Archive for May, 2011

The Good Male O

Wednesday, May 25th, 2011

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Bringing a man to full orgasm is often talked about as if it was a simple as pull-tab-to-open.

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Very untrue men have areas that are often so sensitive that they are not pleasurable to the touch. While many more can only reach praxis through intense stimulation even in some cases squeezing and pulling. Guys I know that you want to be sweet and not offend your bedmate. There are ways beyond telling your lover that they are missing the mark, to help your lover get you there with out self-injuring. Keep playfulness in the proceedings. Try to keep the admonishment tone out of your voice. Very soon you will have the feeling of connected touch that you desire. Most caring men just decide to soon that there date or partner just is not good at some thing or other. They never say a thing and go with the flow. What an odd logic we strive to find out what our sexual partners really want while at the same time never really telling them what works for us. Sharing is caring, we are told that from grade school on.

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Giving your sex partner a road map to your pleasure in a clear and playful manner that lacks any tone of criticism can only give them a feeling of success. A fringe benefit is, your partner will start to talk to you in the same manner about what works for them. This gives a man better more fulfilling sex weather or not their sex partner of choice is for the evening or a lifetime.

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Weight

Tuesday, May 24th, 2011

Most women fret over their weight. Fashion magazine make us wish that we were model thin. Most women don’t remember that 20 years ago in a effort to combat the dieting craze the fashion industry made changes to dress sizes assize 2 was now labeled a 0. And a size 12 was now a 10. Everything shifted in order to make women feel better about themselves.

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But it didn’t help very many women for too long. Women still yo-yo dieted and worried about their weight and their dress size. And fast food, sedentary lifestyles made many women heavier than before. A condition usually associated with very wealthy lazy individuals was now epidemic. Women associate how they look with sex appeal. A poor self image base do being overweight or obese for a woman equates to no sex appeal. This imagine makes it hard for a woman to have an Orgasm. This is true even if she is masturbating. But if she is in bed with a man it is so difficult to find that level of feel good that these women become their own self fulfilling prophecy of used. Men and fashion are not to blame here.

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Women have bought into the two media driven ideals convenience of processed fast foods and having to be super women and do more, better than any generation before them. But they haven’t done more or better. They work more but they are still paid less. They have less conveniences than middle class women had before them. Their children see less of them. They may have birth control but they have less time to distress and enjoy sex, They are on a path of heart attacks and stress related cancers. Learning to say NO is a big part of bringing on change. Saying no to processed fast foods and indulging in the sexy appeal of preparing meals. Saying no to late nights of extra work and multi-tasking and saying no to just sitting in one place until their backs hurt and their asses spread wide over the chair.

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Bed and Breakfast

Tuesday, May 24th, 2011

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One of the benefits of dating a MILF is that she always has time and money to run away for a romantic fuck fest. Older women are a hot commodity right now. Younger men are looking for women with confidence, that don’t play games, that really enjoy sex and know how to get themselves and their guy off. They like girls that talk dirty but can also do more than talk the talk. Cougars know what they like they don’t have time to grow a man and even if they did they wont make time.

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They have paid their dues and are ready to enjoy the best things in life. That includes but is not limited to the best sex too. So if a younger man wants to make an older women his woman he has to step up his game. She isn’t going to want to make love in the back seat of his car or in a cheap motel. She isn’t going to go slumming just because he doesn’t have two cents to rub together. She wants romance and over the top orgasmic pleasure with a real man in nice place. For guys looking for something that meets those requirements they should check out local bed and breakfast establishments.

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They are usually no more expensive than a motel and have tons more atmosphere. Big beautifully appointed rooms, fire places, ball and claw tubs and balconies can all be had. By selecting a remote place nestled along a stream or lake a guy can make a huge impression on his lady. Just remember that B&Bs are not sound proof. If the lady is a screamer it might be a good idea to bring a ball gag and some ties to restrain and gag her. This might also add to the excitement of being away in such a lovely place. The money and the time to find the perfect place will be worth it since the sex had will be better than anything found when a guy surfs for Free sex videos and as an added bonus it also includes a lovely breakfast.

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The Stash Changes Your Game

Sunday, May 22nd, 2011

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When your single and alone often times keeping yourself a stash of Free porn can be a life saver and game changer. It can really help you keep yourself on the level and avoid being desperate. When you get desperate it can contribute to your making bad decisions that will negatively affect your life and your reputation. When you are desperate for sex and intimacy you will often find that your standards begin lowering and this can become very problematic as it goes on.

