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The Visual Feast Fantasy

Saturday, July 23rd, 2011

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A heterosexual guy cannot as much turn away from porn movies as he can kick a woman out of his bed…if he ever gets the time to turn away from porn movies to go out and look for a woman to take to his bed. A Guy’s sexual responses are so very visually led. How many men have been accused time and again by his mate for obsessing over just one of her body parts or indeed watching porn movies too often? But for a man and his movies, it’s the fantasy he seeks to fill both his mind’s eye and his visual senses, and that visual feast fantasy is what porn movies are about for guys.

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This is what women do not really understand about porn and men. Sure, a guy might be getting off on watching the perfect bodies of the porn girls reacting before him, just as a girl can get off on male porn stars swinging ever-erect huge penises, but really what a guy likes about this visual beyond the naked female flesh is that it is a fantasy. For the guy’s real woman, his wife or girlfriend, to recreate, care to or fret over the fact that she can’t replicate this fantasy leads to many a boyfriend/girlfriend argument over porn, but women need to realize they are fighting a battle that can’t be won. They cannot provide their man with this fantasy sex, shouldn’t fret that they can’t and in the end, their man doesn’t want porn movie sex from them.

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No matter how seemingly addicted to porn a guy might seem, how much he might seem to need and want it for his stimulation or even as constant masturbatory fodder, he doesn’t want porn movies as his real sex life. Guys certainly know the difference between fantasy porn sex scenes and the real one’s they share with a lover. And while one might influence the other and while a guy could spend more time watching porn then ever being with his woman, the twain of the fantasy and the reality cannot meet…nor would a guy watch porn movies less if they ever did!

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The Caucasion View

Friday, July 22nd, 2011

Though porn makers will tell us that their audience these days represents a cross-section of men and women-straight, gay and everything in-between, the truth of the matter is that white straight guys make and watch porn more than any other group. Porn reflects their fantasies with a copious amount of girl on girl action, a fair amount of femdom scenes and more than a little classic, if not outright role playing of ethnic stereotypes, certainly with groups of females far from the Caucasian experience.

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This is why Asian porn often looks very much alike from move to movie.

When we do not understand the actions or customs of a group we either grow to fear that group or we invent our own specifications for understanding. Quite quickly Asian woman were perceived as either demure lotus-flower-like damsels who were ever-subservient to their men or dark dangerous seductresses; roles that were easy to understand if not so very accurate. The truth is that, while our ethnicity does color our worldview men and women are complex creatures whose personalities are made-up of many factors, not just where they were born. But these stereotypes last and seep into modern culture and the art that that culture produces. We got and still get some stunted but often repeated ethnic stereotypes of Asian girls, from popular mainstream movies all the way to Asian porn…fueled by a less-then studied Caucasian view.

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Luckily with the net we are exposed to every corner of the globe and come to learn that all men and women aren’t really all that much different than one another. There is a mixing of cultures in the modern world because of how we react to one another, reflected in some breaking-down of the blonde-haired, blue-eyed, big-busted typical porn girl type and some lessening of specific Asian girl stereotypes.

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But the ideals we created so long ago have a tenacious hold and we still see many modern day porn DVD’s being produced and released that show those two typical Caucasian Asian porn stereotypes.

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Myths

Friday, July 22nd, 2011

People have been told that being married is better for you and being single is bad. This comes from a study done in 1858 that track the mortality rates of married, widowed and celibate people. The findings showed that the married people lived longer healthier lives. But recent studies being done at Ohio State University’s College of Medicine have included those in committed relationships and gay relationships to the mix. What These researchers are studying is the effects of psychological stress like marital discord, and the affect on the immune system. Marital stress can be a source of chronic stress. Three studies showed that women in unhappy relationships or still emotionally hung up on the past had weaker immune systems. Happier women single or married had much stronger immune systems. Newlyweds exhibiting the hostile behavior had the largest declines in the immune system.

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Lastly men in women in their 50s and 60s who found themselves single again had a noticeable decline in physical health that they never fully recovered from. So being this belief has been proven to be a myth. Happy and financially secure is the key to longevity. So for many people happiness is shown in sexual ways. For many of those people both single and attached it not only means sex but it also means surfing the internet for Free porn. Free porn is thought to be evil. Many believe it is the root of failed marriages and abuse towards women. A scientist at the University of Hawaii performed studies to see just how bad the effects of pornography were on society at large study is entirely data-driven. He found that porn is not the cause of those evils those that have had a strict, repressive religious upbringing. Are more likely to be abusers and sex offenders. In fact he found no data that suggested a correlation between an increase in the availability of porn and an increase in sex crimes.

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He also found that, research suggests that women use pornography in far higher numbers than some might assume. This is substantiated by a study from Christian Internet monitoring group, that reported that 34 percent of female readers of Today’s Christian Women’s online newsletter admitted to intentionally accessing Internet pornography

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Yes, I Bite

Thursday, July 21st, 2011

There’s an old cliched statement: Don’t be shy, I don’t bite. But for some of us who are interested in an especially uninhibited and free sex life we may want our interactions to have a little more sting and in which case, biting can often be a fun addition to our bedroom interactions. Obviously everyone will feel different about any sexual activity, and this can be good or bad for a specific person. Some people will have concerns about bite marks which can show at work, but even with such people there is a lot of body area to cover, unless of course they are models or a porn star in which case one may have to be a little bit more careful — unless one is an actor too and helping them create sex videos with some hot biting fetish action!

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The Kama Sutra is the ancient guide to sexual behaviors and sex positions which many people have studied over the centuries since it was first created in ancient India. What most people know are that it depicts many different contorted positions in which a person can have sexual intercourse. But it also has guides to all kinds of sexual behavior and one feature of it is that it features quite a lot of material on the subject of erotic biting. Evidently the ancient Indians knew what a thrill it could be, even to the point of including it in their porn!

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One can experiment with biting in many ways and many places. One should generally start gently but one may find that their lover is encouraging them to bite even harder and give them more sensation. Biting can be added to kissing and a make out session, moving from the lips to nuzzle and nibble at the neck and shoulders — though be careful of hickies as we said above. Many women enjoy being bitten on the back of the neck or where the neck and shoulders meet, either as a stimulation on its own or an addition to sex.

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Fantasies

Wednesday, July 20th, 2011

Have you ever wished some of your fantasies could come true? Sure, everyone has. The problem is that people don’t realize it always but fantasies about Free sex should usually stay that way. That’s because reality seldom lives up to a fantasy’s expectations. Things don’t always turn out the way they’re supposed to.

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Somebody has the fantasy of fucking their secretary and finds out that that Free sex wasn’t as good as they thought. Day in and day out they could see this secretary and think she’s hot and they believe that sex with her is going to incredibly exciting but when they finally step up to the plate and make it happen it turns out to be a whopping failure, if they’re lucky and don’t lose their jobs just for trying. Every person is different and there’s plenty of them out there who look like they are the hottest thing since toasted bread and then turn out to be anything but. On the other hand you might find some who don’t look like much but can sure deliver. This is when realities become fantasies. Take that cute librarian for instance. You might imagine she’d be mousy and unskilled at pleasing a man. Then something happens and you get a shot at it. Suddenly you find yourself with a handful of cock starved tigress who doesn’t give up until there’s nothing left of you.

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The differences in fantasy and reality are often times very confusing and disappointing and that’s why sometimes, fantasies should remain that way. Reality seldom lives up to the standards of fantasy and as long as you can get a firm hold on that you can discover that reality doesn’t always have to be the same. The reality of it all can be even better. Real life just happens to have a few tricks up it’s sleeve that even your wildest fantasies couldn’t keep pace with. That’s why to have a truly open mind, you should have some closed fantasies.

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Helping Her Come

Tuesday, July 19th, 2011

We all want to have satisfying sex, and though sometimes the urge is to simply get done and get our rocks off, especially for those of us who are men, this kind of rush to the finish causes problems. It can leave our women unsatisfied and when they are unsatisfied they are unlikely to want to come back to us after a while, leaving us instead for someone more considerate they met through adult personals or a best friend who just wants to see them have an orgasm. Even more than that, when both people are concerned about each other’s sexual pleasure it actually results in both lovers feeling more fulfilled, happy and satisfied without the guilt of utter selfishness.

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Many women are not able to have an orgasm through sexual penetration alone, contrary to what one may see on free porn videos. Even for the rare percentage of women who can come this way it is easier for them to have orgasms with direct clitoral stimulation. One can provide this on one’s own with a finger in the right position, or ask her to touch herself during fucking. It can be especially hot to watch her hand working between her legs while she’s giving one a blow job!

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Some women have never had an orgasm at all and if they do not know what they are going for it may be difficult to help them come in partnered fucking situations that one finds in adult dating. One of the best ways to help in this case is to encourage her to masturbate and touch herself in private, learning her own body better so she can better share it during intimacy. There are a number of books and videos available which are designed to help pre-orgasmic women learn to have satisfying climaxes alone and with a partner. A considerate lover might even purchase such a book as a gift.

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Safe Net Sex

Monday, July 18th, 2011

It’s a fact proven by modern science that just about everyone loves porn. But the Internet is home to not just a plethora of adult video sites, it also is the home to a lot of ugly contagions like computer viruses, trojan horses and spam. What can one do to enjoy all the adult pleasures of the Internet while still keeping one’s computer safe from unsavory programs as well as prying eyes?

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The best thing to do is use a modern and up to date web browser. This will protect you from unintended hangers on with your free sex videos in some cases, though not all. Google Chrome, a very new browser growing in popularity, has far fewer of the security holes which plague online browsers like Internet Explorer. It has one feature which may be especially popular with those going to adult sites — one can choose to open a special incognito browser window. This can be selected from Chrome’s wrench menu or by holding down Ctrl Shift and N on the keyboard. The new browser will not record history and will clear all cookies as soon as it is closed, making one’s session much more private.

