There seems to be a shift happening with attraction to BBWs and large men. It may be simply that people are getting bigger and heavier, and the percentages of the population that is overweight or obese in nearly every country is increasing every year so everyone is getting more accepting of a variety of sizes because it’s is rapidly becoming the norm in our society and people are getting adjusted to it. In the past, men would hesitate to openly date larger women, no matter how attracted they might have been to them. It was silly for a guy to deny his true desires and interests because of societal pressures to like something different, but that seems to be what was happening. Many larger women will tell stories of men who wanted to sleep with them on the down low but wouldn’t openly date them. A lot of bigger ladies have crazy stories about married men that practically stalked them and begged them for sex, complaining that their wives were skinny little things and that’s never what they were really attracted to. These days there are all kinds of online personals specifically for BBWs and the people that love them. There are BBW sex hookup sites and BBW sex parties. The voluptuous ladies are being recognized as the sex goddesses that they are, and men are no longer hiding their interest and attraction.
It’s sad that people have to hide their true desires, but it’s even sadder that our society makes it necessary to put down one body type in order to uplift another. The joke used to be about the fat chicks but now all the jokes seem to be switching to the skinny chicks. None of it should be acceptable. Yes, there are health issues with both over and underweight people, and that should be a concern of each individual and their loved ones. Other than that, why can’t we all just live and let live? Let people be who they want to be and who they were born to be. No one size is perfectly right all the time, and most people, regardless of their body size are not entirely happy with themselves. We all need to learn to love ourselves and work on being the best healthiest people we can be without being judged.