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Sexual Fantasies Made Real

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

tumblr_leld1vHQ5e1qdgd5bo1_500There are some who do not realize that some fantasies are meant to be just that, fantasies. Not everything you see while watching free porn is something you are meant to do yourself.

Some of these sexual fantasies are not supposed to be fulfilled and when you figure that out you will live a much happier life.

For instance it may be one of your premier fantasies to fuck the bosses wife or daughter, but upon reflection one can clearly see where this might not be the best course of action even should said wife or daughter want it.

One has to think things through and figure that although the wife or daughter might want it, it is a situation that easily turn ugly and disastrous to say the least, very quickly.

What if the woman suddenly decides that you can do things for them, what if something goes bad and they become an enemy rather than a friend. These are all very realistic possibilities and you could coerced, or exploited, blackmailed or worse. These are all just as possible as your actually getting that piece of ass from them. There is no piece of ass regardless of how good it might be that is worth all the trouble and disaster that could ensue from such an encounter. There are many reasons why such a thing would be a bad idea. So when you simply realize and accept the truth of a thing you will be much better off.

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Besides, that leaves room for a great deal of other fantasies you can make happen. A threesome with the right partner is always a possibility as is perhaps making your own porn movie with your partner. There are a lot of things you can do to really spice things up without crossing a line you may well regret. Not all our thoughts will lead to good kink magic, or any magic at all! It is simply a good sound plan to always evaluate and consider things well before you dive in and try to make them happen.

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If you play smart, you will have a much greater reward than if you simply did things with little consideration beyond getting your rocks off and giving in to greed. Greed will be your undoing every single time.

The Disembodied Pussy

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

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Straight boys are fascinated in a woman’s vagina almost to the exclusion of all else-expect friction-and this chalice of womanhood has been celebrated in art, music, free porn, and literature as much as the phallus that fits inside it. Other female body parts may fascinate the straight guy, even gat man have been known to take notice of a firm high shelf of breasts or a nice swaying buttocks, still it is the vagina that ultimately has the most pull.

But over the time of a straight man’’s life the cunt, vaja-jay, hairpie-whatever it is to be called-becomes less of a fascination, less something women can hold out from their partners or wield with impunity.

Because over time, men realize there is a woman attached to that pussy.

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It takes a man a while but he does come around. First he has to get his mind off fucking. He has to realize that the fact that his dick is hard is truly only fascinating to him! Hopefully from this ephifany he learns to care about and subsequently please his bed partner, whomever he or she happens to be. Lastly, the man might grow to the point where he stops objectifying, or at least tempers his need to objectify, body parts to the exclusion of the person who sports a pair of breasts or a cute ass. And then, the very thing women wish men would do more often-notice them as a whole-renders a woman less powerful.

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If a man begins to notice the whole woman, not just her ass, tits and that deep well of her mystery her vagina, then the woman no longer has the mystery of her parts to hold over her man. Men who wish to be controlled by the cunt can still be, but that is a self-imposed slavery to a body part most adult men will not coddle. Seasoned guys will no longer worship a woman’s parts simply because they have grown to the point where they recognize a woman is a sum of her parts. Sure, guys are still set-up to see first and fit the piece into the whole later, but the pieces become less important as men grow older.

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Or if not, they stay ready and waiting to be pussy whipped …just like they want to be.

The New Horizons

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_ler0yiCZ731qd7x8zo1_500Finding new horizons in your sex life can be a fun and exciting experience but it can also be one you can easily get carried away with when you don’t do it responsibly. Whether you are in a committed relationship with a love interest or whether you are fucking strangers, you must always take care not to allow yourself to go too far or get carried away. When you are feeling jaded and looking for a new sex experience you have to be careful you don’t allow yourself to become too seduced by the pleasure. Everyone has limits on how far they will go and while it is always healthy to challenge those limits from time to time it is also very healthy to remember why those limits are there in the first place.

Just because you decide you have found your limit does not mean you have refused to grow or that you are small or close minded. It means you have standards and you stick to them. And one might be amazed at how wonderful and vibrant one’s fucking might become when a couple sticks to some of the same things, but discover a new level to their tried-and true standards they did not know existed before. Oral sex can be aided and improved by the addition of foods, syrups or sweet things to go with a little pussy licking or some cock sucking. And many people realize they in fact might be a little kinkier then they first imagined and by wearing some clothes they might already have in their closet their entire mood might change to what they want sexually! A simple change the location when one has sex can do wonders to a staid sex life, as well as simply ideas of what to say and maybe how to act.

