No Strings Attached or NSA is when two people fuck without feelings or commitment. No strings attached sex is likely some of the hottest sex you’ll ever have but be aware that if you develop feelings you might end up in a situation where your heart gets broken or you brake the other person’s heart. That’s okay, it happens, you just need to be aware of the possibilities. It’s challenging to have NSA sex. It can be the most challenging for women as they tend to have a more difficult time separating their emotions from the sex. A lot of guys are just dudes and can fuck just about anything that moves without feeling too much about it. Some dudes can’t fuck without feeling an attachment, but it’s much more rare than for women.
There are women out there who can have NSA sex. These are usually career-oriented and career-driven women who don’t necessarily have the time or the energy for a full time relationship or a commitment, but obviously need and want regular sex in their lives. These types of women are used to compartmentalizing and are able to see the sex as a way to gain pleasure in their lives, to have human comfort and contact, and to have excitement without carrying around the baggage that so often comes with relationships.
If you can have NSA sex successfully your life will basically be perfect. If you can find someone, a friend perhaps or an ex that you REALLY don’t want to get back together with (so you can hopefully guarantee that no unwanted nostalgic feelings of love or longing will resurface), and start meeting up semi-regularly, say once a week or once every couple of weeks, then you get to have your stress release, your companionship, your sexual gratification, and your hot body validated and you don’t have to worry about maintaining any of the emotional or physical demands of a relationship. In fact, life feels kind of easy and simple from this vantage point. The only reason why not everyone is living life like this is because people start forming attachments. We need to get more Buddhist about our sex lives. We need to separate sex from neediness. We’ve got to get back to the primal part of us that desires sex for pleasure and not as some kind of sign of love. Not that we should fuck people we don’t like, and not that we should necessarily fuck people we don’t love. Love doesn’t have to be the thing that fucks it up. It’s dependence on that person. It’s relying on them to complete us. It’s demanding that they commit to us and we commit to them that it the suffocating part.
So go and get busy, NSA style!
1. This whole no strings attached thing is awesome. I’m fucking six chicks. Only two of them are really good at blowing me. What if I was only fucking one of the chicks that sucked (and not the good way) at blowjobs? I will never string myself with another human again.
2. I love NSA sex. I can fuck a guy and then eat an entire pizza in front of him and not care if he thinks it’s weird.
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