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It’s Free

Wednesday, April 27th, 2011

There are very few things that are certain in life. Death, taxes and free porn are among the few things. People will die, people will be taxed and many people will try to get their hands on as much pornography as they can, even better if it’s free.

The reasons vary but ultimately man has an obsession with nudity, sex and acts that combine the two. The internet makes it easier to view pornography for free especially when sites like You porn exist and generate a lot of traffic. With high visibility and great search engine optimization, sites like this have the ability to be found very quickly by any user looking for cheap or free content. Sustained by affiliate programs, these sites capitalize on the sheer number of hits a day in hopes that many users will eventually convert, or buy a membership on the affiliate, thus generating revenue for the host site.

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The drive for many people to seek pornography in the first place has a lot to do with society’s taboos and what we’re told we can and cannot see or experience. There is a lot of moral debate about the existence of porn and whether man should lay eyes on the myriad of content available. Everything from generic sex acts to intense fetish porn can be had online. The possibilities from what translates to print expand the market but at a cost, though it may be small.

Guys like seeing tons of free pussy and the free sites as well as the sponsored sites, and pay sites understand this. The fantasy of the average Joe getting in bed with a woman who is not only his ideal fantasy, but ready and willing to strip for him is also a driving force behind the human obsession of pornography. It’s not just limited to men, either. Women enjoy their fair share of gay porn, claiming it as a research need since men do not openly talk about sex with women.

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The Mistaken Kink

Wednesday, April 20th, 2011

Although play can be clearly defined in kink situations, what specific people are thinking or what their interests are when they are not playing isn’t always so clear. The statuesque woman wearing head-to-toe leather might not be dominant; the man in make-up might not be sub and might indeed by hetero through and through. The more open a group is to variety, the more specific garb is allowed and championed, and the more individual behaviors are instantly assessed by the definitions inherent to the group the better the chances for mistaken kinks.

For the layman to assume certain polarization assumptions is expected, but even those people involved in BDSM make assumptions that are wildly off the mark. It is as much wishful thinking by those people who see someone across a crowded dungeon and wish they to be what they want them to be, as much as it is the heightened sexuality of a fetish and kink meeting. The reason why people of specific sexual orientations congregate is to hopefully facilitate some sort of sexual activity. They might truly be friends, they might not play together nor ever want to, but all people who log-on to fetish websites or meet at kink munches or play-space scene parties do so less to be social and more because they want to engage at their kink.

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The rule of thumb though for the experienced kinkster is simply not to assume anything by how someone is dressed or even how he or she act. Maybe a kinky guy or girl are switches anyway, so at any given time they might be wanting to act dom as they might want to act sub. As with every other aspect of life, if we label someone even before we truly get to know him or her, we won’t learn all of the many facets of our companion’s personality. Even in the specifics of kinky role-play we do well to quell our assumptions until we are bent over or bending someone over.

Most times a person’s true intention or their headspace becomes quickly known in a kinky scene, even if all that person is doing is watching other’s play, but it’s best for all people who might want to even think of hooking-up to forgo assumptions and simply get to know one another.

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Women Have Great Clothes

Wednesday, April 20th, 2011

Women have it great when it comes to clothes in general, because they can wear all kinds of bright colors, beautiful prints, and soft, sensual fabrics. They have all kinds of choices that men don’t have when it comes to clothes, and that is also true when it comes to lingerie and fetish wear. Go to any BDSM convention, and the vendors area is loaded with gorgeous clothing choices for women in beautiful colors and fabrics, but the men’s choices are much more limited. There might be a vendor or two that sell kilts in leather and other fabrics, and some of the leather shops can make leather pants, vests and chaps, but that tends to be the extent of the choices for men. Most guys show up at conventions with black jeans and a variety of black shirts with their favorite black leather boots, a black leather vest and maybe a great black leather belt.