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You are likely to start looking at potential partners you would never have given the time of day to before. They will be people that won’t typically meet your standards and people you wouldn’t want to associate with. When you start getting desperate those standards start going out the window and this has to be avoided. The consequences of this can be very far reaching if you aren’t careful. Stay on top of this problem and avoid it with an Orgasm now and then from masturbating to porn.

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This will help give you at least a minimum fix of release. It will help you stay away from desperation until you can meet someone that meets your standards. Then you can continue on. The good thing about having a stash of porn to dip into when you need it is that it can last you a very long time as long as you continually cycle it from time to time. You want to keep things fresh and new so that it doesn’t get old having to try and jerk off to the same old scenes and actresses time and again. You can avoid this by keeping a steady inflow of regular new material. Find a reputable source you can trust and get a membership or whatever you need to download and keep a fresh stock. That way things stay new and interesting and arousing. You can keep doing this for an immeasurable amount of time until you find someone that can become your partner.

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Both Sides Of A Dirty Penny

Friday, May 20th, 2011

Pornographers have been up to their necks in a damned-if-they-do, broke-if-they-don’t petard ever since the advent of the net. As access to the web grew, and people became rabid in their use of the Internet-and portable devices were invented to access that access-the men and women who produce naughty fare jumped on the opportunity to present their product on online. Pretty much at the forefront of streaming video technology, porn movies were quickly presented in on-line formats for public consumption; studios could download their samples, they allowed streaming videos to members of their websites and basically kept open the free flow of information of what they were selling, where and when.

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But there would soon come a price to pay, a price higher then pornographers were making with all this good will on the net.

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It became too apparent too late that audiences were availing themselves of free porn videos. Dirty stuff that pornographers worked hard to produce-from paying pricey popular porn stars, to shooting in foreign locations-was being undercut by the fact that the audience for naughty movies could and were seeing those movies on-line, for free! The medium that pornographers had been championing has turned around to stab them in the back and what’s more they were pretty much powerless to stop it.

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At this stage in the evolution of the net pretty much everyone who has ever sold am product or service is rethinking how to monetize it. This is as true for porn movie makers as anybody else. Everyone is scrambling to be ahead of technology-which they can never be-anticipate what the public wants-when the public doesn’t even know what it wants-and hope to make money from what they do in a format that they can’t be ripped off from-which no one has yet been able to figure out.

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Digital image can be pirated, download and manipulated by the layman as much as the makers of those images and there is no reason to believe that more and more free porn videos will be seen and released for mass consumption while the studios that made those videos won’t be left chasing their own tails.

The Devil You Know

Friday, May 20th, 2011

Dirty movie makers are in a quandary, and have been for years. As the web grew they saw a perfect opportunity to present their wares on-line, and they did all they could to be on the forefront of the tsunami that was net pornography The studios could download samples, stream video to their audiences, even sell content over the net for a minimal price and even membership fees to their fan base who would pay to view content streaming.

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Pornographers were reaping the rich benefit of using the web just as escorts were advertising on it, cam girls were doing their daily shows and just about anybody else who was working in the business was enjoying the access the web allowed, without realizing there might be a price to pay.

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It suddenly became too apparent to the studios that there were free porn movies being shown. That their wares, the stuff they worked so hard to produce and paid porn stars lots of money to appear in, was suddenly appearing on-line in pirated form. They had to begin to hire teams just to search the web on a regular basis and the monster that they had hoped would march across the landscape felling competitors in its path was now coming to stomp on their livelihood. People could now get free porn on line and they were getting it on a regular basis.

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The only way for porn makers to retaliate-beyond the exhausting process of policing content-was to spend more money. They made bigger and better websites to attract their audience to their streaming videos and only their streaming videos and they began to produce DVD’s that saw amazing budgets and high production values, hoping to lure viewers off line, away from the very medium they so championed and still pretty much do champion as it continues to bite them on the ass!

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The future of the business unclear, but certainly somebody is watching all that free porn…and watching it right now!

Having At Those Videos

Thursday, May 19th, 2011

Interview any self-respecting porn moviemaker involved in the business in the last thirty years and they will relate in no mixed terms how video killed the porn industry. How movie houses showing exclusively Xxx fare closed because there was simply no reason for audiences to come out to see a film when they could watch a rented porn video. That the quality of films suffered so much being shot for video and on video that it’s been only recently where a resurgence of quality has produced some startling DVD releases. That now almost anyone can make a few films, download the content on the net and release free porn videos.

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Our technology allows for everyone to grab that infamous fifteen minutes of fame. Videos of puppies and babies go viral daily, to such a wide degree they make evening network news broadcasts! Everyone has a video/DVD player in his or her phone and everyone is videoing. The same is true for amateur pornographers or just the couple next door whom get-off on sharing their sex life. With ability and desire, mixed in with a dash of exhibitionism, it’s a surprise that we don’t see more free porn then we do.

