Archive for April, 2011

Lesbian X-Rated Films

Friday, April 29th, 2011

It is a cliche that men are into lesbian sex. Men just love lesbians because they are two women together — those soft bodies which they so enjoy fucking are even better when doubled, two sets of breasts, two wet cunts, two assholes ready to be lubed and fucked for anal sex double pleasure. It’s not surprising that straight men love lesbian porn and love to jack off to orgasm from watching it.

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But what of the bisexual woman or lesbian who wants to watch some free porn videos? It is harder because actually a lot of the lesbian scenes in most porn geared toward straight men or at least heterosexual couples are faked. The women kiss with their tongues extended out far more than anyone could. The oral sex is just as bad, cunnilingus for the camera only. It is designed to look erotic with a good camera angle but the orgasms are just as fake as the lesbians themselves. Also these moves invariably show women together who are both very feminine. While it is not impossible to have two femmes dating each other, it is very rare to see any woman the least bit butch or dyke looking on sex videos on the Internet.

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XXX movies by women for women are beginning to appear, starring real lesbians together not just queer for the camera or gay for pay. These show a variety of things which might make the close minded heterosexual man uncomfortable, such as hot and hard strap on sex. Fisting can be popular in these films, sometimes called hand balling, where a woman slowly and carefully inserts her entire hand into the other woman’s pussy. A lot of lubrication and patience is necessary for successful fisting but especially when combined with clitoral stimulation it can make girls cum extremely hard. Visually speaking there is something undeniably erotic about watching an entire hand disappear into a cunt.

What’s Your Fetish?

Friday, April 29th, 2011

The revolution in porn which began with the invention of video and the camcorder has only just begun to blossom on the Internet and in the future there will be even more diverse x-rated media than there is today. It used to be that the expenses of creating pornography were much more expensive than they are today. The industry exploded in the days of the first videocameras and now almost anyone can be a porn star especially in the world of amateur porn and free sex videos.

This may have changed the economics of the California porn industry but it has been a benefit to the horny perv and porn seeker looking for free porn movies which appeal to anyone who wants to have an orgasm. If one had a fetish it used to be that there were less options available but now the satisfaction one seeks is just a search away on an adult video site. Free sex movies are out there to satisfy any taste almost no matter how extreme.

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Gonzo porn is one field which appeals to some dark and extreme kinky tastes. This genre of porn is often filmed in Eastern Europe where sex workers can be inexpensively hired who will do almost anything for money. This appeals to men and women who want to see women really degraded on film.

No less extreme but perhaps more ethical are the many kink and bdsm fetish houses which are available today producing adult movies for the dominant or the submissive looking for porn. Many of these kink fetish porn movies feature interviews at the end with the submissive so that one can see how sub space happy they are, all blissed out post orgasm smiles. This makes it almost like a real scene with a play partner.

Female ejaculation or squirting is a popular form of porn movie genre. There are many erotic films which show women squirting.

Positions

Thursday, April 28th, 2011

Often times a person can be watching a movie with a great sex scene. It looks hot. It makes you curious and in the course of things you many begin to wonder about how you would put into practice. There are quite a few sexual positions in porn movies that only a gymnast could do. others look appealing but it is a clear case of theory versus practice until once you actually try it for yourself. Unfortunately the porn actors are professionals. They make sex positions look easy; hey doesn’t everyone enjoy un-lubricated anal sex? Keep in mind that, a good portion of sex positions in porn videos are chosen because they give the camera man a great shot of a cock entering some hole, mouth, ass or pussy.

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The actors may not be enjoying the sex at all and because they are paid to make it look hot they will just have to make the noises that are associated with hot orgasms. Some of the basics are the best for getting off quickly and hard, that is why positions like doggy style have lasted. It also happens to be one of the top most popular and favorite positions by women. This is largely because of the penetration factor and pleasure that they receive from their partners cock hitting the G-spot inside and having the man’s balls hit their clit from the outside. Every person is very different in their tastes and desires so you will have to experiment with your partner to determine which is your and their favorite. If you both have differing kinds then you should try bouncing back and forth to vary things. The best thing to do is get your partner away from their favorite position and then get them to craving it, and finally spring it on them suddenly. There is also the pleasure in taking their favorite position and varying it slightly with just a little twist. This could even give them a brand new favorite. It is also very important to let them know what yours are and to not be afraid to express yourself. You might discover that they have something very similar if not the same thing after all.

Hidden

Wednesday, April 27th, 2011

Every girl knows one, a player. He usually has more confidence than looks. Not that he isn’t good looking, he usually is. It is just that he has ego, pride and confidence of a man with power. He doesn’t necessarily dress well but he has this smile that disarms even the staunch feminist. And he gives off the impression that he lives to protect the fair sex. This whole aura gives most women a warm fuzzy feeling around their heart and a moist wet feeling between their legs. This very disarming feeling should send off warning signals to a girl’s brain but all she is thinking about is having sex with this man. Before she knows it she will be whisked off to his place where he will seduce and romance her. The sex will be good, he is a professional. But what the woman won’t know is that he has a hidden sex cam set up that is recording every thrust, moan and orgasm.