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Women don’t even have to purchase pre-made clothing for fetishwear. They can usually put together interesting outfits from the things they already have in their closets. A suit jacket with beautiful bra and panties, a garter belt and stockings and high heels makes a perfect outfit. A leather belt over the jacket can make her look a little more authoritative if she’s a Domme. Thigh high or crotch high boots are always sexy with anything short; a suit jacket, a long camisole top, a satin and lace chemise. Sometimes mixing the satin and lace of mainstream lingerie with stark leather pieces from the BDSM world can be a really great contrast that looks really hot and will have male submissives coming out of the woodwork to try and get the lady’s attention. For women who tend toward very classic and vintage styles, vintage girdles and slips can be a very hot look. Vintage fashion – lingerie, clothing and shoes – is actually a very popular fetish. There are always shoe vendors at the conventions that carry vintage style shoes to wear with all the great vintage looks that are found easily on the internet. Women who love the leather look can look at leather corsets, bras, thongs, skirts and even garter belts. Leather is always a great choice for fetishwear, and one can never go wrong with black anything, especially leather.

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A Guide to Swallowing

Friday, April 15th, 2011

You don’t have to be a porn star to swallow. The average male semen contains roughly 0.1 and 100 milliliters of sperm and holds a fascination for both men and women in the form of swallowing semen. As far as consistency and taste go, that is usually the issue in question when it comes to whether a partner swallows or not.

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The fetish of swallowing traces its’ origins a long way back. Dating back to the Church of Epiphanius and other libertine Gnostics who swallowed sperm as the body of Christ, and a form of worship. The tribes of Papua New Guinea have culturally believed that semen provides sexual maturity among the younger men of the tribe. The practice of fellating the elders in order to gain their authority and power is held for prepubescent and post pubescent men of the tribe. This practice may also relate to practiced homosexuality in these tribes.

Dietary supplements have been on the market for a number of years as a way to increase the volume of semen provided in a man. None of these supplements have been validated by the scientific community.

The typical makeup of ejaculation consists primarily of water but also contain every nutrient needed by the human body in order to function properly. A typical dosage of semen contains at least 150 mg of protein, 11 mgs of carbohydrates and other trace minerals. The only risks involved in swallowing cum are those of fellatio such as transmission of STDs between unclean partners.

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While there is no hardcore scientific evidence in changing the taste of semen, many people swear diet has an influential factor in shaping the taste. Red meats, tobacco and alcohol typically infuse a bitter or acrid taste while coffee and teas also do nothing to aid in the taste. Fresh fruits and vegetables, while good for the body are also believed to sweeten the taste significantly. Prolonged times between ejaculation intervals are also said to contribute to the volume of semen produced and shot out.

Sexual practices of swallowing have gone so far to include bukkake from the Japanese culture, cream pies, snowballing and felching, which may involve more than one partner. Aleister Crowley and the Ecclesia Gnostica Catholica practice swallowing semen during Gnostic Mass as a way to gain spiral power from the Divine.

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The Exhibitionist’s Dilemma

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

An exhibitionist has the desire to show off sexually in front of others. A male exhibitionist may get off on whipping out his cock for an unsuspecting person to see, and a female exhibitionist may enjoy going out wearing no underwear so when she spreads her legs, she shows her snatch. Some exhibitionists just want to get their jollies in front of other consenting adults, and that satisfies their show-off needs. For others, the turn-on is in surprising or even shocking someone unsuspecting. In this case, he or she would do well to spend a little time figuring out what level of risk is acceptable in order to pursue this unusual hobby.

One semi-safe way to be an exhibitionist is to take part in sexual acts within one’s own home. The other piece of this mode is common to some other methods as well; acting unsuspecting. This way, the official storyline is that the exhibitionist isn’t aware that anyone could see in. A couple having sex on their couch while the drapes just happen to be open toward the street is a good example of this mode. Someone may walk by and happen to see them, which would be extra exciting. Still, they haven’t targeted anyone in particular to be their viewers. There is some risk of a complaint, but it is probably relatively low.

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The next step would be to take it outside. Again, the exhibitionist could pretend that no one is meant to see. Sitting in a beach chair in one’s semi-secluded backyard and deciding to masturbate, perhaps in semi-darkness, would be a higher level of risk. Still, the sexy adventurer would be on his or her own property, just squeezing one out in ‘private. The excitement might be heightened, but so is the risk of a neighbor’s complaint.

Taking it clearly into the public arena is what some exhibitionists crave. A guy who jacks his dick on a train is there to let someone see what he’s got. The great likelihood is that someone will get a view. This behavior is illegal. Some people would decide that the risk of legal action is not worth it. For others, doing it and getting away with it could be the thrill of a lifetime.

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Shaving Private Ryan

Monday, April 11th, 2011

Oftentimes, certain areas of the body are neglected when it comes to extraneous hair. Shaving a man’s cock or a woman’s pussy is a quick and easy way to add sex appeal.