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There are all sorts of ways you can vary the things you already enjoy without having to do entirely different things. Watching free porn vids can give you some ideas.  You just have to be able to see the same things with a brand new perspective and discover that something has layers and levels you have never experienced before. You have gone to entirely new territory and yet still retained your standards of conduct. You have gotten the best of all worlds involved and are satisfied in ways you never imagined before. The orgasms you experience now can be greater than ever before.

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Masturbation Serenity

Monday, March 7th, 2011

tumblr_lf7ng676n21qzck00o1_500What some people may consider a self-indulgent activity while watching free porn, masturbation may be —even more than they anticipated.

Masturbation is not only a great way to get off when you’re horny and alone, but it might be your way into a meditative state, or into the deep Self, if you will. All kinds of sounds and activities can help produce the mind states associated with meditation or trance.

Stroking the bat or petting the cat might be the perfect method for those who easily link sexuality with spirituality.

Repetition is one condition that is known to help a person tune into a place of stillness in the mind or body. That repetition can come from sound, as in meditation music that has a quieting pattern, or from the chanting of a mantra. Saying an affirmation every day to yourself in the mirror is a kind of repetition that evokes a light trance state and feelings of positivity.

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Masturbation is a powerful tool for repetition and positivity. There is repeating motion in the hand as on pleasures their genitals. There are the waves of pleasure themselves which repeat in their own patterns and obviously produce good feelings. By getting into a state of slowly building pleasure, a person can find a psychological realm that feels like a peaceful trance-like experience.

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In this form of masturbation, the goal is not immediate orgasm. Take your time. Allow yourself to be in the journey toward climax, a journey that could last for hours. By approaching orgasm then backing off from your repetitive hand movements, you can not only stay in the peaceful realm, but build and build the powerful sexual energy. Some people call the getting close and backing off edging while the state of mind that can occur in being so close to orgasm for an extended time is called gooning.

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This practice can be done anywhere you normally relax. If you like to jill or jack off in a warm, scented oil bath, try this method there. If you stroke it in bed watching sex videos before sleeping, go to bed early and try this with enough time to make it last a while. Once you are finally going to allow yourself to cum, get ready for some amazing feelings. You will have a phenomenal release.

The Disembodied Cock

Saturday, March 5th, 2011

tumblr_lbjjauoMls1qeu5sfo1_500The older we get the more we notice …even if we don’t want to. Certainly our sexual vocabulary increases in what we want, how we want it, and what we know we must do to get it. We begin to notice the nuance of a touch, the sensuality of someone’s smile and how the way someone acts to and with us is the very best foreplay. We need the look and feel of body parts just as much as ever, but beyond the hubris of youth, a certain bloom is off the rose, not that we don’t still like looking at the rose, but the pedals and stem attract us just as much.

This is why the disembodied cock isn’t as attractive as it might have once been.

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Gay men and straight girls might be fascinated by the male member, but as they grow older, it depends more who the dick is attached to then it does the dick itself to inform the attractiveness of that dick. Used to be, one could marvel over a thick bulge and never raise one’s eyes to the face of the man who sported that heavy crotch; as one grows older, the crotch-no matter how attractive-does not exist independent from the man. Something shifts in our psyches as we feel a little seasoning and body parts, no matter how thick or long, are simply just body parts.

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In most cases, no matter their age, straight women never objectify male parts as much as straight men objectify a woman’s tits, ass …everything, part and parcel from the woman they are attracted to. Gay men to, because they have the same parts as their lover, do not have as much a fascination for objectification. It’s not to say any of us, whatever sex or sexual orientation, don’t enjoy looking at or touching the bounce, firmness, thickness, roundness or length of a specific naughty pink part from time to time, it’s just that as time wears on we are less apt to find only the part itself attractive separate from the person whose part it is, doubly so if one is a hetero or a gay man who didn’t really objectify all that much to begin with.

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Though certainly championed in advertising and in porn, regardless of size, the cock itself means very little to anyone truly unless attached to a man whom one wants to know.

