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Blanket Approach

Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

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The majority rules and adult movie makers take it to heart when making adult sex videos. Most Porn makers use a blanket approach in creating what appeals to the largest audience. It is for that reason that they typically stick to a tried and true formula of girl is easy and willing, fuck her in these positions. The actors may change but the action will remain the same. Foreplay is something you save for your girlfriend, it isn’t something that you see in sex videos. It isn’t why the guy buying the movie is there.

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He wants to see the participants get right down to it. There might be a brief period of oral sex as one or the other, most usually first the girl goes down on the guy. They switch up again very briefly and then the fucking begins. There are three or four positions which offer the best camera angle and occasionally another brief period of oral sex. Finally there is the climax which features the guy pulling his cock out and masturbating until  he cums all over the face and tits of the waiting woman on her knees. She is usually begging for it. There may be the occasional scene featuring anal sex but that isn’t as popular as cream pie shots. This if it aint broke don’t fix it formula has proven bank. It gives the guy watching the movie plenty of action for his money and because the scenes have the most popular positions and money shots the audience is going to find something that gets them hot and bothered enough to buy another movie with the same actors.

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For the regular porn watcher the formula becomes a problem since once you’ve seen one you’ve seen them all. But sometimes familiar is a good thing like with the parody sex movies. Young men like to revisit familiar sitcoms and movies with an adult flair. After all the Brady sex parody had guys all buying it because everyone wanted to bone Marsha.

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What Comes Next

Saturday, June 25th, 2011

The very idea that we would be at exactly this time and place in our technology would have been impossible to fathom only five years before. Gaming, advances in digital communications and our interpersonal relationships have been so affected so quickly, the rate we change now is startling. From our business to our sex lives we see changes every day and whether they make us better is anybody’s guess.
What we do know though is that we have no idea of the changes coming.

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As far as our interactions with one another, most likely we will continue to grow closer as a people and at the same time continue to isolate ourselves from one another. There will be ever more opportunities for masturbating contact, and maybe even a backlash among people who want to date more, faster, hook-up, mate quicker, but there will be just as many lovers. loving each other only on-line or avoiding real contact for on-line moments of intimacy. And we’ll keep it all as portable as we seem to be.

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Real services and products will see a decline as we do for ourselves with the abilities afforded us and as we become ever more jaded to what we can do ourselves when it comes to products and services. The companies that create will need to create a better bread box right along with a more powerful vibrator, escorts are going to have to present something worth leaving the house for and porn companies are going to have to market their dirty movies-and make a better dirty movie at that-for people who want to see them, people who will most likely be downloading for free well into the future.

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Mainly though our leisure time will probably increase and we will want ever more diversions to fill it. We might simply take to one another and see a rise in sex and in turn baby-making but then again we might stick deep in our cocoons and enjoy even more a technology that allows us to be alone, quiet and free of sticky relationships and human interactions. There is no predicting really how sad and reclusive we might become in the future and how much we might not care we are.

As we sit masturbating the future is upon us.

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The High Priced Love Of A Woman

Sunday, May 15th, 2011

As much as they might be trying to convince themselves otherwise, men buy sex dolls for one purpose and one purpose only. Sure the higher-end dolls produced today cost so much that their price is pejorative for the common guy-or girl-to purchase and there are plenty of collectors of unusual sexual items and toys and even more erotic photographers who would indeed benefit from a pose-able fake girl who would never charge for a photo shoot or stop a session for a pre break, but a sex doll at any price is mostly bought to fuck.

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If one is moving way from masturbating with their hand, off of a vibrator or even one of the more popular vagina replicas fitted into cans or the end of flashlights, graduating from stroking themselves with a jelly-like mold or even away from their lubed baseball mitt or sock, one might want to consider the reason one would ever want a life-seized replica of a woman when one could certainly spend better money and time on dating. A high-priced call girl will consider the most hideous man and at least that man will be experience the pleasures of a flesh-and-blood woman.

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What drives a man-or woman, since some of these new fangled dolls can be outfitted transsexual with attachable penises-to seek the attentions of an intimate object that for all intents and purposes he imagines not intimate might simply be more than a need to rub against the heated innards of a synthetic material built for that purpose. The customer in question might have a fetish for having sex with objects or simply and attraction to dolls, Agalmatophilia as it is called in psychological terms that must be realized in order to be satiated. For sure there are hundreds of sites on line that cater to any of a number of kinks and non-vanilla sexual practice; wanting sex with a doll is no more unusual then so many others.

