Effeminacy is the quality of being effeminate. That is, when a male exhibits traits and qualities that are more often associated with women’s behavior. In the Western hemisphere, if a guy has a lot of female friends, a lisp, is employed in a salon, is in all the local theater productions and musicals, sews all his own costumes, and wears a lot of pink, he would be considered effeminate.
Not that there is anything wrong with that.
And remember – just because a man is effeminate does not necessarily mean that he is homosexual. He could just as easily be bisexual or totally heterosexual. In fact, by being effeminate and having a lot of female friends, it is easier for him to meet and date new women. He’s already established trust with his female friends, and that’s the key to getting a first date with new women. Well, that and an expensive car or bulging package.
Not that there is anything wrong with that. Fucking whores.
Anyway, the trick to knowing why you are effeminate is to take a good, hard, honest look at yourself. Is it because you are gay, and are just hiding the fact from yourself, friends, and family? Or, is it just because that’s the way you are, even though you love pussy? Either way, it’s OK, but knowing the truth will help you. If it is because you’re gay, just be brave. Tell your friends and family, and have a happy, truthful life.
If it’s just because that’s the way you grew up, that’s fine too. You should immediately try to start hanging out with a lot of women. They’ll love hanging out with you because you act like they do, but you have the novelty of being a man. You can answer the questions they have about men, and answer honestly. Plus, since you’re hetero, you can find out which of them is hottest in bed, and use your inside track to seduce them.
Let’s say the hottest chick in your effeminate circle of friends is having man troubles. She calls you because she’s really upset that she just broke up with her fellow. You go over with a big bottle of wine and some grass. You drink and listen, consoling her and filling her glass often with more wine. You tell her that she is beautiful and sexy and deserves someone better. When she goes to the washroom to wash her face, you turn the heat up in her apartment. She takes off some clothes. You make a move. She takes off more clothes.
If you fuck her hard and all night, you’ll be in like Flynn. She’ll tell all her friends about how you’re sensitive and a sex stallion. Your fuck card will be filled for the next decade. Not a bad way to go, is it?
1. Despite his Effeminacy, Harry got more pussy than all his macho friends combined.
2. Chuck was worried that his son’s effeminacy meant that he was gay. He was right to be worried. His son is a world class peter puffer.
RELATED TERMS: