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Educational Videos

Wednesday, April 6th, 2011

Wouldn’t it be great if whenever we needed to learn a hot, new sex trick, there was an awesome sex coach there to show us what to do right on the spot? In lieu of such a luxury, there are some pretty good videos out there to help out. Don’t think that just because you’ve been around the block a few times, there’s nothing left to learn about sex. There is always more to know and to try out.

A simple internet search will turn up plenty of fun erotic vids that can teach you everything from how to take it in the ass to how to give a killer blow job and beyond. Take a look for just about anything you want to learn about, and chances are someone has published something with your particular taste in mind.

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The good thing about these instructional videos is the balance they usually manage to strike between informational and just plain sexy. You are likely to find an attractive narrator interspersed between the rest of the action. There may also be a doctor or other informed individual to explain some of the more important points on health and safety. Then comes the fun part: a hot couple there to demonstrate a good example of the topic of the video. There will likely be some voiceover to explain some details of the action, but there’ll be no mistaking the hot, explicit sex that will ensue based on the instruction.

Suppose you are a couple that wants to explore flipping the anal sex around and giving him some. A video of this type will have someone begin to explain how she will need to purchase a strap-on dildo, how they work, and the sizes and styles the couple can choose from. There will be a lot of guidance along the way in terms of how to use the toy, with some cautions: The video will want to make sure lots of lube is used, that they take their time, and that the dildo has a flared base so it won’t get stuck. Once they get going, it’ll be full-on fun. There will be a long sex scene so you not only learn, but have ample time to jack off watching.

The New Horizons

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_ler0yiCZ731qd7x8zo1_500Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.

Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant one’s fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.

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There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas.  You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.

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Masturbation Serenity

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_lf7ng676n21qzck00o1_500What some people may consider a self-indulgent activity while watching free porn, masturbation may be —even more than they anticipated.

Masturbation is not only a great way to get off when you’re horny and alone, but it might be your way into a meditative state, or into the deep Self, if you will. All kinds of sounds and activities can help produce the mind states associated with meditation or trance.

Stroking the bat or petting the cat might be the perfect method for those who easily link sexuality with spirituality.

Repetition is one condition that is known to help a person tune into a place of stillness in the mind or body. That repetition can come from sound, as in meditation music that has a quieting pattern, or from the chanting of a mantra. Saying an affirmation every day to yourself in the mirror is a kind of repetition that evokes a light trance state and feelings of positivity.

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Masturbation is a powerful tool for repetition and positivity. There is repeating motion in the hand as on pleasures their genitals. There are the waves of pleasure themselves which repeat in their own patterns and obviously produce good feelings. By getting into a state of slowly building pleasure, a person can find a psychological realm that feels like a peaceful trance-like experience.

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In this form of masturbation, the goal is not immediate orgasm. Take your time. Allow yourself to be in the journey toward climax, a journey that could last for hours. By approaching orgasm then backing off from your repetitive hand movements, you can not only stay in the peaceful realm, but build and build the powerful sexual energy. Some people call the getting close and backing off edging while the state of mind that can occur in being so close to orgasm for an extended time is called gooning.

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This practice can be done anywhere you normally relax. If you like to jill or jack off in a warm, scented oil bath, try this method there. If you stroke it in bed watching sex videos before sleeping, go to bed early and try this with enough time to make it last a while. Once you are finally going to allow yourself to cum, get ready for some amazing feelings. You will have a phenomenal release.

To Sleep Perchance To…

Sunday, March 6th, 2011

Men and women really are at their warmest, most peaceful and possibly most alluring when they are sleeping. Lying down deep under our covers, breathing regular-even snoring- who could not be attracted to the quiet of our sleeping spouse or lover? All manner of worry and argument is quiet, all possible refusals muted, all manner of orifices open and warm.

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Many a hetero wife has reported waking to her man vigorously slipping his cock inside her or a guy has woken with a mouth locked around his slowly growing erection. The pure person is on display when we see, us in all our glory and without any true flash of our personalities good or bad.

