Archive for the ‘Porn’ Category

The Woman In Our Life

Wednesday, July 6th, 2011

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Even though the business of porn has changed over the years and there are many more audience members looking for a wider variety and that audience does include both gay and straight women, porn is still made by and made for an almost strictly heterosexual male audience.

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Hetero men are stimulated by watching girl-guy sex scenes or girl on girl sex scenes more than any other gender or sexual orientation and these guys buy and download porn. These guys will watch sex videos over and over again, usually to the consternation of a wife or girlfriend and in some cases come to regard these scenes as the very best sexual stimulant they have…in some cases in direct opposition to what their wife or girlfriend attempts in bed!

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Wives and girlfriends might sit down to watch a video or two, might even become aroused over them, might even masturbate over a scene capture when logging-on line from time to time, but for the most part for women, if they have a partner they want to be having sex with him, not watching a movie about sex.

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The one fact that women forget is that for men, fantasy-and this is strictly what sex videos provide, fantasy pure and simple-drives the train more than even physical sensation. Being locked-in to the visual of sex; how a woman’s specific parts look clothed or unclothes, what they look like when they move this way and that, the very fact that a man can regard the parts as parts, makes a man too dependent on his sight and therefore always a slave to what he sees. He cannot turn away from sex videos once he has seen them or at the very least from recreating scenes in his head in his everyday sex life. And since these scenes are fantastic, have no basis in the real world and men do not truly even want them in their real lives, a woman trying to recreate scenes from sex videos or feeling challenged by them attempts an uphill climb she will never summit.

Word Of Mouth

Wednesday, July 6th, 2011

There can be a world of good stuff out there in adult videos but you would never know it if you never discover it. When you are single and looking this is a big help and a useful tool for keeping your sex drive going. You can run your own searches and this is always good because you never know what you’ll come across however there are other ways as well to discover things. There are magazine ads or movie ads and other vehicles for discovering new favorites.

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Finding your favorite actresses is the best way to go because you are usually pretty sure of getting a good show regardless of what they are in. Word of mouth is the best way to discover new Porn favorites for yourself. If you have buddies that are into it they will usually share a few similarities in their tastes and this can be a big help to you. It can sure save a lot of searching and if nothing else can put you in the right direction. Often when you check the credits you can get a good name drop or two and this gives you a few leads to track down. Then you can go on the net and check out that actresses site and more than likely get your hands on a good list of titles to choose from. They will also frequently update their site with new material and this can be a really great thing for you. You are always cycling your material through and getting new stuff in your stash.

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This way things don’t grow old and you don’t have to jerk off to the same thing a dozen times or more. This is the best way to go and it keeps things happy and healthy and ready to go should you finally run into a potential sex partner for real. That is what you are ultimately after is being able to take care of a partner when you finally get one.

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Conventions

Tuesday, July 5th, 2011

If you have a favorite adult movie actor or actress it might be a real fantasy come true to meet them in real life. The best chance for the fans to see their favorite Porn star is at the porn conventions. AVN puts on a few every year in fact a fan can find different Porn related shows all year around. There are even awards shows that rate the newest and best sex toy, new amateur actress, best porn star and best sex parody.

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While it is remotely possible to meet a porn star in passing it’s a pretty astronomical probability and one that shouldn’t be counted on. To find the next convention near you and treat yourself to a fantasy come true try visiting the internet and looking up porn convention. You could get an autograph or even a picture taken with them! If you’re really lucky you might actually get lucky and that would definitely be one for the books. As long as you are respectful and decent a lot of the stars are always very appreciative of their fans and certainly don’t want to alienate the fan base. Be aware though that they do get a lot of attention and it isn’t always welcomed. The last thing you want is to be mistaken for a stalker so be prepared to take your moment and walk. Don’t hang around or follow them because even though your intentions might be the best they won’t know that. It’s a constant annoyance and even danger for them to be hounded by fans so you definitely want to separate yourself far from that particular class of fan. If something actually happens between you and that favorite fuck star then great but if not be glad with what you’ve got and go on. Playing the nice guy will always get you a lot farther than playing an assertive fool that lets the fantasy get the better of them. Just like anything else there is a right way and a wrong way to go about it all.

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Renting An Adult Video

Tuesday, July 5th, 2011

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If you are looking for something new to get into with your partner then there are several possibilities. Renting an Adult video could be something you and your partner might want to try. This could be put a little excitement into a sex life that you feel has been growing old or unsatisfying. You might want to consider using sex toys as well to go along with it. There are many different possibilities and these are things that you can do from the privacy and convenience of your own home as well so you don’t have to worry about going to some store that makes you and your partner potentially very uncomfortable.

