We all want to have satisfying sex, and though sometimes the urge is to simply get done and get our rocks off, especially for those of us who are men, this kind of rush to the finish causes problems. It can leave our women unsatisfied and when they are unsatisfied they are unlikely to want to come back to us after a while, leaving us instead for someone more considerate they met through adult personals or a best friend who just wants to see them have an orgasm. Even more than that, when both people are concerned about each other’s sexual pleasure it actually results in both lovers feeling more fulfilled, happy and satisfied without the guilt of utter selfishness.
Many women are not able to have an orgasm through sexual penetration alone, contrary to what one may see on free porn videos. Even for the rare percentage of women who can come this way it is easier for them to have orgasms with direct clitoral stimulation. One can provide this on one’s own with a finger in the right position, or ask her to touch herself during fucking. It can be especially hot to watch her hand working between her legs while she’s giving one a blow job!
Some women have never had an orgasm at all and if they do not know what they are going for it may be difficult to help them come in partnered fucking situations that one finds in adult dating. One of the best ways to help in this case is to encourage her to masturbate and touch herself in private, learning her own body better so she can better share it during intimacy. There are a number of books and videos available which are designed to help pre-orgasmic women learn to have satisfying climaxes alone and with a partner. A considerate lover might even purchase such a book as a gift.
