Sometimes couples can fall into a rut, when it comes to rutting. That is, human sexuality is a wide and diverse field with all kinds of fun, pleasurable activities. One merely has to look at the wide diversity of Porn to realize that humans fuck in a wide variety of different ways, and not all of them are going to involve the same things.
The human male seems wired to enjoy thrusting. Our cocks get hard and we just want to slip somewhere slick and wet and thrust and grind until we have an Orgasm. Sadly, these are often not the best ways to give similar climaxes to women. Penetrative sex also poses a much higher risk of sexually transmitted disease transmission, as well as of course the risk of pregnancy in some cases.
A couple who have just met on a Free sex dating site may not be ready to jump right into fucking. But mutual masturbation can be a wonderful pursuit. This can be done remotely as phone sex or even the modern delight, web cam sex, but it can also be pleasurably done in person. Two can masturbate together at the same time, legs intertwined and enjoying the muscle spasms that each person is experiencing as pleasure increases on the way to cumming. You can also take turns, enjoying the pleasures of manual touch, each touching the other’s genitals or stroking and teasing other parts of one’s lovers body while he or she wanks and fucks themselves.
People who practice kinky sex or BDSM have a lot of experience in doing activities which are erotic but do not essentially involve penetration. Of course, spanking can be an extremely arousing experience for many people, but does not involve any exchange of sexual fluids unless it is done during doggy style sex!
So try and branch out a little bit. Don’t let sex turn boring or stale. Do one’s best to enjoy other kinds of fucking other than just fucking!