Archive for April, 2011

A Guide to Swallowing

Friday, April 15th, 2011

You don’t have to be a porn star to swallow. The average male semen contains roughly 0.1 and 100 milliliters of sperm and holds a fascination for both men and women in the form of swallowing semen. As far as consistency and taste go, that is usually the issue in question when it comes to whether a partner swallows or not.

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The fetish of swallowing traces its’ origins a long way back. Dating back to the Church of Epiphanius and other libertine Gnostics who swallowed sperm as the body of Christ, and a form of worship. The tribes of Papua New Guinea have culturally believed that semen provides sexual maturity among the younger men of the tribe. The practice of fellating the elders in order to gain their authority and power is held for prepubescent and post pubescent men of the tribe. This practice may also relate to practiced homosexuality in these tribes.

Dietary supplements have been on the market for a number of years as a way to increase the volume of semen provided in a man. None of these supplements have been validated by the scientific community.

The typical makeup of ejaculation consists primarily of water but also contain every nutrient needed by the human body in order to function properly. A typical dosage of semen contains at least 150 mg of protein, 11 mgs of carbohydrates and other trace minerals. The only risks involved in swallowing cum are those of fellatio such as transmission of STDs between unclean partners.

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While there is no hardcore scientific evidence in changing the taste of semen, many people swear diet has an influential factor in shaping the taste. Red meats, tobacco and alcohol typically infuse a bitter or acrid taste while coffee and teas also do nothing to aid in the taste. Fresh fruits and vegetables, while good for the body are also believed to sweeten the taste significantly. Prolonged times between ejaculation intervals are also said to contribute to the volume of semen produced and shot out.

Sexual practices of swallowing have gone so far to include bukkake from the Japanese culture, cream pies, snowballing and felching, which may involve more than one partner. Aleister Crowley and the Ecclesia Gnostica Catholica practice swallowing semen during Gnostic Mass as a way to gain spiral power from the Divine.

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The Smell of Sex

Thursday, April 14th, 2011

Human beings are immensely responsive to the sense of smell. Other animals of course are immensely responsive to smell and special chemicals known as sexual pheromones. They have special ways of smelling using something called a vomeronasal gland which allows them to detect these pheromonal scents. Modern science has not determined for sure to what degree humans have pheromones or are able to respond to them. Some chemicals have been identified — in sexual juices like semen and female ejaculate, as well as sweat especially from places like the armpits — if one has enjoyed the smell of a special lover’s sweat than this may very well be the reason. However scientists cannot agree on whether or not the human vomeronasal gland — also known as the Jacobson’s organ — is active. Even so many products are now available which purport to claim pheromones, from perfumes and colognes to soaps and scented candles all designed with scents designed to get cunts slippery, to make a penis erect or otherwise get one in the mood for some deep hard fucking or some romantic love-making.

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What is strange is the love/hate relationship that humanity has with its own sex scents. On the one hand many worry endlessly about how they smell, bathing more than necessary or covering up with perfumes or douche. Yet many of these same perfumes contain musk and even animal pheromones which suggest the idea of arousal. Our attraction to the odor of another person may have much to do with the way one selects a potential mate at a genetic level. Pregnant women and those on some kinds of birth control may crave a different kind of sexual partner, perhaps one that is more stable and compassionate than the raunchy, virile fuck-buddy they seek on online dating sertvices during the rest of the time.

Smell and taste are two senses that are intimately linked, even crossed together in many cases in human brains. Perhaps that is why scent is so intimately linked with oral sex, especially cunnilingus. We want our lovers to be clean but even a freshly showered cunt smells like the unique smell of our fuck friend. The same is true of the delicate musky odor of a freshly washed cock, ready for fellatio. Often when one prepares to go down on one’s lover, one finds the first thing one does is take a sniff, enjoying the smell, than reaching out one’s tongue to get a taste of lubricating girl come or salty pearly pre-come.

Anal Stretching And Gaping

Thursday, April 14th, 2011

There are a lot of different fetishes out there that people regularly engage in, and some seem a little odder to people than others. A lot of anal fetishes can make people kind of squeamish because anything involving that area of the body tends to be a little difficult for people to discuss and sometimes even to think about. Women tend to get squeamish about anything that has to do with anal play because they worry about the potential mess, smells, and other unpleasant and potentially unhygienic aspects of anything to do with a person’s ass. Some straight men worry that any kind of anal play, especially if it might involve any type of penetration, might make them gay, and they’re not emotionally ready to consider that as a possibility. They don’t fully realize that enjoying pleasurable sensations in that area of the body has nothing whatsoever to do with their sexual orientation and everything to do with being open-minded and willing to experience different types of pleasure. There are gay men who don’t enjoy anal play, so it’s not inherently a homosexual activity.