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Anything that you and your partner do or try should be something you have deeply discussed and been totally honest about. This way you can avoid any hurt feelings or sense of being coerced or made to do something you weren’t into. You must further consider that you may change your mind about something and this is perfectly understandable and fine. If this happens you and your partner should just be patient and discuss it. When you have established not only good communication skills with your partner but also a very patient love life then getting laid in new and different ways becomes much more enjoyable and satisfying all the way around. That is the whole point. If you and your partner have the desire to explore and try new things with each other then you should take the reins and get into it. Take things step by step and always make sure each is comfortable and willing and excited about doing things. This is the way that you improve the sex life and get to the place that you have always wanted to be. It is perfectly acceptable that feelings change and as long as you are aware of that then all will be well with you.

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Unusual and Freakish

Sunday, July 3rd, 2011

Most of adult videos use a very specific format. But hardcore porn viewers need more than busty blondes getting fucked hard and furious by some hot hard stud. They want something more freaky. Build it and they will cum even works in the adult business.

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There are small number of Porn content providers and movie makers that shoot the unusual or freakish. Niches can cover anything from inordinately large cock in it’s length or girth slowly penetrating some tight pussy. It looks on screen as painful as it sounds. For a few years midgets were hot and porn sites would do all they could to get their hands on photos and movies of little people being fucked or fucking. Now the thing is tranny sites and movies. Beautiful lady boys being found out and fucked anyway by seemingly het guys is all the rage. And the buying public is eating it up. But it doesn’t have to be all about surprises, sometimes the something strange or weird is thrown in the mix to boost sales. Like alien looking sex toys. Sex toys have always been popular in solo girl scenes and lesbian movies but requests for sex toys that look like tentacles, or monster cocks or just happen to be massively long or large being used to fuck two women at the same time is becoming more popular.

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Most of the stuff that is viewed is the run of the mill sex stuff with a twist. Even the boutique movie makers are not eager to follow the extreme sex practices where sexual abuse is more like a horror movie then pleasure. But by adding a little spice, a little twist then the audience will buy more. Adult movie makers are always on the look out for the next big fantasy. Asian porn and the BDSM lifestyles have both been great inspirations to content producers. What we may see is more Biblical porn, after al the bible is full of hardcore sex and violence.

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Enjoyment For Women

Saturday, July 2nd, 2011

The history of the porn industry has been a long and storied one which most tend to think revolves around the pleasure of men. To some extent this is true but more often adult video makers are focusing on a different demographic, which is that of women. The purchasing power of horny women looking to jump start their mood with some hot heavy fuck fests are driving the porn industry right along side the men these days. Recent studies have shown some new and changing trends. A good portion of Sex videos now cater to woman’s tastes as much as they do men. It isn’t like they just have their own little niche like some would think.

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It’s now an almost even split. The Rand and Mather Research group showed that between 1995 and 2005 the number of porn videos featuring the pleasure of women center stage versus that of men nearly doubled and is still climbing. The study also showed that more and more men are actually preferring the purchase of these types of porn videos over those that were made for them. Researchers suggest that this is probably because those single men are plumbing a new well of information on how better to boost their own performances by watching woman’s porn. It doesn’t exactly take a genius to figure this out but whatever the reasons it’s certainly good news for all the ladies out there looking for a hard cock to please them. Now while this might be a new and exciting trend it hasn’t exactly been undiscovered. There was the 1984 release of the Sylvia Bernard production entitled Thelma’s Pleasure and while it remained relatively unnoticed during its time it still made its mark as one more pioneering feat for woman’s equality.

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Most people even in the porn industry don’t remember the film but it did influence the possibilities in it’s own way and showed that no matter what the industry was women could and would make their mark and do just as well as men.

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Spice

Thursday, June 30th, 2011

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Sometimes being in a relationship can pose certain problems like too much routine. Having a routine is pretty much a standard of things in a relationship and it provides a lot of good however sometimes that can also grate on the nerves. Sometimes the same old same old situation can get to you. What you need to do is keep things fresh and shake them up now and again just for a change of pace. This can help refresh you and get out that nervous angst and energy that can pile up and turn into tension. That tension needs to be dealt with because if it isn’t it can bring a lot of negativity and other bad things into the relationship. One of the ways this happens is when one or both partners are very hard working and wrapped up with a lot of things going on they can begin to take each other for granted. They can forget that sex is very important and not only as a means of pressure release and tension release but intimacy as well. When that begins to happen one or the other can begin to feel some resentment at being unsatisfied.

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In the best case scenario it leads to unhappiness and a sense of bitterness while in the worst case it can send a weaker less responsible person over the edge and want to get laid with some other fuck buddy besides their partner. When you are in a relationship you can use Porn to help spice things between you and your partner. With that you can easily head off any routine and any neglect and unsatisfactory results. You can keep each other lean and satisfied and very happy. Then you can continue working and positively moving things forward. You don’t have to look back and worry about your partner being unsatisfied and developing any resentment. You can continue to give one hundred percent all across the board.

