Butch and gender fluid women, as well as any woman who just wants to have some good queer fun might decide to experiment with cross dressing. When they do, they might choose to see what it’s like to put on the clothes of a suit & tie man, a hot guy from the hood, or a rock star. The real adventurous ones might take it to another level and decide to go out packin’.
Packing in this context, is a slang term for wearing a strap on dildo. To go out while wearing one can give a woman an intense window into what it might feel like to walk the streets, check out chicks or dudes, while managing a raging hard-on. It can be an incredible turn-on.
Some women might really like this because it is an added challenge to trying to pass. If this is something they’re interested in, women have to pay a great deal of attention to manner of walking, sitting, and standing. Not everyone fits a stereotype, but certain sitting positions and ways of holding the body in space tend to belong to either the male or the female realms. A woman can study videos of men she admires or even take some cross-dressing instruction to get good at it.
Mannerisms are important, but so are the clothes. A large-breasted woman will need to take some time figuring out how best to mask the boobs. Taping works for most, and can best be learned from another drag king if possible. Then, there’s the cock. Adding that to the mix may change the choice of clothing. It may be nice to have a little bulge. Unless the exercise is purely for exhibitionist purposes. She may want to find a way to make it a little more subtle than looking like a pitched tent.
A few crossdressing women, especially if they like to do it for the stage, would like everyone to see that big bulge. For most, just the feeling of knowing that she has something a little extra between her legs is what the excitement is all about. Bonus fun: Out at the bar, she might brush against her lover, who will suddenly know what’s in store for playtime that night.