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These men usually have a collection of these sex movies hidden away. After the woman leaves he may watch her come over and over again. What should a woman do if she finds out she is the victim of being filmed without permission. Woman when asked have answered almost unanimously that they would kill the bastard..But in reality most women would not go and do such a thing. Lawyers may have to get involved but if the sex film has been posted on the internet it is likely that it was put on a tube site, like a for porn, and is already being circulated. That doesn’t mean a woman should do nothing and let the snake get away with this activity. Posting his information on website, reporting him to the police and putting up flyers at the local bars, clubs and restaurants if they will let you can be a few ways to warn other women about this guy. Of course not jumping into bed the first night you meet someone may help a woman’s odds of not being taken by a player in the first place.

It’s Free

Wednesday, April 27th, 2011

There are very few things that are certain in life. Death, taxes and free porn are among the few things. People will die, people will be taxed and many people will try to get their hands on as much pornography as they can, even better if it’s free.

The reasons vary but ultimately man has an obsession with nudity, sex and acts that combine the two. The internet makes it easier to view pornography for free especially when sites like You porn exist and generate a lot of traffic. With high visibility and great search engine optimization, sites like this have the ability to be found very quickly by any user looking for cheap or free content. Sustained by affiliate programs, these sites capitalize on the sheer number of hits a day in hopes that many users will eventually convert, or buy a membership on the affiliate, thus generating revenue for the host site.

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The drive for many people to seek pornography in the first place has a lot to do with society’s taboos and what we’re told we can and cannot see or experience. There is a lot of moral debate about the existence of porn and whether man should lay eyes on the myriad of content available. Everything from generic sex acts to intense fetish porn can be had online. The possibilities from what translates to print expand the market but at a cost, though it may be small.

Guys like seeing tons of free pussy and the free sites as well as the sponsored sites, and pay sites understand this. The fantasy of the average Joe getting in bed with a woman who is not only his ideal fantasy, but ready and willing to strip for him is also a driving force behind the human obsession of pornography. It’s not just limited to men, either. Women enjoy their fair share of gay porn, claiming it as a research need since men do not openly talk about sex with women.

Access

Tuesday, April 26th, 2011

It was bound to happen that the more we became used to getting what we wanted when we wanted it, portably as well as in the comfort of our homes, that we would simply assume this was the way of the world; that products and services would need to be always available by the click of a mouse; that even the dirty stuff we seek in our lives-products and services as well-were going to have to be available to us as quickly, and in many cases as cheaply, as anything else we could get; that we would consistently engage our more prurient interests on the net because it is so easy to do so.

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The adult video is our main source of porn these days and we can see it anytime we want on-line, and pretty much for free. It makes perfect sense that if we can enjoy mostly everything else off our portable phones and P.C.’s, we’d want our porn this way to and if we get more and more of our pleasures free, or at least for a nominal fee, we’d want our naughty stuff to stay online for our bottom financial line.

But we also want facility. We want speed. And we want assurance. The thing about the net is that now that we can log-on all the time, from anyplace, we mainly do. We stay connected via our phones and PDA’s…which are basically mini computers we hold in our hands and keep with us all the time. It stands to reason then that the way we interact with the world is through our computers mainly, and actually our world is the net for the most part. We want our porn, our date, or hook-ups with a prostitute even to be available to us via the web as the rest of our life is.

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Whether watching an adult video or emailing our lover living across the country, what we want mostly is access.

Get Your Orgasm Here

Tuesday, April 26th, 2011

For all intents and purpose an orgasm is pretty much easy to come by these days. Sexually active adults certainly know what gets their ghost, gets them off and gets them coming back for more. We know exactly what toys to charge, what positions to get into, what pictures or porn we need to have scrolling by when we masturbate as much as we know what type of a partner fires our imagination and libido. Knowing what we need for our individual sexual excitement means we can pretty much count on that excitement in a world replete with the stimulants right there for the taking.

And we do live in a world ready and willing to give us what we need when we want to take it.

Because of the Internet we have access not only to the concepts that titillate us but to the very people; products and services we need, with another person or just by ourselves, to excite us most. Because of the Internet we have constant access, we have easy facility and we have speed, demon speed, to get that which invigorates and arouses us at every possible minute of the day, through our P.C.’s or portable devices, in the privacy of our own homes or in make-shift alone moments when we want some arresting arousing images.

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Because of the Internet we are stuck nearly with constant mental priapism, fed a 24/7 deluge of people looking just like us and all the stuff that are looking at.

What we must learn is to ignore our orgasm, or at least the need to have it to the exclusion of all else. We must learn to stop and smell the roses, whether alone or with a partner, to enjoy the steps we take on each erotic journey and not just the journey’s end., And mostly, if we are dating, mating or romancing another person, we must learn to put their orgasm above our own.

