from one encounter, been a novice before they gained their rep and style, been not so hot blooded. The seemingly smokingly sexual hotties we encounter really are like anybody else; they have just traded on some empirical attractiveness, a good gift for gab and a growing list of conquests that get easier to conquer the more one conquers.

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Sexual attractiveness is like beauty, it is up to each beholder to determine for him or herself what turns them on. Swagger does go a long way and there are those people who seem to be able to turn on the charm and smoky sexuality more than others, but in the end, a great hot blooded lover must prove his or her fucking worth in bed.