It requires a delicate hand in both cases, a need to know more about skin care, and adds one more notch on the proverbial bedpost of porn hotness.

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For men, it also gives the illusion of larger cock size. Ridding the body of all that hair may seem like something fit for swimmers and non-heterosexual men, but numerous women complain about pulling pubic hair from their teeth. A lot of men feel the same way. But with men, the illusion is about having a larger cock, and the feel of lips against smooth, freshly shaved skin might just encourage her to deepthroat your manhood.

A smooth pussy encourages a man to explore more with his lips and tongue while fingers feel up the slick, sweet skin around her lips.

To properly remove pubic hair, a good shaving cream with moisturizer is recommended. Lather it on, let it sit for a few minutes, then begin trimming off hair with sharp scissors until you’ve cut as much off as possible. At this point, some folks add more shaving cream and break out an electric razor, but sensitive skin being that it is, this may not be something everyone will want to do.

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In either case, it’s time to break out a sharp, fresh razor. Disposable razors are a no-no. Spend some money on a quality razor and keep fresh blades around. One wants clean, sure blades when one is trimming one’’s most private of areas clean.
For men, an erection makes it easier to keep things out of harm’s way. When the male scrotum draws up, the skin will be easier to shave. Run the blade once over properly moistened skin and rinse it off. No more than one pass per section, as this decreases the chances of irritation via razor burn. Women start with the lower lips than shave the sides. Lastly they can shave the top of the mound.

It takes some time to get used to the new feeling, but satin or lace against bare pussy skin, or guys who go commando feel sexier.

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Kinky Community

Monday, April 11th, 2011

Those of us who are kinky or have a number of fetishes often yearn for the community of others like us. Perhaps you are non-monogamous or practice polyamory or are a closet BDSM enthusiast. One may have met someone else to share sexual thrills with, but one might be also be all alone. It’s no fun being in a dark closet with just one’s sexual fantasies for company, or just masturbation and porno to keep one warm at night. Even the most perverted amongst us yearns for the community of like-minded people.

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But what to do? One cannot simply walk into a bar and announce that you like dominance and submission, foot fucking, or strap-on sex. Happily, the Internet can aid one in finding the Dominatrix of your dreams or perhaps the circle jerk party you’ve been lusting after.

There are dozens of adult chat rooms and message boards on the Internet devoted to almost any fetish you can imagine. Some simple searches will help one find friends-or perhaps even cybersex hookups-who share more of your deviant tastes than one ever dreamed imaginable. Of course, this is just virtual companionship.
What about when one yearns for the real thing?

The first step of course is online adult dating sites. On these sites,– most of which allow you to look around at their ‘wares’ for free – to see what other kind of hot babes, kinky people, doms, subs, slaves or fetish fans you can find. But hesitation will get one nowhere, we should make a profile and list favorites, whether they are dildos or double penetration, as soon as we can. Pretty soon you’ll be finding all kinds of lovers, fuckbuddies, even threesomes and orgies, …but there are just as many people out there like you doing the same thing!

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Of course just dipping one’’s toe in the water won’t make a big splash. One can also use the Internet to find real world social gatherings, sometimes called Munches in BDSM slang. There one can meet other masochists, sadists, or kinky people in a non-threatening social situation. From there you’ll hear about all kinds of exciting events from rope bondage classes to crazy sex parties complete with flogging and fisting.

Sluts and the sexually adventurous had to keep themselves hidden once upon a time. While they may still have to worry about jobs or other issues in the modern world, the Internet allows for the best of both worlds… so we can reach out and touch someone, in a multitude of ways.

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Anal Massage Intimacy

Saturday, April 9th, 2011

The prostate gland, or P-spot as it is sometimes called, can be found in a way similar to how the G-spot is found on a woman. A simple method is to have the man lie on his back and a finger inserted into the rectum can probe and tap, especially on the upper wall, until the find a spot that is intensely pleasurable. Everyone is built a little differently, so the moment of impact will be different depending on the guy.