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Sinking The Ship

Friday, March 4th, 2011

tumblr_lbssovRx681qz6f9yo1_500A leopard cannot change it spots – …neither can young adult males decrease their testosterone flow. Whether gay, bi or straight, guys are all over the net not only downloading porn but looking for someone to hook-up with. Whether joining on-line dating sites, social networking hubs or simply trolling the groups section of Myspace guys are just as horny as ever, but now have the net to temper their pursuits in what seems a socially acceptable and respectable approach.

The net is as much a portal for sex these days as it is for anything else… in fact the Internet is the perfect place to exercise our dirtier interests.  One undeniable fact is true, adults want to be fucking, rubbing and sucking as much as they can or are comfortable with a partner they find to fuck, rub and suck with.

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Male humans, especially young guys, are ruled by their nescient libido more then they are often their good commons sense and finding another avenue in which to pursue conquests, namely, on-line, they have made the net their personal procurement playground.

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How men go about attempting to find a date, than seduce that date doesn’t matter. Terms used for sex, on the net or off, change with ridiculous regularity, but it comes down to the same specifics of seduction it always has: men using their wit and wiles to secure a date. Whether they are emailing, posting a profile picture, chatting in a local chatroom or even joining a fetish site, these ways of strutting on-line are no different then being available every Tuesday night for a bookstore run with a buddy or scoping out the local supermarket for the weeknight that attracts the most single shoppers.

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It might seem that the game of sex, flirting, seduction, even hooking-up and the tales told afterward are more private, or at least more likely to be anonymous these days, but methodology is the only thing that may have changed. Euphemisms morph generation to generation but the game is still played and the game is sex for the red-blooded male. Shy or a playboy, teen or middle age, single and even married, men are still out there on the prowl and are using the Internet in ways that even the most adept hacker would be proud of.

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Latex

Friday, March 4th, 2011

06Latex rubber is used most often in the fetish world as a form of clothing. It binds tightly to the body, hides very little and looks sleek enough to remain pleasing to the eye. Often seen in fetish clubs, latex appears so sleek that it looks like a second skin on many people. It has its own dedicated magazines and group following.  It’s actually a subculture of rubber fetishism.

Latex picks up body oils and retains warmth quite well so it should be noted that a dressing aid may be useful in helping the wearer put on the clothing. Talcum powder or some lubricant such as petroleum jelly will help guard against potential allergic reactions all while making it easier to put on the clothing.Latex clothing comes in a variety of fashions, sizes, shapes and colors. Everything from thongs, latex lingerie and bras have been made from latex all the way to the full body suit. Boots, gloves, masks and body suits found their way into the Fetish scene, giving the wearer a different look than the usual matte leather.

Most common articles of clothing include bondage mittens, hoods, goggles, ball gags, garter belts, boots, and even the daunting body bag.  Oils, metals, extreme sunlight, and sharp objects should be kept away from latex as it’s a fairly durable material. Proper storage of latex involves keeping your garments in black bags hunt in cool, dark places away from extreme temperatures. Latex should be cleaned shortly after wearing to remove any body oils that it has been exposed to. Rinse the garment well in warm water. Some manufacturers recommend using a mild soap, while others suggest only water. Hang on a plastic or wood hanger to dry, or lay flat to dry.

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The garment can be wiped gently with a soft towel to decrease drying time if desired. When one side is dry, turn inside out and let the other side dry as well. When completely dry, separate any latex that has stuck together and lightly dust the garment with talc to prevent any further sticking. Some will use a small amount of silicone dressing aid instead.  It is not recommended to store light and dark latex garments in direct contact as this can discolor the light latex.

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Deserving a Spanking

Tuesday, March 1st, 2011

phap3699The art of corporal punishment more commonly known as spanking is one that many couples enjoy, to varying degree. For some there’s nothing sexier than a red hot ass where the nerves have opened up and blood has rushed to the area, others like the idea, patter, clothes and cause-and-effect a good spanking gives.

The ass is mostly muscle, so it’s harder to hurt than other body parts. It’s also one of the strongest muscles in the human body. It’s also one of the most talked about features of the human body. No man or woman can resist a hot, well-muscled or tight ass on the partner of their choosing. With all the nerve endings in the ass and around the anus in particular, it’s no wonder spanking fetishes are popular in sexual culture.

The fetish itself is versatile. It can be involved in role play: The priest and naughty nun, the school marm and student, principal and teacher, even babysitter and her charge. What’s taboo to one person is often highly sexualized to another and there is no denying that a power exchange, even something as subtle as a man ordering his lover’s meal on a date as his lover acquiesces to the this attention, is sexy.

