In Western culture, many are raised to believe that pleasure is bad, especially sexual pleasure. The belief is that good feelings and sexual exploration are sinful. In the modern world, this belief has started to change with the rise of sex positive culture, but perhaps a few words on why sex and pleasure are beneficial will help.
It’s obvious that sex is a natural part of the human experience, and everyone comes with a different set of fetishes and desires. If we don’t seek out a healthy sex life, it can be as damaging as trying to go without any of our other most basic needs, leading to depression or at least unhappiness. Who knows how many hide their fantasies for BDSM, threesomes, sex toys, or anything vanilla or twisted when they could easily find the object of their desires if they just tried, perhaps on an online dating site.
The healthy reality is that sex has countless benefits. It releases endorphins, which give pleasure, cause feelings of euphoria, and even relieve pain. The effect of arousal on the mucous membranes of the body can relieve congestion. Many have heard the old phrase I have a headache; in actuality the effect of orgasms can relieve headaches. Some studies have even shown that recreational spanking can aid people with chronic pain conditions like arthritis.
Unlike many animals on earth, we use sex and sexual pleasure for procreation as well as social networking. Today’s hookups may be tomorrow’s business contact (or long term partner!). Who knows – stranger things have happened? Sex can bring friends closer together, and create new bonds in your social circle. Instead of worrying about whether you should sleep with sorts of exciting new possibilities for pleasure.
While most hookups remain just hookups, other things can happen. A threesome can turn into a true triad, or a permanent master/slave relationship, arising from casual playtimes.
So what are you waiting for? Get out there and find someone to spank, kiss, or play out your porn fantasies with! Because dreams do come true.
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