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Many people who are a little bit open-minded about anal play will at least try anal beads or toys that seem rather small and not horribly intrusive. On the other end of the spectrum are people who enjoy anal stretching and who crave larger and larger objects being inserted anally. They enjoy the feeling of being stretched wide open and eventually the feeling of anal gaping once the large object is removed. It’s a time consuming activity, but for someone who enjoys this type of play it is time well spent. They enjoy being the center of attention if they are playing with someone else, but many people who enjoy this fetish also enjoy working on it by themselves. They have a collection of sex toys in graduating sizes, and they work through all of them to accomplish the desired end result. They enjoy the time it takes, three to six hours usually, for their anal area to go back to its normal size. Obviously this may not be an activity that everyone will enjoy, but those who do enjoy it find it very fulfilling to accomplish their goal of being able to accommodate increasingly larger toys.

Skills

Wednesday, April 13th, 2011

If you can develop a skill that others find interesting you will have already set yourself up with an instant conversation starter. The only warning in this case is that you must let a intended lover stumble upon that skill or in some way let that skill advertise itself. If you approach someone and hit them up directly it will seem too much like you are bragging and this will be extremely counter-productive to your efforts. You must simply let that skill advertise itself or let them come upon it and you must never come off as arrogant about it. You must always remain humble or in some way feel that it is not noteworthy. Then you must counter this and act interested in the other person, ask them about skills they might possess.

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With this smooth and simple move you will almost guarantee yourself a fuck buddy to play with. This is because in just this one procedure you have told them an immensely seductive tale. You have communicated that you are friendly, intelligent, talented, humble, interesting and most importantly interested in them. This will instantly give you a massive amount of sex appeal right out of the gate. It can very quickly overwhelm any potential defenses they had and render them helpless and at your mercy. You can then take that cock or pussy at your leisure. All you have to do from this point is simply ride herd and gently and lightly guide the conversation and relation wherever you wish. You must let that person feel like they are in charge and let them come to the conclusions you want them to which is namely that they want to get fuck you. You will have shown yourself a master of skills if you can repeatedly pull this off with little trouble and therein lies your key.
If you can plainly see that there was little trouble but much smoothness in your actions then you are doing it easily. Too much struggle with anything will reveal no true skills at all, only hard study which sometimes might mean you have been trying too hard. You will have made yourself a master in the eyes of those who you wanted to have see you and can then move on to bigger and better prizes.

Not Alone In Your Kink

Wednesday, April 13th, 2011

Once one comes to the conclusion that their pubescent sexual lift-off might lead their rocket on a slightly skewed trajectory, either because of one’s sexual preference or because of some rather naughty fantasies, one pretty much feels alone on their flight. To have a penchant for spanking before even trying it with a lover, or an idea one might like to cross-dress every so often, these needs can stain one a pariah unless one suddenly sees a whole bunch of other people with the same interests.
We’ll all pretty much feel we are the only person with a particular fetish until we are proved otherwise.

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Everyday common variety sex is not a subject friends are so comfortable talking about with one another, add a little spice into the soup, a little perversion here and there or some modicum of kink and we’ll turn-off a lot more people-even close friends and maybe even dates-then we’re ever going to hope to turn-on. Our friends and family simply do not want to be led onto the highways and byways of what’s on our minds, especially if it’s a bit kinky.

But secrets can only stay hidden for so long. Sooner or later as we come to grow in confidence with a lover or spend enough time stewing in our own stew, our desires will will-out. One can try twisting one’s self in knots avoiding homosexuality, or try and not grow aroused by leather or the snap-crackle of a whip, but after a time all men-and women-have to face who they are and what they need to make them complete.

One can find all manner of downloadable porn, about a kink but once we meet people-on-line or off-that might share our fetish, the relief we enjoy is almost as palatable as the arousal we feel. When we can find or even join a community where we can connect with the link-minded, where we can find understanding, where we might even be able to indulge a desire or two then we find a home. We can indulge ourselves completely, protected and safe, and begin to see that what we might need might not be so very abhorrent at all and maybe just this side of normal if there is so many people doing it.

