Posts Tagged ‘date’

The Ass You’ve Seen A Thousand Times

Tuesday, January 4th, 2011

big-oily-assFor men, each time they have sex is like a new time. Sex, and for that matter porn, are less quantitative then qualitative for men and their responses. The male mind can simply go back to the well over and over countless times, to view something that arouses it. A man might simply love his wife’’s nipples and though having seen them too many times to be able to count, will still be transfixed by the sight, feel and texture of her nipple and areola every single time he sees them. Being a man he will never tire of that which fascinates and arouses him. Much like a child that needs to reinforce learning by repetition, a man needs to feed his sense-and his sense of sight most of all-by gazing at that that he is attracted to over and over again.

This is why men are often tagged with the pejorative of objectifying women when in fact what is happening most times – or even on a first date – is that a man is locking into what he finds so alluring and enjoying in his partner, their lips, tits, ass, even another cock to the exclusion of all else. He immerses his sight and attention and enjoys the piece of pieces for what they are and not how they relate to their lover as a whole.

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Whether he is gay, bi or straight a man will never of his stimulants, and if they are visual they will end up being even more arresting.

This is why pleasing a man in bed really is so very easy. First of all, a man’s genitals exist outside his body, they are easier to stimulate by touch then a woman’s. But ad into the mix the way a man’s sight so easily leads him to spin his wheels over the same object or body part any man’s lover knows all they have to do is satisfy a man’s sense of obsessive sight, touch a man’s dick a time or two and he’ll be soon in orgasmic nirvana.

It’s not so much that the male mind is simpler then the feminine one. It’s not so much that women rely more on their emotions to fuel their libido, while a man can stick his cock into any warm hole. Men certainly can be less emotionally attached then women and their intimacy building often takes a different course, but for a man, being led by visual stimuli he has seen over and over again is a form of intimacy and the very best way for a man to be aroused.

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Playing Hard To Get

Saturday, December 18th, 2010

B5350D8FD0FCF6D7137BE4D72FD8Ladies, men need to hunt and compete and win in order to feel like something is worth their effort. We women may want to be available when we like someone, but that takes away the conquest aspect for men, and then they lose interest quickly. Making a guy work for it a little will intrigue him, and his willingness to put in the effort makes it clear that he’s really interested (and not just interested in a porn fantasy). There’s a fine line to walk between playing hard to get and pushing a guy away though, so this must be handled carefully.

With cell phones, there should be no more sitting by the phone waiting for a guy to call. That’s good – go out and live a busy and exciting life. If he calls, don’t always answer. Let him leave a message and wonder a little. Call back within a reasonable period of time though – always within 24 hours. Try to answer sometimes when in a noisy spot, like a busy Starbucks or noisy store. Don’t stay on the phone very long, it’s best to just let him hear the noise in the background and promise to call back later when it’s not so noisy. He’ll realize that he’s dealing with a busy, popular woman, and all guys want to date a woman that is wanted by others.

If he calls no later than Wednesday to set up a date, go ahead and make plans. If he calls on Thursday or Friday to make a date for that weekend, be busy. Let him know politely that the weekends are usually booked solid by the middle of the week, and he has to make plans earlier. Don’t always agree to the first thing he offers. If he asks for Saturday night, ask if he’d mind doing lunch instead. Let him wonder who else might be in the picture and why they get the all important Saturday night instead of him. If he’s really interested, he’ll call earlier the following week to get the prime date slot.

Look sexy, but not slutty, and make him wait a bit for sex. Don’t be too quick to get naked – men don’t appreciate anything that they get too easily. Let the sexual tension heighten a bit before going to bed together. He’ll appreciate it more after having to win it.

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A Newbie Guide To Swinging

Friday, October 22nd, 2010

Being a swinger is a lot more than just having sex with multiple partners. It’s a lifestyle. For those curious to try it, know that it involves a lot more than just heading over to your local swingers club, condoms in hand.

For starters, know that you can’t just simply stroll into a swinger’s club without a partner. However, that only applies if you are of the male variety. Single females are more than welcome to stroll in at any given time. If you don’t have a partner, your best best is to go on “single men” nights. However, expect a sausage fest. The best way to go about swinging still lies in finding a partner who is willing and able.

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Despite the vast amount of swinger’s clubs, sex mostly happens in people’s houses and occasionally in the great outdoors (eg. camping grounds). Also keep in mind that many ‘high class’ clubs are “invitation only”, though many still welcome periodic walk-ins.

Before getting down and dirty, keep in mind that swingers are not just a bunch of horny animals that will hump anything with a pulse. Men will often find a hooker or crackhead to use as a “ticket” in order to get through the door, and that is the ultimate swinger faux pas. Most swingers have a zero-tolerance policy on dubious partners. So stick to a female companion that you know and trust.

Perhaps the hardest aspect of swinging is getting your partner to agree to it in the first place. When faced with a hesitant girlfriend, here a few convincing points:

- You don’t necessarily need to have sex with anybody else (but you will be watched, it’s a bit like free porn)

- You will have a newfound appreciation towards each other once you realize how desirable you are to others

- If she is concerned about showcasing her body, assure her that swingers come in all shapes and sizes and that they most definitely don’t discriminate

- It will provide you with a good opportunity to socialize and learn more about sex

Once you’ve gotten your partner willing and ready to go, make sure that you are both in agreement over how it will go down. While some partners are ok with ‘sharing’, others just like to observe. Alternately, some like to ‘play around’ with other couples but not have sex. Whatever your swinging style, know what you are in for before walking through those doors. You don’t want to end up causing a scene when you touch another woman’s tits and your girlfriend throws a fit.

Now that you know what to expect, and what you are willing to do, it’s time to do some prep work. Start off by ensuring that you have reservations (most parties have a guest list) and that you are given guidelines into the do’s and dont’s of your club of choice. Once that’s settled, make sure to arrive with your date in hand. Having her meet you inside might not be the best idea (or they could just simply not let you in). As for the dress code, dressing sexy is appropriate, being mistaken for a prostitute is not. Some swingers also chose to bring a robe for added convenience. Whatever your choice of attire, the most important thing to remember is to clean yourself up. Brush your teeth, take care of any grooming needs and ensure that your nails are clean. If only out of respect for others.

If you’ve finally managed to get inside and you and your partner are ready to go, know that there are additional factors to keep in mind. For starters, try not to offend anybody. If approached by an overweight man you would rather die than touch, a simple “no thank you” will suffice. Staring is also not exactly a good idea. If you come across a closed bedroom, leave it that way. The best approach for newbie swingers is to make friends with an experienced couple and have them show you around. Use protection, wash your hands in between sessions and you’ll have a jolly good time.