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Sex and The Foo Fighters

Tuesday, August 30th, 2011

Pilots on all sides during world war two reported seeing strange lights and unidentified flying objects near their planes while on missions. They had never been adequately explained and interestingly enough the opposing sides thought they somehow belonged to or were deployed by the enemy. British and American fighters first spying them believed they were German while German fighter and bomber pilots believed they were allied special weapons deployed against them. Their reports soon reached the ears of the civilian populace because none were with so much Sex appeal as pilots were especially bomber and fighter pilots.

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Military men being what they are would gather at the local watering holes and have a few drinks, or three and soon their tongues would wag. It was easy to see how information would soon work its way along the grapevine as soldiers and airmen would find women and have Sex with them and talk about whatever came to mind. Of course while getting some nice handsome cock and being treated to a night on the town young ladies would be fascinated and ask them more questions, especially if there were strange and interesting or exotic things being told to them. Getting some pussy from an army brat like this one in a video on Orgasm.com, often helped take the stress away for a short while. It’s no wonder that these pilots on both sides would talk about whatever they could just to get more attention.

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This also had the effect of allowing them the ability to actually talk about strange things that didn’t make any sense to them. People being what they are, naturally look for explanations to things they don’t have answers to. If they don’t have adequate answers then, they will make them up and agree amongst themselves as to the nature of what they saw or experienced. These stories then went from young ladies to others and soon reached reporters, and newsmen were always hungry for every little tidbit and anything strange or unusual was spectacularly reported.

To Talk The Talk

Monday, August 8th, 2011

Sure we all want to look like, fuck, be cool like porn stars, but we all also know it’s not so realistic a wish. What is good about porn is that it is fantasy, we might strive to recreate what we see but for the most part none of us can even get close. From the clothes worn-or not worn-the sets, the multiple characters and the stamina,to dirty talk, we know we can’t match the goings-on of our favorite porn guy or girl.

We also can’t really speak like our favorite porn stars do.

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What comes across wild, hot and oh-so-raunchy in a film will sound stunted and forced with a partner, especially one we know real well. We’re better off just keeping to what we feel, how we say what we say. Yes, if it’s a new lover we are with we might get by with a naughty suggestion or two that we happened to hear from our favorite download or a recent DVD we viewed, but generally talking the talk and walking the walk should be left to professionals.

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And really, remember, porn stars are acting. They don’t really feel or at least feel to the extreme what they say in a film most of the time. You don’t want to act in bed nor do you want the person you are with acting their pleasure with you. Our sex lives should not be scripted, they should just flow naturally and what we say can as much impede and influence action as what we do in bed. We are not, none of us, porn stars, nor should we really ever act or talk like one.

Only trained professionals should try such arduous feats.

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We all want to be a little more skilled, a little more suave, a little more breast-y and better hung, but in the end we all know the good sex we have is good because it involved us and our partner being who we are not reciting anyone else’s lines or acting in any way that is not our way.

Porn Star Blow Jobs

Sunday, August 7th, 2011

Porn is exciting to us in its own right, getting us off when we need a little bit of a help to our masturbatory thrills. But we can also learn from some of the skills that adult video stars show, allowing us to have more fun and uninhibited, free sex lives.

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Once upon a time the blow job was a rarity in every day sex. It was perhaps performed for special occasions like birthdays or holidays as a gift from the woman to the man. It was presumed that she never enjoyed the feel of a cock growing hard or even coming in her mouth, and men had to encourage and cajole the women in their lives. Happily we have all learned from sex videos that fellatio can be an erotic act for everyone involved, enticing and fun. The man enjoys the incredible sensation and sights of his most sensitive organ being embraced in a place so hot and wet while teased with suction and tongue, while she loves the vulnerability and the control it gives over him, bringing wild orgasms at her beck and call. There is many a girl today who gets dripping wet at the thought of having a hard cock between their lips, either as a form of potent fore play for them both or as a way to get him off, perhaps while she strokes her clit and gets off with her own horny fingers. On the other hand, many women love it if their blow jobs are followed up by a bout of just as enthusiastic oral sex, and what else can we do to show our intense gratitude at all the pleasure we’ve received than to return that pleasure with lips and tongues and fingers.

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As seen in porno films some of the best blowjobs are almost full body affairs. They are wet and sloppy and employ the use of fingers and hands along with lips, mouths tongues and throats.

Some Manscaping Could Mean More Blowjobs

Monday, June 27th, 2011

Guys should take a little time to do a bit of manscaping and trim their pubic hair a little bit to impress the ladies. Women have been expected to keep their pussies shaved or trimmed for years now, and they’re enjoying the trend that’s getting popular with men shaving or trimming as well. Some straight guys seem to be resisting the idea of doing some weed-whacking because they feel it makes them a little too metrosexual (which makes some men uncomfortable, even though it doesn’t really mean anything but neat and tidy) or even worse maybe a little bit gay, but the truth is it’s clean and smooth and a lot of women really love it. It doesn’t make a guy anything. It makes him a guy who really enjoys it when women want to be near his cock, and a lot of women are more into being close to a guy’s cock when he’s got a nice, neat area for them to enjoy. It could mean a lot more blowjobs because women hate getting hairs caught in their throat just as much as men hate it. A woman going to subconsciously think that it’s more clean and sanitary, which is going to inspire them to spend a lot more time in the area.

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Since it is getting much more popular, women are starting to get used to it. Imagine how surprised a guy would be if a woman stripped and had a really full bush. Women are starting to feel the same way. Doing a bit of manscaping makes a guy’s hard cock look really great, and sometimes it makes a guy look even larger and longer because the area look so sleek and neat.

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If a guy is thinking about doing this for the first time, there are some tools that are better than others. Scissors can be used, but it’s not recommended. Electric trimmers are perfect for uniformly trimmed hair. For total removal, a new razor and plenty of shaving cream will do the trick. Soak in the tub or shower for a while to soften the hair before getting started, and trimming with an electric razor first might make the job a little easier. Hair removal creams are not a good idea because they can be pretty harsh and burn sensitive skin

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Not Like Sex Ed Class

Saturday, June 4th, 2011

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The classes that would be the most helpful to people were never available in the past, but these days it seems like more and more there are classes available that teach people how to be better lovers. In most larger metropolitan areas at least, people can find blow job classes for women that teach them how to provide their man with the most pleasure possible while also teaching them how to really appreciate and adore their man’s cock. There are usually classes for men about cunnilingus and how to bring their lady to mind-blowing orgasms with oral and manual stimulation. For both genders there are various classes that help them to improve their skills, safe sex and how to provide the most pleasure to a partner during sex. Sometimes there are even classes that teach about kinky activities including BDSM and fetish activities and relationships. There are sometimes weekend getaways for couples that focus on improving sexuality and pleasure, tantric sex and creating deeper intimacy. It seems that people will spend an awful lot of money on things that will increase their pleasure and improve their sex life. Who can blame them?

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A great benefit of classes and weekends like these is that they often help people to develop a better body image and increase their confidence as lovers, which is great for people’s self esteem. Building confidence, whether sexual or just personal confidence, will help people feel more confident and secure in other aspects of their lives, which is never a bad thing. Most people will start doing better at work or begin to have happier home lives when they feel more confident and secure. It’s been scientifically proven that when people improve their sex life, they also improve their health, their mood and their mental health, because sex helps to elevate people’s moods and reduce symptoms of depression. Most people probably realize that there are a lot of health benefits to having a healthy sex life, like healthier immune systems, better circulation, better bladder control, less depression, more mental clarity, better sleep and a more positive and upbeat attitude. Those benefits will definitely become apparent in other aspects of our lives, and as our confidence grows we’ll see our self esteem improve and we’ll become healthier emotionally as well.

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Degrade and Humiliate

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

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Some male submissives really receiving degradation and humiliation play from their dominant partners. Degradation and humiliation is a subject that can be a little bit controversial in BDSM circles. Done carelessly, it can cause quite a bit of emotional distress to the receiver. The dominant partner, who is responsible for the physical and emotional well-being of his or her submissive partner, should use caution and common sense wit this type of play. They should also take the time to get to know their partner for a variety of reasons.

