Archive for July, 2011

You’d Be Surprised

Friday, July 15th, 2011

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Almost everyone publicly denies and decries that they would ever check out any porn sites. However, what people express as an opinion in broad daylight, and what they do at night in the privacy of their own homes, can be two vastly different things. Maybe people whom you would never imagine doing it, are busily checking out the Free porn videos while we run around busily trying to convince everyone of just how very upstanding we are.

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These days while we may still seem prudish on occasion on the surface, many of us feel free to enjoy some adult websites or Internet porn options when we are alone and out of the harsh view of society. If you pay any attention at all to your nightly news, you would think that no one ever has sex, no one ever thinks about sex, and we are all just lily white, celibate ethereal individuals floating around on little puffy clouds thinking only of lambs, snowflakes and cotton candy. Not so much, Really, not so much. Contrary to what the uptight media would have you believe, most of us have healthy, normal and functioning sex drives, thank you very much for asking.

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So the next time you visit a library, make sure you take a good look at that cute librarian with the little bun in her hair and the grey business suit. You may be able to imagine that suit coming flying off, her hair coming down and all sorts of delicious and illicit non-literary delights to follow. One of the most exciting things about life can be the fact that just about nothing is as it seems, and while this can be frustrating in some areas of our existence, when it comes to sex, it keeps it all just revved up enough to make it exciting for us, when we are not too busy pretending to be morally beyond reproach.

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Republican Sex Scandal

Thursday, July 14th, 2011

It’s another day and yet another conservative is preaching to us about the ultimate, ungodly evils of the gay people or letting us in on the secret of how porn is destroying our civilization. Our culture has a rich legacy of people repressing human sexuality and trying to keep our urges in check, making us act like proper people. Proper people of the Victorian era that is! And it shows, because just as every day passes with another lecture about the evils of sex, it seems like hardly a day passes without hearing about many of these self same politicians embroiled in the mess of a sex scandal. We find out they’ve secretly been sucking off men in bathrooms or they are hiding their relationship with an intern or their habit of picking up prostitutes on the way home from the office.

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For all that they might like to deny it, the human urge to have intercourse is as strong as our need to have food, to drink water, to use the bathroom. We are not fully fulfilled human beings, even if we have plenty of clothes on our backs and a roof over our heads, without at least a lover to connect with. These urges and the fact that they ultimately cannot be resisted are the reason that prostitution truly is the oldest profession, because when people are unable to get the satisfaction they need they always seek it elsewhere.

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Although we may think of this as a purely male issue, consider the legacy of the disease known as hysteria in women. Now pardon us if what follows sounds like the set up for sex videos, but once women were diagnosed with this mysterious condition and the cure was actually being fingered to orgasm by their doctors. Suffering from unsatisfied urges they had to seek them out elsewhere, just like the politicians of today continue to do behind closed doors.

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Discover

Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

Whether you are in a relationship or just single and looking you are always changing and coming to like new and different things. Sometimes you may go back to liking something you had begun to dislike a long time ago. It happens with food and music and sex and everything in between.

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You can use Porn to discover where your tastes really lay and what you truly enjoy in sex. It is a great way to explore and discover and this can be even more enjoyable when you are with a partner. When you aren’t with one it can help with the basics of keeping your morale up. You may discover that you enjoy lesbian sex or other types. It is all about being honest enough with yourself that you can open up and admit things. Often it happens that you may have reservations attached with something like tying up for instance. You may find a part of you likes it and it is appealing to you.

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For some this can cause tension and stress. It doesn’t need to be this way if you can honestly assess where your interests are and if you are inclined, even to figure out why. It may be enough for people to just admit that they do like something whereas for others there may be a need to know more. Whatever it is and wherever it is you can certainly have the opportunity to explore those things and come to a sense of peace with yourself or even your partner. If you are with a partner this can help even more because you have someone to talk to about such things and they might have a unique perspective they can provide. This then could help you even more still. If you take the time to establish good communication skills not only with yourself but your partner as well it can all be good.

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Blanket Approach

Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

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The majority rules and adult movie makers take it to heart when making adult sex videos. Most Porn makers use a blanket approach in creating what appeals to the largest audience. It is for that reason that they typically stick to a tried and true formula of girl is easy and willing, fuck her in these positions. The actors may change but the action will remain the same. Foreplay is something you save for your girlfriend, it isn’t something that you see in sex videos. It isn’t why the guy buying the movie is there.