Spanking Implements

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

imagesPeople that enjoy spanking, whether giving or receiving, usually have a lot of knowledge about spanking implements. There are many different types of spanking implements and nearly every type of spanking implement is available in a variety of materials. Each material provides a different feeling, a different sting or thud, and people who enjoy being spanked can often tell what they’re being hit with by how it feels when it smacks their skin.

Everyone has their favorite implement or sometimes a few implements that they enjoy. Spankers usually have implements that they love to spank with. These are most likely implements that feel good in their hand because they are perfectly constructed and balanced. These implements always give the perfect smack without a lot of planning and effort by the user. They make a really pleasing sound when they come in contact with skin of the receiver. It’s easy to cause just the right level of pain with the favorite implements, and they’re usually very well broken in from being used so often. Spankers like using their own implements, the items that they’re used to, and the ones that feel completely natural to them almost like an extension of their hand. They are confident that they can wield these implements with complete accuracy and with total control, and spankers like to know that they have that level of control with their implements because then they can spank in total confidence that they won’t cause any unwanted damage or pain because they are so familiar with the implement in their hand.

People who enjoy being spanked also have their favorite implements. They usually enjoy certain materials over others, like wood over leather or leather over Lucite for instance. As much as someone may enjoy spanking, they usually enjoy specific implements and may dread others. Some people may love being paddled with wood paddles, but hate leather paddles or leather belts. This is how dominant people can sometimes punish a submissive who enjoys being spanked; they punish with an implement that they know the submissive doesn’t enjoy. The implements that a images-1submissive enjoys will usually cause sexual arousal, because the implements cause a type of pain that is enjoyable in some ways. Some submissives prefer a stingy smack and some prefer a thuddy smack.

The Exhibitionist’s Dilemma

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

An exhibitionist has the desire to show off sexually in front of others. A male exhibitionist may get off on whipping out his cock for an unsuspecting person to see, and a female exhibitionist may enjoy going out wearing no underwear so when she spreads her legs, she shows her snatch. Some exhibitionists just want to get their jollies in front of other consenting adults, and that satisfies their show-off needs. For others, the turn-on is in surprising or even shocking someone unsuspecting. In this case, he or she would do well to spend a little time figuring out what level of risk is acceptable in order to pursue this unusual hobby.

One semi-safe way to be an exhibitionist is to take part in sexual acts within one’s own home. The other piece of this mode is common to some other methods as well; acting unsuspecting. This way, the official storyline is that the exhibitionist isn’t aware that anyone could see in. A couple having sex on their couch while the drapes just happen to be open toward the street is a good example of this mode. Someone may walk by and happen to see them, which would be extra exciting. Still, they haven’t targeted anyone in particular to be their viewers. There is some risk of a complaint, but it is probably relatively low.

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The next step would be to take it outside. Again, the exhibitionist could pretend that no one is meant to see. Sitting in a beach chair in one’s semi-secluded backyard and deciding to masturbate, perhaps in semi-darkness, would be a higher level of risk. Still, the sexy adventurer would be on his or her own property, just squeezing one out in ‘private. The excitement might be heightened, but so is the risk of a neighbor’s complaint.

Taking it clearly into the public arena is what some exhibitionists crave. A guy who jacks his dick on a train is there to let someone see what he’s got. The great likelihood is that someone will get a view. This behavior is illegal. Some people would decide that the risk of legal action is not worth it. For others, doing it and getting away with it could be the thrill of a lifetime.

Shaving Private Ryan

Monday, April 11th, 2011

Oftentimes, certain areas of the body are neglected when it comes to extraneous hair. Shaving a man’s cock or a woman’s pussy is a quick and easy way to add sex appeal.

It requires a delicate hand in both cases, a need to know more about skin care, and adds one more notch on the proverbial bedpost of porn hotness.

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For men, it also gives the illusion of larger cock size. Ridding the body of all that hair may seem like something fit for swimmers and non-heterosexual men, but numerous women complain about pulling pubic hair from their teeth. A lot of men feel the same way. But with men, the illusion is about having a larger cock, and the feel of lips against smooth, freshly shaved skin might just encourage her to deepthroat your manhood.

A smooth pussy encourages a man to explore more with his lips and tongue while fingers feel up the slick, sweet skin around her lips.

To properly remove pubic hair, a good shaving cream with moisturizer is recommended. Lather it on, let it sit for a few minutes, then begin trimming off hair with sharp scissors until you’ve cut as much off as possible. At this point, some folks add more shaving cream and break out an electric razor, but sensitive skin being that it is, this may not be something everyone will want to do.