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One of the most important reasons that it’s important for the partners to be familiar is the effectiveness of the play. If the submissive partner enjoys some degradation and humiliation, it’s important to know what type is effective with that person. Everyone is different, and to create an effective scene it is important to know what makes the submissive tick. Degradation doesn’t work if it doesn’t make the submissive feel degraded in any way. One must know what specific things will work with the submissive without making them feel overly emotional and get them to the point that they are no longer enjoying the scene. Making fun of a man’s cock may be perfect for one submissive but might really distress another. A man who loves wearing women’s panties may not feel any degradation or humiliation no matter what the Dominant says to them, while other men who are embarrassed to admit that they enjoy may really get off on being forced to wear them and made fun of for having them on. Degradation and humiliation is not a one size fits all fetish. It must be tailored to the specific submissive, and extensive negotiation should precede this type of play in order to assess just what the submissive can handle.

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In addition, care must be taken to build the submissive back up at the end of this type of scene. Compliments on their behavior or on how well they handled everything that happened during the scene will help bolster them back up and reassure the submissive that they are cared for by their Dominant. Extra aftercare may be needed after particularly intense scenes. Done with care, degradation and humiliation can be really hot, but the Dominant should be really aware of the submissive’s state of mind throughout the scene.

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A Taste For Southern Climes

Friday, May 6th, 2011

Cunnilingus is the art of giving oral sex to a woman, fellatio is when a man’s partner puts his cock in their mouth, sucks, licks and generally attends to him with lips, tongue and teeth. For first timers, oral sex can be the most taboo kind of sex to engage in, as it has connotations to intimacies as well as lust that no other acts truly carry. For still other people the true expression of their love is how close they can get to their lover and oral sex gets them very close indeed.

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For the most part there are indeed smells and tastes associated with going down on our lovers. Depending on a man or woman’s diet, their specific body chemistry, even if they are carrying some sort of yeast-like infection they might not be aware of, the climate of a woman’s vagina or the area around a man’s cock could exude a cornucopia of scents. True also, when either a man or woman grows aroused or ejaculates there could be certain specific tastes associated with the fluids they produce. For the most part though, if we are attracted to a certain sex we are also aroused by the scent and taste of the musk their genitals produce, so allowing for some sort of untoward and unusual pungency due to medicines or food they ingest, for the most part what we encounter down there will pretty much arouse us when we’re down there.

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Oral sex is usually quite pleasurable for both a man and woman to receive simply because, in most cases, we cannot place our mouth anywhere near our own genitals, especially women. We all pretty much masturbate with our hands, and our lover’s fingers tickling, teasing and touching us for the most part is arousing, but feeling their mouth on us is extremely exciting. The wetness of someone’s mouth covering our cock or pussy, the flicking strength of the of the tongue, the puckering of lips, all the actions the mouth and even teeth can facilitate does make oral attention quite unique.

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Then to there is the question of intimacy of oral sex, what indeed makes it both so intense and at the same time so off-putting to couples. Once someone literally has their face in our crotch, in affect seeing us from the most vulnerable angle, many men and women do not like being examined this way. Many a partner will keep their lover from going down on them, while others, fully ensconced in their lover and ready for any and all romantic experiences, welcome oral sex, giving or receiving.

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A Guide to Swallowing

Friday, April 15th, 2011

You don’t have to be a porn star to swallow. The average male semen contains roughly 0.1 and 100 milliliters of sperm and holds a fascination for both men and women in the form of swallowing semen. As far as consistency and taste go, that is usually the issue in question when it comes to whether a partner swallows or not.

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The fetish of swallowing traces its’ origins a long way back. Dating back to the Church of Epiphanius and other libertine Gnostics who swallowed sperm as the body of Christ, and a form of worship. The tribes of Papua New Guinea have culturally believed that semen provides sexual maturity among the younger men of the tribe. The practice of fellating the elders in order to gain their authority and power is held for prepubescent and post pubescent men of the tribe. This practice may also relate to practiced homosexuality in these tribes.

Dietary supplements have been on the market for a number of years as a way to increase the volume of semen provided in a man. None of these supplements have been validated by the scientific community.

The typical makeup of ejaculation consists primarily of water but also contain every nutrient needed by the human body in order to function properly. A typical dosage of semen contains at least 150 mg of protein, 11 mgs of carbohydrates and other trace minerals. The only risks involved in swallowing cum are those of fellatio such as transmission of STDs between unclean partners.

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While there is no hardcore scientific evidence in changing the taste of semen, many people swear diet has an influential factor in shaping the taste. Red meats, tobacco and alcohol typically infuse a bitter or acrid taste while coffee and teas also do nothing to aid in the taste. Fresh fruits and vegetables, while good for the body are also believed to sweeten the taste significantly. Prolonged times between ejaculation intervals are also said to contribute to the volume of semen produced and shot out.