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As with most things driven by a consumer base, the population of people who want to buy high-priced sex dolls makes them lucrative for someone to produce. And as with any other sexual aid we use to increase our intimacy, aid our sex life, or just help us to get off faster, the dolls range in price and in materials used in their construction.

It’s just our reasons for using them that don’t change all that much.

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In Praise of Porn

Wednesday, May 11th, 2011

Even though many people put down other people who enjoy looking at erotic images or read sexually explicit books and such the fact is that erotica or pornography can actually be a way of enhancing your sex life in many new and imaginative ways. A good way of looking at this approach is to view erotica or pornography as a kind of sexual or erotic catalog: a way of seeing what else is out there in the world to try or simply to think about and fantasize about while masturbating. Pornography, by itself, is relatively harmless as long as the people involved in it are of-age and what they are doing is not harmful and they are all consenting adults. But even so it is essential to remember that fantasies are just that and even though something might be erotic to look at or read about there is no reason it needs to be done in real-life.

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By viewing or reading porn men and women can be exposed to new and potentially interesting new forms of erotica. The way to do this is either to “spin off” what you normally enjoy looking at or reading or simply try a jump in a totally new direction. For example if you enjoy looking at pictures, say, of women with large breasts try finding images you find sexually arousing with pictures of women with smaller breasts or even in a new direction by looking at random pictures of such. Many men as well as women have found whole new avenues of sexuality and arousal by simply taking a bit of time and cruising the web aimlessly or renting a video they normally would not look at. The sheer availability of the stuff simply makes all this porn so a healthy deep well to explore.

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So while, yes, erotica and pornography may make some people uncomfortable – or that they are simply uncomfortable with the erotic and sexual thoughts or feelings erotica and pornography may bring up in them- we need to keep in mind that pornography can actually be a good and best of all healthy way of expanding your sexual horizons. Alone, with a lover or sharing with friends, porn opens doors in ways no other way of communicating about sex ever can.

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All Creatures Great and Horny

Monday, May 9th, 2011

There have been often told tales of lovers who go off into the woods to supposedly watch certain animals in their natural habitat and wind-up fucking themselves. More than one marshal art is based on the movements of animals and when we are horny more often the not we regard our baser, animalistic passions coming to the fore.

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In the U.K. recently horny birdwatchers were caught by park rangers using secluded bird watching huts for their late night love-making. The hunt and chase of the supposed civilized fix hunt brings men’s cocks round to erection as they ride their horses, and many a woman is both repelled by animal blood on her man’s hunting jacket as grows aroused when she prepares the meat of animal he has killed.

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Ironically almost all bird species are monogamous, in fact many animals exhibit mating behavior that would do well on a dating site but we, as the most intelligent animal-arguably-retain the right to root and scurry in our basest basements for debasement of our lovers.

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We might not be following our feathered friends or scurry brothers, we might indeed by leading the charge in our animalist sense when it comes to sex.

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Then there are the aberrations to heterosexual sex we indulge in that seem to be seen in other mammal’s behaviors to; black swans have been known for some homosexual pairings and almost all species have been seen masturbating. We do though seem to have kinks and fetishes pretty much sown up as far as truly non vanilla sexual practices are concerned!

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The truth is that no animal is above the other in how refined their sexual practices might be. When it comes to these incredibly complicated yet base urges we all pretty much are taken over by a blood fever, want to get off, with our without a partner.

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It a thing lives it pretty much poops and eats and if that thing wants to continue to propagate its own species it pretty much, for the most part, most procreate with another of its species to do so. The urge to spawn, to rub up against, to feel pleasure is as strong for the salmon as it is for a homosexual teenager looking for his first blowjob.

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Finding Real Orgasms

Thursday, May 5th, 2011

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One of the worst things about most porn is that the woman fakes her orgasm. Because so many sex videos were originally marketed toward men and it was thought they didn’t care about or notice such things, we have the current state of porn with terribly fake, overly theatrical orgasms which no one believes are a real cum. Not only do these turn off many women who would otherwise enjoy pornography, but men find them a drag too now that they realize what is going on.

