As you begin to explore sexually, you will come across various possibilities that fall in the category of BDSM. You will learn that what is one person’s pain is another person’s pleasure, and that pleasure and pain combine for some people to become a favorite, complex set of sensations. The use of hot wax and fire play hold a unique place in the sexual spectrum, and you might know them from free porn.

Dripping hot wax on a guy’s chest or dribbling it on a woman’s nipples and down along her breasts can cause amazing sensations. It can be a visual turn on as well, and the yelps of the person submitting to the wax are often delicious. Different kinds of candles produce varying levels of heat, so it is best to experiment gingerly until you find the right place to begin. Inexpensive paraffin candles or 7-day novena candles from the grocery store can be a good place to start. You may want to use blindfolding and/or bondage as well for the added elements of surprise and immobility.

Before you begin, be sure you are aware of the parameters of the partner who will be submitting and make sure you have a safe word in place so that the scene can be edgy yet remain safe at all times.
Fire play is not for the faint of heart. It may be fun to play with a little wax on a whim, and yes, if you are not careful, you could still cause or endure a burn. However, if you play with fire directly, do work with an experienced player. Depending on the type of sensation the sub can take – from mildly wild to seriously intense, and experienced fire top can choose the percent alcohol, the kind of swab, and the body areas on which to play. The Dom will prepare the sub in whatever psychological way that seems appropriate, then swab the alcohol and light it. Fire will dance across the submissive’s body along the path of the swab, causing intense, startling, and erotic sensations.

Hot wax and fire play can be the preludes to other sexual activities or the cherry on top of an amazing sex session. Consider giving an oral sex orgasm in the midst of these pleasures for the ultimate experience.

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