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We can complain about bad morning breath all we want, the fact that we most probably need a pee when waking, even the funk and film eight hours leaves us with, but we are biologically predisposed to like all those funky warm smells. Akin to that musky warmth a wet pussy exudes when aroused, our deep scents of sleep are supposed to attract our lovers to us and us to them, we are supposed to wants to crawl beside them and spoon-at the very least-make love at the most, even when either of us might not be awake enough to respond. Many a lover who has snuck out of bed in the morning, brushed their teeth, splashed on some cologne or perfume to meet their lover lying still in bed all twisted under the covers in their morning film needn’t have bothered as sleep smells are really so alluring anyway.

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For most of us anyway our beds really are the temple of our sex lives and good feelings. Couple lay together many a nights to discuss their futures, hopes and dreams. Men and women can recall the moments of their wildest sexual escapades or their deepest clutching moments of love-making in this spot at the center of their intimate lives. We crawl into bed to be safe, to be closer, to sleep and to renew what our love and lust means to each other.

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Sleeping beauty’s little dwarfs had to have had many a nasty thought between them. The Internet might be a great place to meet people to masturbate over or maybe find a date from an on-line dating site, but nothing can replace the warmth of spooning lovers in bed rolling into one another in time to maybe catch an early morning quickie stolen before either partner has to get up for work!
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The Disembodied Cock

Saturday, March 5th, 2011

tumblr_lbjjauoMls1qeu5sfo1_500The older we get the more we notice …even if we don’t want to. Certainly our sexual vocabulary increases in what we want, how we want it, and what we know we must do to get it. We begin to notice the nuance of a touch, the sensuality of someone’s smile and how the way someone acts to and with us is the very best foreplay. We need the look and feel of body parts just as much as ever, but beyond the hubris of youth, a certain bloom is off the rose, not that we don’t still like looking at the rose, but the pedals and stem attract us just as much.

This is why the disembodied cock isn’t as attractive as it might have once been.

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Gay men and straight girls might be fascinated by the male member, but as they grow older, it depends more who the dick is attached to then it does the dick itself to inform the attractiveness of that dick. Used to be, one could marvel over a thick bulge and never raise one’s eyes to the face of the man who sported that heavy crotch; as one grows older, the crotch-no matter how attractive-does not exist independent from the man. Something shifts in our psyches as we feel a little seasoning and body parts, no matter how thick or long, are simply just body parts.

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In most cases, no matter their age, straight women never objectify male parts as much as straight men objectify a woman’s tits, ass …everything, part and parcel from the woman they are attracted to. Gay men to, because they have the same parts as their lover, do not have as much a fascination for objectification. It’s not to say any of us, whatever sex or sexual orientation, don’t enjoy looking at or touching the bounce, firmness, thickness, roundness or length of a specific naughty pink part from time to time, it’s just that as time wears on we are less apt to find only the part itself attractive separate from the person whose part it is, doubly so if one is a hetero or a gay man who didn’t really objectify all that much to begin with.

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Though certainly championed in advertising and in porn, regardless of size, the cock itself means very little to anyone truly unless attached to a man whom one wants to know.

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Deserving a Spanking

Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

phap3699The art of corporal punishment more commonly known as spanking is one that many couples enjoy, to varying degree. For some there’s nothing sexier than a red hot ass where the nerves have opened up and blood has rushed to the area, others like the idea, patter, clothes and cause-and-effect a good spanking gives.

The ass is mostly muscle, so it’s harder to hurt than other body parts. It’s also one of the strongest muscles in the human body. It’s also one of the most talked about features of the human body. No man or woman can resist a hot, well-muscled or tight ass on the partner of their choosing. With all the nerve endings in the ass and around the anus in particular, it’s no wonder spanking fetishes are popular in sexual culture.

The fetish itself is versatile. It can be involved in role play: The priest and naughty nun, the school marm and student, principal and teacher, even babysitter and her charge. What’s taboo to one person is often highly sexualized to another and there is no denying that a power exchange, even something as subtle as a man ordering his lover’s meal on a date as his lover acquiesces to the this attention, is sexy.