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He wants to see the participants get right down to it. There might be a brief period of oral sex as one or the other, most usually first the girl goes down on the guy. They switch up again very briefly and then the fucking begins. There are three or four positions which offer the best camera angle and occasionally another brief period of oral sex. Finally there is the climax which features the guy pulling his cock out and masturbating until  he cums all over the face and tits of the waiting woman on her knees. She is usually begging for it. There may be the occasional scene featuring anal sex but that isn’t as popular as cream pie shots. This if it aint broke don’t fix it formula has proven bank. It gives the guy watching the movie plenty of action for his money and because the scenes have the most popular positions and money shots the audience is going to find something that gets them hot and bothered enough to buy another movie with the same actors.

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For the regular porn watcher the formula becomes a problem since once you’ve seen one you’ve seen them all. But sometimes familiar is a good thing like with the parody sex movies. Young men like to revisit familiar sitcoms and movies with an adult flair. After all the Brady sex parody had guys all buying it because everyone wanted to bone Marsha.

Reason

Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

Total censorship of tits, pussy and dicks of a thing is never the answer for anything because the more you deny someone of something the more they will cling to it. This doesn’t solve anything and any sort of prohibition to some degree with tend to make matters worse in a society. That is why the best way to go about things is a sort of closeting action. Keep things to a sort of thresh hold level and while it isn’t commonly available it isn’t exactly saturating society either.

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There should be a reasonable amount of Porn available without going overboard. If you go to the other extreme of saturating your society with it you are giving access to it that some people will take that might not otherwise have taken. You are essentially aggravating an issue and feeding a sex drive at large that might otherwise have been reasonable and manageable. It’s a matter of what people are putting into their minds and in front of their eyes. The more they are saturated with an image the more they are going to think and act on it. If it’s out of sight then it’s typically out of mind for the most part.

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The problem is that there is a dedicated effort to flood the internet and every other venue with any sort of morally corrupting influence that can be found. They are making it simply acceptable where before it was not. The evidence for this can be seen by the way adult movies and the related material is dealt with in the mainstream. It used to be under a very hush hush sort of curtain whereas now it is not even given a second thought. This is clearly having an affect on how people think and what they find acceptable and good. It’s a reversal of and inversion of values. Anything that was once good is now seen as contemptible while things that were once under censure now see the light of day as perfectly okay.

Porn Up’s Skills

Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

When you use Porn to practice your skills at sex you can become very impressive. Consider that you could learn how to hold back before you have an orgasm and if you continue practicing this you could make a great and powerful impression on someone you do end up scoring with. They will be impressed that you have such control over yourself and this can only help you prosper in the long run. If you give someone a great and satisfying experience they are more than likely going to tell a friend about it. That friend will want to meet you and already you will have put the the seed of scoring in their minds.

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They may decide to give you a try themselves and your sex life will never have been better. This all stems from the fact that you took your performance seriously and did everything you could to make it the very best that it could be. You learned that you could use porn as a tool to help you with this. You are able to sense that orgasm coming and you are able to stem the tide of it just a little more each time and then you can finally control yourself to such a degree that you give a very powerful orgasm every time.

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Then when you do actually get with someone they will be taken to a new place of pleasure they had never experienced before. This all comes from you giving it the best you had and making a better example of a lover with yourself. You are able to do things that you and they only dreamed of before. Give yourself every advantage that you can and don’t take no for an answer. Don’t settle and don’t go halfway. Make the decision to go all the way and become the best that you can be. This will empower you and through that you will empower others around you to be the best they can be.

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A Place For Everything

Sunday, July 10th, 2011

The more prudish and uptight of those amongst us may like to vociferously complain about porn, Porn stars, and all the other various forms of adult entertainment that are available out there on the world wide web, but when you really give it some thought, every single thing in the world has its’ proper and necessary place to help this old giant orb of fun function and spin around on its’ axis.

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If it were not for differences and opposites, people would really have very little to complain about on a regular basis. If we were all created just exactly alike, not only would there be no debate about what is right and what is good, but we would all be bored to tears and living in a completely generic and uninteresting world where every single person was just as fabulous as we are, and were also in constant agreement with us on every topic imaginable.

So let’s stop for just a second and consider all of the public services that porn stars really do help us out with. What is more entertaining than a porn star, or the porn industry in general? Not only are many ordinary people just completely fascinated with them, but so are pretty much all of our celebrities and rock stars. Tabloid and entertainment television shows can just absolutely not get enough of them under any circumstances.

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Porn stars also provide the many uptight females of the world an opportunity to feel much better about themselves. They get to sit in their righteous little ivory towers and look down and pass judgment on poor innocent people that they do not know at all, but that have made a life choice that they do not agree with, therefore they end up feeling very superior and pleased with themselves.

Whatever it is, it has it’s place, and the sooner you realize that, the better off you will be.

Don’t Just Have Sex

Saturday, July 9th, 2011

Sometimes couples can fall into a rut, when it comes to rutting. That is, human sexuality is a wide and diverse field with all kinds of fun, pleasurable activities. One merely has to look at the wide diversity of Porn to realize that humans fuck in a wide variety of different ways, and not all of them are going to involve the same things.