Sexual practices of swallowing have gone so far to include bukkake from the Japanese culture, cream pies, snowballing and felching, which may involve more than one partner. Aleister Crowley and the Ecclesia Gnostica Catholica practice swallowing semen during Gnostic Mass as a way to gain spiral power from the Divine.

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The Smell of Sex

Thursday, April 14th, 2011

Human beings are immensely responsive to the sense of smell. Other animals of course are immensely responsive to smell and special chemicals known as sexual pheromones. They have special ways of smelling using something called a vomeronasal gland which allows them to detect these pheromonal scents. Modern science has not determined for sure to what degree humans have pheromones or are able to respond to them. Some chemicals have been identified — in sexual juices like semen and female ejaculate, as well as sweat especially from places like the armpits — if one has enjoyed the smell of a special lover’s sweat than this may very well be the reason. However scientists cannot agree on whether or not the human vomeronasal gland — also known as the Jacobson’s organ — is active. Even so many products are now available which purport to claim pheromones, from perfumes and colognes to soaps and scented candles all designed with scents designed to get cunts slippery, to make a penis erect or otherwise get one in the mood for some deep hard fucking or some romantic love-making.

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What is strange is the love/hate relationship that humanity has with its own sex scents. On the one hand many worry endlessly about how they smell, bathing more than necessary or covering up with perfumes or douche. Yet many of these same perfumes contain musk and even animal pheromones which suggest the idea of arousal. Our attraction to the odor of another person may have much to do with the way one selects a potential mate at a genetic level. Pregnant women and those on some kinds of birth control may crave a different kind of sexual partner, perhaps one that is more stable and compassionate than the raunchy, virile fuck-buddy they seek on online dating sertvices during the rest of the time.

Smell and taste are two senses that are intimately linked, even crossed together in many cases in human brains. Perhaps that is why scent is so intimately linked with oral sex, especially cunnilingus. We want our lovers to be clean but even a freshly showered cunt smells like the unique smell of our fuck friend. The same is true of the delicate musky odor of a freshly washed cock, ready for fellatio. Often when one prepares to go down on one’s lover, one finds the first thing one does is take a sniff, enjoying the smell, than reaching out one’s tongue to get a taste of lubricating girl come or salty pearly pre-come.

H.J v.s B.J.

Thursday, April 7th, 2011

Not that many men would truly make the distinction of quality if they are feeling friction, but there is a difference between a blow-job and a hand-job and much more than just the sensations a partner’s mouth can give as opposed to their hand. There are considerations of intent and intimacy, positioning and communication inherent in either act, as are inherent in any other sex act that we might not be considering in the throes of all those sensations.

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In this day and age, certainly the hand job is the safer of the two activities but as all of us can pretty much masturbate, use our hand or sex toys with them when we like, having someone’s mouth on our genitals is infinitely more thrillin, for most women and men. Our lips, tongues, even teeth-gently-can provide a cornucopia of sensations our fingers and hand simply cannot, not to mention just the sheer fantastic sensation of wetness covering our dicks or pussies. For men there is the added satisfaction of being able to literally fuck the mouth of their lover, barbaric though it might seem. And any oral sex really does garner feelings of intimacy between partners as, for the most part, when performed with proficiency and caring a blow-job is a loving intimate act performed on a man from his partner, very much as a man eating pussy is.

The hand-job though is not to be denigrated. Sure it might not be further down on the infamous hierarchy of sexual bases but it still rates up there as a sexual act; the man having his genitals manually manipulated by someone other than himself
With a hand-job the giver certainly is free to talk through any manner of naughty little scenarios, issue promises-or threats-and basically tease the erection-addled guy lying there with his entire life literally in his partner’s hands. Eye-to-eye contact can be maintained if couples wish it and many partners claim they can determine when their man is about to come with a cock in their hand better than they ever can the same cock in their mouth.

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Stimulating our lover unselfishly, completely in mind of making them orgasm, not receiving any pleasure in return other then knowledge of a job well done, both a blow-job and a hand-job speaks to how much one partner looks to give pleasure to another; or wants to give a little something out to get the same in return.
Either way, the man getting his genitals sucked, licked or touched, is the winner in the end.