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In either case, it’s time to break out a sharp, fresh razor. Disposable razors are a no-no. Spend some money on a quality razor and keep fresh blades around. One wants clean, sure blades when one is trimming one’’s most private of areas clean.
For men, an erection makes it easier to keep things out of harm’s way. When the male scrotum draws up, the skin will be easier to shave. Run the blade once over properly moistened skin and rinse it off. No more than one pass per section, as this decreases the chances of irritation via razor burn. Women start with the lower lips than shave the sides. Lastly they can shave the top of the mound.

It takes some time to get used to the new feeling, but satin or lace against bare pussy skin, or guys who go commando feel sexier.

Kinky Community

Monday, April 11th, 2011

Those of us who are kinky or have a number of fetishes often yearn for the community of others like us. Perhaps you are non-monogamous or practice polyamory or are a closet BDSM enthusiast. One may have met someone else to share sexual thrills with, but one might be also be all alone. It’s no fun being in a dark closet with just one’s sexual fantasies for company, or just masturbation and porno to keep one warm at night. Even the most perverted amongst us yearns for the community of like-minded people.

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But what to do? One cannot simply walk into a bar and announce that you like dominance and submission, foot fucking, or strap-on sex. Happily, the Internet can aid one in finding the Dominatrix of your dreams or perhaps the circle jerk party you’ve been lusting after.

There are dozens of adult chat rooms and message boards on the Internet devoted to almost any fetish you can imagine. Some simple searches will help one find friends-or perhaps even cybersex hookups-who share more of your deviant tastes than one ever dreamed imaginable. Of course, this is just virtual companionship.
What about when one yearns for the real thing?

The first step of course is online adult dating sites. On these sites,– most of which allow you to look around at their ‘wares’ for free – to see what other kind of hot babes, kinky people, doms, subs, slaves or fetish fans you can find. But hesitation will get one nowhere, we should make a profile and list favorites, whether they are dildos or double penetration, as soon as we can. Pretty soon you’ll be finding all kinds of lovers, fuckbuddies, even threesomes and orgies, …but there are just as many people out there like you doing the same thing!

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Of course just dipping one’’s toe in the water won’t make a big splash. One can also use the Internet to find real world social gatherings, sometimes called Munches in BDSM slang. There one can meet other masochists, sadists, or kinky people in a non-threatening social situation. From there you’ll hear about all kinds of exciting events from rope bondage classes to crazy sex parties complete with flogging and fisting.

Sluts and the sexually adventurous had to keep themselves hidden once upon a time. While they may still have to worry about jobs or other issues in the modern world, the Internet allows for the best of both worlds… so we can reach out and touch someone, in a multitude of ways.

For God Or Cunt-try

Sunday, April 10th, 2011

A man will always rationalize his reasons for wanting some strange. The male biological imperative to shoot sperm into as many unfertilized eggs one can supersedes good common sense, rends families in two, stifles a romance. With facilities now available in this current dating digital age men can find sex partners infinitum, and will have to make-up excuses for doing so as they continue to cheat on their significant others or endeavor to remain free.

The reasons are bountiful but they all center round the cheating guy simply not being able to keep his cock in his pants. For a man to be monogamous he must fight his very nature and when he loses that fight he will do the only thing available to him post the extra-curricular screwing; he will find a reason other than his pumping libido to blame for his infidelity.
But whether he blames God, country, to help save his marriage or his sanity the one irrefutable fact is man will forever look for reasons and believe them when he latches on to a good one.

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The reality is, that in a marriage two people are responsibility for the intimacy, the monogamy and if and when either fail, fray or decline. A man can no more look at his biological need as an excuse then he can ignore where his partner is in the entire proceedings. Both people are responsible for making or making a commitment. Both people contribute to the romance and either ever forward trying to keep alive or stagnate and kill it. When a man, or women for that matter, cheats they do so in reaction to their mate or not in reaction to them. Passivity is just as bad sometimes as nagging and mocking. Certainly one person goes out and beds another partner, steps out on their mate, makes the beast with two backs with someone not their lover, but both partners in a love affair are duplicitous, responsible to what they bring to the marriage and what they take out. We can’t push someone from our bed into another’s unless they are willing to go, but we can create a home atmosphere that makes it easier to leave, biological imperative or not. A man might find his excuse but sometimes they are born from circumstance ore then rationalizations.