You don’t even have to know exactly what kink your might be interested in to find it , or, at least, to find fellow kinky people to play with. It used to be that it was much harder for a woman to find kinky partners; you used to have to walk in to some out of the way big city sex shop, or park out back of those suburban spots always fully lit and right on the edge of a major highway. Inside, if you could ever even hope to catch the eye of patrons who were very much like you, scared of being seen, keeping their heads buried in video tape titles or scanning magazines, maybe you’d meet someone with your same interest. It was a one-in-a-million chance to find someone who’d strike up a conversation, let alone someone you might be attracted to. If one was lucky, the most you might hope for was some new exciting masturbatory material, or maybe a few hastily bought fetish papers chuck-full of personal ads that were really only ever pro doms advertising.
Occasionally one might hear of a club or some party and be happily dragged along in a group, but even then you’d either find a space too dark and intimidating too feel comfortable standing in, let alone bending over a pommel horse for a good ass-warming.
These days, the net has opened up a wide world of possibilities for the fetish-minded guy or gal. Kinks galore meet us as we click, scan and surf across the web. Even straight Internet dating sites occasionally allow for certain boxes to be filled-out on their on-line profiles that will indicate to those naughty people in the know an alternate sexuality. There are also social networking sites for kink amassing a cross-section of men and women, bi ,straight, gay and anything in between. There are parties announced regularly on email blast lists and the network of fetish spreads ever wider as more and more people become linked through playing live, emailing, or chatting.
Kink, like porn, can now be found almost anywhere.