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Some psychiatrists suggest that love of spanking stems from childhood issues and for many that may be true. Others simply find the fetish to be an extreme turn-on. It’s gender neutral, which means both men and women can get something out of it. For women, the feeling of helplessness and submission makes her wet, because it stimulates those nerve endings. The anticipation of sexual intercourse from contact of one of her erogenous zones heightens the sensation for her. If a woman takes on the dom role, she might be playing in a way she usually doesn’t in life, being aggressive or demanding in ways she would never dream of.

For men, turning a sweet, hot bottom pink is more about control and dominance in addition to maybe getting laid…if the guy plays dom. A man giving up control, allowing himself to be bare-bottomed and swatted is a good release to, as many men have to play a more dominate role in their everyday lives.

Overall, all this attention on the bottom truly uses this most erogenous zone to its fullest.  Watch some spanking porn to get the idea of what sort of possibilities are out there.  Unlike other zones such as the breasts and back of the neck, the sexual arousal nerves in the bottom are buried in a layer of fat and require harder stimulation to trigger and this is why spanking is an obvious choice.

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Take It In The Rear

Monday, February 28th, 2011

For some straight men, there is a big stigma against having their ass played with in any way. Fingering, and certainly no sex toys are allowed in there! Too bad for them that they are missing out on a wonderful life pleasure. There is hope, however, for the hopelessly straight man who is at least willing to try to allow his girlfriend to explore beyond the penis.  And if he thinks it is too weird, just boot up some porn that will show him how awesome it can be!

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One of the best ways for a woman to first approach stimulating a guy’s asshole is to begin while there is other intense pleasure happening for him. She might take his succulent cock head into her mouth. While she is sucking him, she might take the personal lubricant from the nightstand and begin to rub some gently around the outside of his anus. Make sure he is still distracted by the free porn at this point.

She can keep sucking, and while he is in the throes of pleasure, insert one finger slowly. No need to pound hard or do too much at all. He might be taken aback at first, but he is also likely to flow with how good that finger feels inside him while he is getting a blow job. Once he gets acclimated, she can move her finger gently to discover the best subtle motions that will stimulate his prostate (P-spot).

If he has never had an anal experience, he might thank her later.
A not-too- big vibrator might be another way to begin for the more adventurous man. Quite a number of guys are curious about what it must feel like to get fucked with a vibrator because they see porno clips of women loving it, or their girlfriends hitting their orgasm with the sensation. Stroking his cock and balls while introducing the lubed-up vibrator to his ass would be a good way to go. It is generally fun to insert it while it is off then turn on the vibrations and watch him jump with startled ecstasy.

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Butt plugs and anal beads: These might be best for once he is familiar with the backdoor route. Often, inserting the number of anal beads you like inside you by yourself is a good thing to do, followed by sexual activity with the partner. Once a guy discovers these pleasures, he may fuck himself silly with a butt plug while his cock is inside his favorite pussy.

Better Positions

Monday, February 28th, 2011

One easy way for people to spice up their sex life is to try some new positions that they’ve never tried or haven’t done in a very long time. Different sexual positions offer different sensations and stimulation, and sometimes that’s especially true for women. For example, when a woman is on top she can control the speed and depth of penetration, and she can make sure she gets constant clit stimulation which will help most women achieve orgasm.

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For men, sometimes it’s the depth that gives them the most added stimulation, so positions that will enable deeper penetration will be very pleasing. When in the missionary position, if the man raises the woman’s legs up towards her chest, it opens up and elongates her vaginal cavity, allowing the man the access to achieve much deeper penetration than standard missionary position where the woman has her feet on the bed and her legs spread. A minor adjustment like that one can transform a good position into a great position. Rear entry positions are also good for deeper penetration, especially if the lady is lying face down with her backside raised. Lying over a stack of pillows is great for this position. If the lady puts her arms back, the gentleman can spread her legs wide apart with his knees and hold onto her arms or wrists as he thrusts and he’ll get wonderfully deep penetration.

Side-by-side positions can be a lot of fun because they leave both people’s hands free, allowing them both to stimulate other parts of each other’s bodies. Certain positions will leave the lady’s hands free, allowing her to play with the man’s balls or insert a finger into his ass. A man with free hands can provide extra clit stimulation.