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The Internet is full of free sex videos but where to find the good ones? It can help to know what to search for. Amateur porn is one of the most popular growing categories of x-rated movie because it shows genuine people and genuine sex. It is often possible to find videos of women masturbating or couples having sex where both the man and the girl cums. Amateur porn has become so popular that some studios have started to fake it, creating films with professional porn stars that are pretending to be amateurs, using low production values like hand held cameras. Other movies have come out with porn stars allowed to pick who they sleep with and having self-directed sex with each other, choosing how to fuck and in what positions or whether to perform oral sex, blowjobs or money shots or just take the cum deep inside like the rest of us would. With Internet porn stars the line between amateur and professional in adult video has blurred to the point of meaninglessness but the point is that one can now find many sex videos with genuine orgasms in them.

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Porn films for women are a genre that sometimes has real orgasms because women are concerned with seeing their pleasure reflected on screen just as they imagine it to look when they come. Female ejaculation videos offer a unique take on the adult orgasmic moment as the woman shows genuine squirting evidence of her pleasure.

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Water & Sex

Saturday, April 16th, 2011

For many a couple the eroticism of water; having sex in it, playing with it, even the buoyancy of how it carries and lifts our bodies, is very intense. The very specific physical nature of floating in water while fucking, naked bodies sliding this way and that in the shower or under a pool, even the coolness or heat felt as certain liquids are tickled across certain body part, truly makes water one of the most sexual of all elements. The cliché couple rolling across a sun-kissed beach while waves splash them, or two people frolicking in a pool matches well to the sloshing sounds of water breaking over its container or the orgasmic crash of waves smashing against a rocky shoal. We are one with water as much from our being as to our sexuality.

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From the steamy surrounds of hot tub sex to masturbating with a shower head, to the deep fetishes of water sports of piss and scat, to the sensation arousal of lighting a bare buttock with a spray of cool water before spanking it, or a woman going down on her man with ice-cubes In her mouth, all the forms of water at all its various temperatures is arousing to lovers, from gay to bi to straight couples. A quick perusal of on-line sites will reveal just as many fetishes and sexual escapades with water as without.

Better in then out though, water presents a host of problems as a lubricant and should not be introduced into the vagina or anus. A woman’s natural wetness is as much washed away by water as a man will find jerking-off in the shower nearly impossible-certainly more abrasive then arousing-if he uses the needle spray as a lubricant. Though we are made up of 70% water and can be mightily aroused by it, sticking to silicone lubes or any other variation of other safe liquids beats water-based lubes every time.

The actual act of making-love in or around water-considering we are clutched close so not much water can come between us-possibly cooling or heating breasts, buttocks or testicles with a nice fast splash or finding romance with the rolling of the sea beyond are all ways water fuels the sexiness in our sex lives.

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It’s Not Easy Being A Porn Star

Sunday, September 5th, 2010

The last time you watched your favorite porn star get filled with cock on tape, you probably never stopped to think how the whole production comes together. There are many people behind the scenes, working hard to make sure that perfectly bleached asshole is prim and proper for the last anal scene of the day. It is not an easy job to be a porn star, especially if you happen to be a man.

The idea of fucking someone for hours on end would take a toll on any hopeful swinging dick. Imagine having to achieve an erection on command, through camera and light changes. Not only do you have to have a dick the size of a baby’s arm, you got to keep that blood pumping to your cock. You’ll likely pass out if you keep an erection for more than a few hours, so you better start training if you hope to have a chance in hell of becoming a porn star.

Next time you are busy masturbating to some free porn online, and your dog walks in, notice how (hopefully) you find it hard to keep an erection when your being watched? Now imagine 20 people standing around, waiting on you to provide a cum shot of mammoth proportions. You have to be able to paint that bitch white with your magic wand, so you cant afford to be shy. I don’t imagine training in front of a pack of dogs will help you overcome this fear, however maybe some impromptu public masturbation will help you be more comfortable whipping your dick out in front of strangers. That, or it will be an easy way to earn a couple merit points on your criminal record.

Lastly, likely one of the hardest feats for any future professional fucker is to enjoy sex enough to be able to do it everyday. Doing anything day in and day out can be a mother fucking nightmare. After the first couple fucks on film, your mojo will likely be diminishing as quick as your boner. You got to have a serious ability to fuck all day, or else your going to be doing the walk of shame to your trailer.

So there you have it, some of the reasons it can be damn hard to be a porn star. You have to have the complete package or you will never make it in this sex fueled era we live in. Try making some amateur porn with a small cast and crew, see how you do and then decide if you think should move up the major leagues.

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