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Getting a porn download can be a little trickier at times. Some people use bittorrent and there are specialty torrent sites which cater to adult media. However, some of these have viruses either in the files or their advertising. Having an up to date virus checker is of utmost importance, as is having a secure firewall to keep out intruders. These programs run on a regular basis and also monitor the ongoing processes of one’s computer to look for unwanted software or attempts at intrusion by hackers or bad web sites. There is another class of program called a spy ware checker or anti-spyware software which is also important, getting rid of programs which can hurt one’s privacy or hijack the behavior of the computer and let spammers use it.

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Confectionery

Sunday, July 17th, 2011

When we are greeted with all of the various websites that pop up when we search for Free sex videos or free porn on the Internet, we may tend to feel like a little kid in an old time confectionery shop looking at all the inviting sweets just laid out before us behind the glass counter and not knowing which one we want to sample first.

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Remember when we were little children and our parents would take us into the candy store and let us pick out whatever we wanted to? We were overwhelmed looking at all the rows and rows of sweet treats just set out before us for our perusal and we felt like we wanted it all, and we could not possibly figure out how to decide which candies looked the most appetizing and appealing to us when they all looked amazing, delicious and seemed to be calling out our little names.

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When we have some much sought after and valuable free time and decide to spend a little bit of time on the Internet checking out the sex sites, we feel once again like that little kid in the confectionery store that could not figure out how to choose between the fruit slices and the chocolate covered cherries. The amount and array of websites that will pop up from just the entry of the simplest few words into a search engine can be just crazy. Any search will produce literally hundreds and hundreds of results, and each one of those websites will lead us to hundreds and hundreds more, and so on, and so on.

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So just like when we were kids, it may be best to just close our eyes, take a deep breath, and then just point at something, as it would be pretty hard to be disappointed with what we may end up with on the sweet treat of the modern Internet.

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Dirty Talk Like Porn Stars

Saturday, July 16th, 2011

Our lovers would love it if we were a little more free and raunchy in bed. Everyone loves some dirty talk, when their fuck buddy takes the time to not just do things but tell them how good it feels or to share some filthy thoughts as they get it on. But how do we learn to share in this erotic verbal delight? One thing we can do is learn from some of the experts on verbal sexy banter, one class of which and probably among the most practiced users of filthy words are porn stars for whom it is a part of their everyday job to talk dirty to the people they are being paid to fuck or vice versa.

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It can be hard to be bold and extra verbal in the bedroom. We are taught to be shy or even ashamed of sexual matters so it can be hard to let loose even when we are with a trusted and intimate partner. Now if anyone has watched a porno before, they will know that sometimes the dialogue is extremely cheesy. We’re not suggesting that you necessarily role play out the infamous pizza guy comes over and gets seduced scenario, although that might add some humorous thrills to your games. Nor are we advising faking an orgasm — leave those kinds of theatrics to the professionals and enjoy genuine pleasure with one’s lovers.

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But what one can learn from porn is that the best way to dirty talk is to just let it flow. Don’t be afraid of sounding silly or weird. In the heat of the moment, one is likely to sound desperately sexy to one’s fuck friend regardless of how it might seem later or when imagining it before. We can practice ahead of time, too, enjoying an erotic monologue while masturbating or even just fantasizing. Sex videos that others have made may also be a source of good sexy things to say to one’s love.

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Keep it Simple

Friday, July 15th, 2011

The Internet these days is just exploding with Sex videos of all kinds for us to peruse and enjoy. Sometimes, though, it seems as though the simplest videos are often the best ones.

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Who would have ever imagined that there would be so many websites available at just the touch of a mouse in technologically advanced 2011? Just as recently as only about 20 or 25 years ago we could not even have imagined the world wide web and all the possibilities it would bring to us, never mind having hundreds of web sites to choose from for every single subject imaginable. When we initiate a search on the Internet and click on the search button, the results appear before us in a matter of just seconds, and there are normally so many results that we do not know where to start exploring them.

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As we begin to try to go through all of the adult entertainment web sites that are available to us, we notice that some sites are pretty simple while others are quite elaborate. Unless we are looking for a very specific and very defined fetish of some sort, it seems that the simple sites are usually the best ones. If we get caught up in trying to figure out how too many props work or keeping track of too many people at one time, we tend to get caught up in the mechanics and production aspects of things and may lose track of the point and purpose of the video, and of our libido as well.

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It is best not to mired in the masks, and costumes, and latex, and elaborate paraphernalia, unless of course that is your interest and your thing and what you were very deliberately searching for to begin with.

Whether simple or elaborate, there is something for each and every one of us when it comes to porn on the Internet.

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