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We Are Porn

Thursday, June 23rd, 2011

It has come to the attention of every man and woman that we are porn. We live lives of heightened realism where sex is all we think about, We indulge our whims every second of the day. We are connected to the life-giving technological teat, sucking dry all we can off our PDA’s and phones, tweeting until our thumbs become sore, aching to tell as much as listen, masturbating in mind and body the entire day through. We have our assholes opened, our mouths ready and our genitals constantly dripping for the next thing to divert us, to keep us from having whole conversations, from engaging a real person in real time.

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Like porn all we want is the faster bigger sloppy cumshot to appear across our screens of life, to wipe it away and have at it again.
We were given the wet pussy of opportunity and we jumped in face first. We gamed and were given access to others who did the same, we chatted and found that we could type just as fast with one hand, we set-up a cam and watched others do the same, knowing that sooner or later clothes would come off. We started-out interested we became titillated, we began the seduction we ended with the fucking and now all we want to do is fuck harder and harder. We drain our imaginations daily, fill up and come back for more. And like the very best adult performers, we actually believe there is someone out there who wants us, who is jerking or jilling off to our big tits, who salivates over our thick cock.

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The wonderful thing is that at this point we could not even show-up to the set and we’d still get paid. We don’t really have to make a movie anymore. We could sit back on our laurels and rep and let the accolades wash over us. We have certainly seen and done enough that we should be satiated, experienced, jaded even but there is always another movie to be made, at least in our head, so we head for the bright lights of Facebook walls and tweets, where everyone is a star at least once a day and we strip and dance and self fellaciate or tickle deep and we are porn all over again to live another day.

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Cybersex Is Like Writing Erotica

Friday, June 10th, 2011

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One of the advantages of technology and computers is the ability to have anonymous sexual encounters with no physical participation between the participants. There couldn’t be sex any safer than that, but it still allows people to live out their wildest sexual fantasies with another human being instead of simply watching porn or relying solely on their own imaginations. Cybersex is a pretty interesting concept, because all it is really is an enhanced form of masturbation. There is another person involved via the computer, and that can be with or without a webcam so sometimes it’s just text via instant messaging or chatrooms. Each participant is by themselves (presumably) in front of a computer screen, sharing a fantasy.

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Basically what they’re doing is writing an erotic story together by role playing the characters actions, discussion and reactions. It can be very enjoyable though, and many people feel that it’s better than jerking off alone, and since the chat transcripts can be saved, both parties can keep a copy of the story to jerk off to in the future if they so choose. With the addition of a webcam, they dynamic changes a bit because the visual is added, so it becomes a little bit less like an erotic novel. Without a camera though, we could be anyone speaking to anyone.

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The anonymity of it allows people to create a persona for themselves; they can be anything or anyone they want. It could be a guy pretending to be a female and lesbian. It could be a teenager pretending to be a 45-year-old rich man that wants to eventually meet in person. Lonely or unhappy people can sometimes start to feel an emotional attachment to their cybering buddy, and are quite often very disappointed when it never moves into real life or when they find out the person hasn’t been completely honest about who they are, but if we all keep our wits about us and don’t get overly attached to a fantasy person, it can be a lot of fun and a great outlet for sexual fantasies that we might want to explore in this realm before attempting it in real life for whatever reasons. It gives people a way to have sexual release with the feeling of having someone else involved, even though the other person or people aren’t physically present.

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On Our Whims

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

While many sex-perts would love to be able to define every one of our reactions, fetishes and moves by our abuses or true motivations, for the most part our sexual mind is made up from some very deep desires and passing needs even we can’t truly decipher. As many people with a brittle self esteem and faulty early sex life clutch to the varieties present in the power struggle of BDSM sex, as they do regular vanilla fucking. Many lesbian women have had hetero relationships that led them to decades of marriage and for every guy out there looking for a homosexual romance, just as many are hetero; and there are no reasons for any of this behavior.

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What has come before has made us what we are, but it is more important who we are presently and how we engage our lover and they us. If our sex life brings us pleasure and the person we sleep with is as satiated, we can’t really hold on to the past, abuse or not.

It’s too easy to follow a straight line from a supposed slight or even some terrible tragedy to our actions presently, but the human mind doesn’t work so easily in cause and effect. Simply because someone engages in sex that maybe is seeming harmful doesn’t mean they have been harmed in the past, just as much as a woman courting a rape fantasy doesn’t have to working out a past abuse every time she has sex;then again, maybe she is.

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We simply can’t make those assumptions about our partners, even if they offer explanations; who really knows their own mind all that well to explain every single one of their sexual desires?

Our preferences or prejudices, our passing needs or our long-term fetishes all that we are sexually is a conundrum we will not soon fathom, nor will our friends, family or lovers ever truly need to understand if all actions are consensual and fuel the romance morethan slow it down.

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From day to day all we can do is follow our whims, hope they might match someone we find in real life or even across some on-line dating site and that we can all find peace in whatever piece we need.