Roommates

Sunday, April 24th, 2011

Over the long haul any relationship is bound to see some rocky times. Maintaining a love affair, not to mention a sex life is hard for even the horniest of us, not to mention men and women who have seen their partner naked hundreds of times! It is simply impossible to assume we will keep the same level of romance and attentiveness to sex that we had when we first began dating.

For some couples they find intimacies far afield then just the physical. The mature couple builds on the life they have, maybe the family they have nurtured, certainly more than just the physical. Some couples build their sex life from this, others have to introduce porn into their bedroom, while others allow a little swinging from time to time; any long term commitment requires compromise.

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And some couples choose to live like roommates, with the occasion foray into one another’s bedroom when the urge just gets too much. Just because conventional wisdom dictates that partners involved in a love affair must indeed be making love to keep the love affair healthy, doesn’t truly mean all people have to act in lock-step to this edict.

Once we acquiesce to what we will have in our lives with another person-and what we won’t-then we can begin to try and live with the concessions. We might marry someone with no inclining or interest in kink so we will either have to live without, surf on-line fetish sites or find a partner to play with outside of a marriage. Over time our sexual preferences can just as much stay cemented as they can change, our partner will have to contend with this as well if they want to stay with us. Men and women both see their desire for fucking change over the years and simply one partner might stay more libidinous then the other who grows less so.

If a couple can come to a compromise with their sex life, maybe allow some outside dalliances, or agree to a once a month romp in bed, there might be nothing wrong in two people otherwise living like roommates.
Good or bad sex, having it or not-or wanting to have it-is certainly not a good enough reason to call a love affair quits or break-up a family.

Technology Has Changed The Whole World

Saturday, April 23rd, 2011

It’s hard now to imagine or remember what life was like before we had the internet and had so much information at our fingertips all the time. Some of us can remember what life was like before, but we’ve grown so accustomed to the convenience and ease of doing everything on our computers that it seems like the time before the computer was an extremely long time ago, when really it was less than 20 years. It’s amazing how many things have changed now though, and how difficult it would be to live without the internet and all of our technology now that we’re used to it. Twenty years ago when the very rich and important few had a ‘mobile phone’, it was a huge clunky thing that required a case the size of a briefcase. Nobody then could imagine that twenty years later, we’d have iPhones that would house everything in our entire lives, from our calendar to our contacts to all of our music. We can even date now on our smart phones, as most of the larger dating websites have phone applications. It might actually be possible at this point to fall in love using nothing more than our smart phone, because we can do everything from getting on the dating site to making a reservation for a first date to texting and talking on the phone. One device does it all. There probably weren’t too many people who saw this coming. One o the biggest changes that the internet has made in people’s lives is the easy accessibility of sexual information.

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In the past, people would have to brave potentially dangerous situations in order to learn more or explore the own sexuality. BDSM and fetish was a whole underground world that was frightening and sometimes dangerous because nefarious people knew they could take advantage of desperate people who were looking for ways to explore their fantasies. These days people can find out anything they want right from the safety of their own home. They can interact with people before venturing out to a dungeon or party, so they feel a little more secure. We have a world where information is vast and easy to access for everyone, and that is a great thing for everyone in the world.

Too Far To Dom/Sub

Friday, April 22nd, 2011

As sex addiction is bandied around these days as an almost cause célčbre malady, it is as prevalent for men and women to become addicted to the roles they play in the bedroom, even the roles they play in the everyday action of their marriage. A man who becomes every much the typical pussy-whipped hubby can assume a submissive pose when having sex with his wife as when cleaning the kitchen. The put-upon woman afraid to confront her husband’s consistent disapproval might just do all she can to accommodate her man as much in bed as out.

Guys and girls who enjoy some sort of kink play, can even see their specific actions and mindset follow them out of a play space or scene, often to just as insidious results. They might begin to live their kink as part of their life or simply want that kink to be their life

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For most, the fun of kink is that it is not real, that both partners know it is fantasy, and that, for the most part, a couple takes a break from their everyday lives and whatever their roles might be in those lives to either accentuate certain parts of their personalities or completely flip their experience for something they never encounter in real life. If one maintains the kink life beyond playing, if roles we are in real life become very much the role we play at in a kink scene, we do run the risk of not knowing where the kink stops and real life begins.

Complete immersion in what we want sexually, during even the moments of our lives when we aren’t exercising our lusts, can be exhausting to say the least!

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But a good many kinksters are not looking to make a distinction, to delineate between what they do in kink and what they do in life. For many couples there is no separation. These men and women employ a Herculean effort keeping their kink alive all the time. The slightest slip from the pose threatens not only the loss of erotica for the partners it also means a loss of self, of who one is as much as what one wants.

Identity for these kinksters is part and parcel with their play.