If you’re stuck for positions, an easy way to get ideas is from booting up some sweet ass porn.  Incorporate what you see into your routine.  But don’t try anything too outrageous off the bat – work up to the pile driver.

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Masturbate The Modern Way With The Tenga Egg

Wednesday, February 9th, 2011

The subject of sex toys is no news to the folks at Orgasm. Having seen just about everything the market has to offer, coming across a product that makes us get up off our seats is reason for celebration. Most recently, a friend forwarded me a YouTube video marketing one of the most revolutionary male-oriented sex toys I have ever seen, the Tenga Egg. Ten minutes later and I had half a dozen of those bad boys on their way.

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Following in the footsteps of products like the popular Fleshlight, the Tenga Egg is essentially a masturbatory aid that mimics a real-life pussy like nothing else. Encased in a plastic egg, the product itself consists of an ‘Onacup’ which is the name for a Japanese brand of artificial vaginas invented by the legendary Mr. Matsmoto in 2006. Since its release, it’s become so popular that it sold over two million units worldwide. Now that’s a whole lot of masturbating.

Understanding the product to the full of its abilities requires watching the video but in a nutshell, it basically consists of a jelly-like egg with a hole on one end. By adding some lube to its interior and ‘rim’, you can then proceed to stick your dick in there and go to town with your favorite free porn site, or without, whatever strikes your fancy.

Tenga eggs come in a variety of different ‘terrains’. What that means is that depending on your preference of bumps and grooves, you’ll be sure to always find something you like, or keep yourself entertained by trying them all.

For those who still need some convincing, read on for a couple of Tenga Egg facts that might help you place an order (or not):

- After personally testing out all of the different egg varieties, I can safely say that they are all different and provided me with different sensations. It’s like fucking a different woman everyday minus all the emotional baggage.

- The included lube is probably the best I’ve ever used. Highly recommended.

- It actually feels like you’re having sex or getting a blow-job. It definitely puts the fleshlight to shame.

- Being disposable, that means clean-up is as simple as tossing it in a bin; however, given that a ‘Tenga Egg Variety Pack’ (6 units) costs a whopping a $34.99, it will be the most expensive stick beating you’ve ever had.

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15 Naughty New Year’s Resolutions

Thursday, January 6th, 2011

dec 23 orgasm.com1It’s a new year and it’s going to be a new you! We all know that people are always making those generic, over done New Year’s resolutions like loosing weight, eating healthy and saving money. And while, sure those are some pretty important things to improve on, but to be honest, there is nothing more important than the sexual relationships we have in our lives and improving those.

Not all of us have those freaky sex lives of those people that we see on free porn, but if you want to add a little raunchiness in your life, then follow some of these 15 totally do-able New Year’s resolutions.

1. Ask for what you want: if you want your girl to start giving you more blow jobs, then simply ask her.

2. Keep learning new things: if you want to keep things spicy in the bedroom then you’re going to need to learn new tricks.

3. Let go of shame: don’t be afraid of who and what you are. Being comfortable in your own skin is the sexiest thing you can do to attract woman.

4. Be a stickler about safer sex: would you rather have great sex on a regular basis or not be able to have sex at all because of one stupid mistake?

5. Go for quality rather than quantity: sure, it’s great to have tons of fuck buddies when you’re in college, but as you get older and the years go by, the relationships are often more important than the sex.

6. Don’t hold grudges: bottom line, life is too short to hold grudges.

7. Believe in love and lust at first sight: there is nothing more satisfying than those initial butterflies in the stomach feeling.

8. Think outside the box: there is nothing better than doing things different in the bedroom.

9. Consider all the possibilities of house hold items: this won’t only help your wallet, but will also add a lot of zest to your sex life.

10. Drop the routine: change up things in order to make your life more exciting and something to look forward to.

11. Complain less: if your dick is working properly then there is nothing to complain about.

12. Compliment more: we all know women want to be complimented so if you want them in the sack then you need to do just that.

13. Send more dirty texts: as long you’re not as stupid as Brett Favre, then send as many dirty texts as your cell phone plan allows for.

14. Make out like you did in high school: it’s a proven fact that making out releases tons of feel good endorphins.

15. Watch less TV: unless it’s porn of course.