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Some psychiatrists suggest that love of spanking stems from childhood issues and for many that may be true. Others simply find the fetish to be an extreme turn-on. It’s gender neutral, which means both men and women can get something out of it. For women, the feeling of helplessness and submission makes her wet, because it stimulates those nerve endings. The anticipation of sexual intercourse from contact of one of her erogenous zones heightens the sensation for her. If a woman takes on the dom role, she might be playing in a way she usually doesn’t in life, being aggressive or demanding in ways she would never dream of.

For men, turning a sweet, hot bottom pink is more about control and dominance in addition to maybe getting laid…if the guy plays dom. A man giving up control, allowing himself to be bare-bottomed and swatted is a good release to, as many men have to play a more dominate role in their everyday lives.

Overall, all this attention on the bottom truly uses this most erogenous zone to its fullest.  Watch some spanking porn to get the idea of what sort of possibilities are out there.  Unlike other zones such as the breasts and back of the neck, the sexual arousal nerves in the bottom are buried in a layer of fat and require harder stimulation to trigger and this is why spanking is an obvious choice.

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Is Online Porn The Same As Real Porn?

Sunday, February 20th, 2011

What we look for in our fantasies is not what we necessarily want in our real life. Sure porn girls and guys look great, a bleached asshole is certainly something most people donít see every day and a hard dick standing straight up for hours on end is most hetero girls dream, but in the end we have to deal with the fact that we do not live porn star lives nor would we really want all that sex, in all those ways, most of the time.

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Porn is great though because it provides us with this fantasy as an outlet, but then we take one step back from porn movies and DVDís to the porn shown on- line and over the net, and while not even different in content-in fact in many cases itís the very same movie-watching porn on our PC and downloading, usually for free is certainly different than watching a tried and true porno film one pops into the DVD player.

The access to porn on the net, the actual ability to scroll through all those selections, just like one would on an online dating site, for a nominal fee even, makes the porn different then buying or having to rent a DVD somewhere and popping it into a home player. Sure the concept is the same, one is watching a highly styilzsed visual representation of a sex act to arouse one to either a masturbatory state or to arouse ones partner enough so the couple might engage in some foreplay and maybe even some further fucking.

But the ability to download exactly what we want when we want, even snippets per say, and in most cases for free makes watching porn on line as wholly different from how watching porn on our DVDís and home theater systems was different from seeing a dirty movie in a theater with sticky floors and an audience of the rain coat crowd!

From stag films to movie theaters to video tapes to DVDs and now the digital download revolutions porn has and will survive but with every new technology in how to watch the dirty images the industry quakes with the realization that people can and do get their dirty stuff easier and cheaper and sometimes for free as the years progress.

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Corset Training

Saturday, February 5th, 2011

Corsets are very beautiful and scream porn, but they can also be very functional and serious garments that are capable of modifying a person’s body, and have become a popular fetish. It is appropriate to say “a person’s body”, because body modification by corset training works on both men and women, and men are starting to enjoy the sleek silhouette that a corset can provide.

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If a person is considering corset training, the first thing to know is that the lingerie corsets found in most stores are not the appropriate corsets for corset training. They are usually made of a flimsy fabric and contain plastic boning, which will bend as the person moves and will probably break pretty quickly. The correct corset for corset training will have a metal busk, metal boning and will be lined with a material called coutil, which is an extremely stiff cotton fabric. The combination of the metal busk, the metal boning and the coutil provide the rigidity the corset needs to provide figure control to the wearer. Good quality corsets will include a combination of rigid steel boning and spiral boning that is flexible which is necessary as the corset gets tightened over time. The outside material of the corset can be nearly anything, but in custom made corsets they tend to be a heavy satin or brocade material that looks and feels very luxurious.

To do corset training, a corset should be approximately four to six inches smaller than the person’s waist. Tight lacing should not be attempted right away, as it will be extremely uncomfortable. Tightening is a gradual process that requires patience. The wearer needs to get used to wearing a corset. Corset training requires that the person wear the corset 23 hours a day every day. When first starting, the corset should be pulled so that it takes no more than two inches off the wearer’s waist. This is comfortable and will allow the wearer to grow accustomed to the restrictive nature of the corset. Each week, the corset can get pulled a little tighter to reduce the waist even more. The wearer of the corset will find that their posture is greatly improved and that their waist begins to retain its smaller size, even when the corset is removed.

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