It can take a lot of trust to comfortably explore the P-spot or anal play in general, and doing so provides the opportunity for deepened intimacy among the partners. Often people are squeamish about anal play because feces is generally something to be avoided. Also, there are legitimate safety concerns about what kind of things can be inserted into the anus. Learning to feel comfortable about the body in general begins to lessen cleanliness concerns. Learning and keeping to good safety protocol can take care of all the worries. For the record, a latex-gloved finger insertion is a safer sex practice and can give wonderful pleasure to both parties.

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A first-time . Sometimes for a man, receiving penetration can be a bit of a psychological trip. A straight man having a woman penetrate him may harbor fears that anal play could turn him gay. A man who has sex with men or who has long been interested may still have a heavy experience being in a traditionally submissive role. With intimate communication and patience, those worries can even be turned into an extra hot and exciting part of the journey.
A full-fledged anal massage can still begin with a gloved hand inserting one finger. A simple in and out motion can expand into a circular motion. The massager should watch for body signs indicating the intensity of the pressure on the P-spot and when more or less is needed. The man can remain on his back, or may assume other positions depending on what feels better overall. Oh his hands and knees can provide great access to the butt, and can feel incredibly good. He may be brought to orgasm with the assistance of cock stimulation, if desired.

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Adding Numbers With Our Kink?

Friday, April 8th, 2011

Not all of our fantasies will see the light of day. There are just some desires we have that are just very difficult to execute on any normal occasion or would require such liberal attitudes from lovers we know we’ll rarely, if ever, see them come to pass; plus, it would require us to act so selfish that we’d run the risk our lover never accommodating us again. Not all fetishes and kinks are equal and some will simply be too repellant for our significant other or even a casual fuck buddy to see to fruition.

Some things are just better left either unsaid or tried with only the most trained mistress or master specifically outfitted for that kink.

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But if we are lucky enough to find a playmate who might indeed like a kink or two and we theirs, someone who doesn’t find our needs too extreme or upsetting, than it really becomes a, beggers-can’t-be-choosers state of affairs.
A threesome in kink doesn’t not always work though.

Two doms do not double a sub’s pleasure, as much as two bottoms to spank doesn’t not making the spanking more intense for the one dom.

First of all, for any kink play to work best both participants needs to trust one another implicitly. Such trust is hard to grow between two people, throw another person into the mix, even someone interviewed for the possibility, the delicate balance the couple enjoys and thrives on can be rent asunder.

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Secondly, the specific attraction to BDSM play or any sex play really, is the attention a dom gives the sun and how the sub surrenders, in affect exchanges power and will with and through the dom during the course of the play; with a third person involved the sub will have to split their ability to exchange this very nebulous intimacy.
Lastly, a fetish scene is often developed around the physical proximity and maneuvering of people in a play space, add another person into that space and the maneuvering has to change.

Unless a couple sets aside a specific play time to include more than just themselves, unless a witness to the scenario is actually part of the kink, unless all the mathematical contingencies our considered, the kinksters might do well simply playing with other partners by themselves at other times.

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Educational Videos

Wednesday, April 6th, 2011

Wouldn’t it be great if whenever we needed to learn a hot, new sex trick, there was an awesome sex coach there to show us what to do right on the spot? In lieu of such a luxury, there are some pretty good videos out there to help out. Don’t think that just because you’ve been around the block a few times, there’s nothing left to learn about sex. There is always more to know and to try out.

A simple internet search will turn up plenty of fun erotic vids that can teach you everything from how to take it in the ass to how to give a killer blow job and beyond. Take a look for just about anything you want to learn about, and chances are someone has published something with your particular taste in mind.

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The good thing about these instructional videos is the balance they usually manage to strike between informational and just plain sexy. You are likely to find an attractive narrator interspersed between the rest of the action. There may also be a doctor or other informed individual to explain some of the more important points on health and safety. Then comes the fun part: a hot couple there to demonstrate a good example of the topic of the video. There will likely be some voiceover to explain some details of the action, but there’ll be no mistaking the hot, explicit sex that will ensue based on the instruction.

Suppose you are a couple that wants to explore flipping the anal sex around and giving him some. A video of this type will have someone begin to explain how she will need to purchase a strap-on dildo, how they work, and the sizes and styles the couple can choose from. There will be a lot of guidance along the way in terms of how to use the toy, with some cautions: The video will want to make sure lots of lube is used, that they take their time, and that the dildo has a flared base so it won’t get stuck. Once they get going, it’ll be full-on fun. There will be a long sex scene so you not only learn, but have ample time to jack off watching.

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