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The human male seems wired to enjoy thrusting. Our cocks get hard and we just want to slip somewhere slick and wet and thrust and grind until we have an Orgasm. Sadly, these are often not the best ways to give similar climaxes to women. Penetrative sex also poses a much higher risk of sexually transmitted disease transmission, as well as of course the risk of pregnancy in some cases.

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A couple who have just met on a Free sex dating site may not be ready to jump right into fucking. But mutual masturbation can be a wonderful pursuit. This can be done remotely as phone sex or even the modern delight, web cam sex, but it can also be pleasurably done in person. Two can masturbate together at the same time, legs intertwined and enjoying the muscle spasms that each person is experiencing as pleasure increases on the way to cumming. You can also take turns, enjoying the pleasures of manual touch, each touching the other’s genitals or stroking and teasing other parts of one’s lovers body while he or she wanks and fucks themselves.

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People who practice kinky sex or BDSM have a lot of experience in doing activities which are erotic but do not essentially involve penetration. Of course, spanking can be an extremely arousing experience for many people, but does not involve any exchange of sexual fluids unless it is done during doggy style sex!

So try and branch out a little bit. Don’t let sex turn boring or stale. Do one’s best to enjoy other kinds of fucking other than just fucking!

Mars and Venus For Everybody

Friday, July 8th, 2011

Sure it’s a well known fact that gender brain waves and thought patterns differ: that men will simply not notice what surrounds a problem as much as try to find the most straight away solution, to be functional, quick and true; that women need to meander round their point, make their man see their point, then belabor their point even if it was a solution she came up with days before. The question has been in that classic now cliché Mars and Venus approach, what if gay people get together, does gender assume these classic planetoid suppositions or is it something more?

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For the most part gay couples don’t get off an easier. The grand differences still exist between lesbians or homosexual men, they are just not informed by biology; it seems to be more a mindset then if one owns a cock or pussy. Mars and Venus dont just simply orbit the straight end of the street.

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In most relationships, gay, straight, poly, bi, there is usually a partner that takes on the typical male role in things-i.e. the decision maker, the aggressor in bed and house finances, the last say when rearing the children-and someone who takes on the feminine-the housekeeper, the nurturer, the one who understands and tries to keep peaceful the mood of the household. We see the cliché but true roles of lipstick lesbian living with their dyke counterparts, bears courting twinks or gay queens living with a boy toy or a rough neck. Into this complex mix of types, that Mars/Venus petard spins and we find homosexual couples enjoying the very same often confusing, sometime arresting romantic differences straight couples encounter.

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Gay couples might think that they can skirt the pitfalls of hetero relationships by not being allowed same sex marriage or not caring for civil unions, but what none of us can avoid is how our minds work and as long as there is the two different mindsets in a relationship, regardless of sex, then the division will always exist between one person thinking masculine and the other thinking feminine. There will always be the round about as opposed to the straight ahead, the multi layered v.s. the shallow, the fast solution against the more drawn-out one. Nobody gets away unscathed the minute they delve into a love affair.

Learning New Skills

Friday, July 8th, 2011

People who are into BDSM are usually very interested in learning new skills and getting new ideas. They also usually love to show off their own skills and share ideas, whether their talking to newbies or experienced kinky people. Watching other people’s scenes in a dungeon is a great way to get some new ideas or learn some new things. It’s perfectly fine to watch other people’s scenes. Most people play in public because they enjoy having people watch their scenes and they want people to look.

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It’s even okay to talk to the players after the scene is completely finished, and ask questions or ask for some guidance on how to do something that they did. As long as the person asking doesn’t interrupt the scene, most people are more than willing to talk. Even after the scene appears to be over, the Dom and sub might be engaging in aftercare, and that is not an appropriate time to try to talk to either of them. A good rule of thumb is to wait until the people in the scene start mingling with other people again. At that point it’s fine to go up and talk to them and ask some questions. Be sincere and don’t approach a Dom with a sense of entitlement, like he’s somehow obligated to provide whatever information is being sought. Being polite and sincere will go a long way. Another great way to learn some new things is to search online for dungeons, fetish conventions or BDSM events.

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A lot of dungeons and events will occasionally offer classes in various BDSM activities, and the conventions always have classes all day ever day of the conventions. Conventions are largely seen as educational and community building events, so there are always plenty of opportunities to learn a new skill or improve an existing one. Taking classes at a convention is a good idea because after the class people can usually go right into the dungeon area to try out their new skills, and there are often other people in the dungeon who would be happy to help out. Some munches will even have demonstrations or classes, depending on where they are held. If they are in a private room, they may offer something at least once in a while, so don’t rule out a munch as a possible place to learn.

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