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Free porn though is not necessarily good porn though. The price, or lack of one, does not determine quality of product. Just because we can shoot a video of ourselves fucking and we can post it on the net, doesn’t mean we all should. The fun thing about porn was that it was a fantasy, featuring actors and actresses sporting body parts that we’d never get to see in real life, let alone enjoy and they had sex like we all wished we could have but knew we never would.

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And for all those snippets of movies professing to be free, there are a bunch of folks looking to make a pretty penny off of what they have downloaded; when you click your mouse over their website address to see more of what they are about you are faced with the price of the movie.

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What Women Like

Thursday, May 19th, 2011

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There are books out that make the point that porn for women is a man vacuuming a carpet or dusting a lamp. Cute and good for a quick laugh, not really all that true these days though….unless the man dusting happens to be naked and dancing. Yes, giving a dam about the house and helping out will make the lady in your life swoon and feel cared for, but sexually turned on and raring to go? Maybe it depends what you are wearing or not wearing at the time.

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It’s not so much that ladies that are not into dirty movies and pictures they are just a picky. Men love to look, they want to see, and that is what gets his imagination going. Woman also love to look and their other senses have strong opinions about what is going on as a whole experience. Even if your lady fare is lucky enough to see a porn with you that shows enough sexy men as well as women in it. Allot of times the film will have bad music and really bad, dubbing that is just too annoying for the girl friend to bare. So if you want that special someone to feel relaxed and appreciated goes ahead and put the dishes away, vacuum the floor. If you want her to enjoy a sex video with her with out her tuning out or getting bored let her pick a few. Your fare maiden can also get jealous of the porn. Yeah that is right jealous especially if she is a B cup and she notices that all of the porn you watch has porn-stars in it with huge perfect plastic double D’s all over the screen. Just makes sure that she remembers the difference between like and love.

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Be honest though own the fact that yes you love big full bouncy breasts when you are fantasizing but you love her and her sweet firm beautiful b cups. It also might be helpful if you give the same room to her. If you notice that the men she likes in the film are built like brick houses and you are a slim trim 150 pound man that lifts the coffee mug at an office job. You just need to remember she likes those beefy pecks but she loves your sweet embrace.

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O yes

Wednesday, May 18th, 2011

What makes a person want to cum is as individual as the foods they like and don’t like. What about power? Power is sexy in many ways. The tamest lover can feel a rush of triumph when their partner explodes in to Orgasm. Power mixed with tenderness others take it a little further.

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Using rope to restrain the hands and so that self pleasuring is not and option. simulating and teasing to make sure that when the tied partner had a release there is no doubt who gave it. That is the power in giving pleasure and for many it is way better the receiving. This is a more common form of sex play then is widely thought. Step beyond this into orgasm torture and there is no avoiding that power is the turn on for both people involved. The pure cross over into bondage and dominance has arrived.

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Orgasm torture is the act of over loading or denying orgasmic pleasure until the recipient is moved to tears and evasion tactics that are thwarted. The top puts themselves in the control position and gets joy from keeping them wanting. The bottom gets the gift of being able to let go and have no choice but to take it. The high is the same for both. Power both the having of it and the surrendering of it. Not all people take love play to such extremes but it is true that on some level all people play with power during sex.

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Some partners get off on having there yes won in bed. If they say not until I tell you yes and then hang on to that yes until you are about to explode that’s a very common form of play. In a milder form then even that is when your partner asks you to tell them that you want them. Power again. Why not the power in your partner is what makes the sparks fly.

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How Good is Free Porn?

Wednesday, May 18th, 2011

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Everywhere you look there is free porn…at least on the net. We might still have to buy magazines, purchase or rent DVD’s, even pay to see some strippers in action, but on the web there is free porn coming at us all the time. It is a cornucopia of stuff that has no limit in content nor is there any regulation of how often we can get it. The digital age has been a boon for the dirty movie connoisseur.

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The makers of porn are dealing with a double-edged sword with all this free content though. In one way they can reach a wider audience than ever before. They can advertise all their titles, they can sell their movies, they can even create a demand for more, simply be bolstering their on-line presence. Digital downloading is a way to view porn films whose time has come.

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But the facility leads to some lessening of the content at the very least, a wide slice into the studio’s bottom lie at worst.

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Anyone can shoot, download and present a porn movie these days. For as many real studios producing high quality movies there are just as many hastily made downloads featuring amateurs. And though we all hope cream rises to the top, this is porn…no matter what the cream is made of people will want to see it!

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Then to there is the question of what all this free content does to the business of porn.

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Studios are scrambling to make profits when they know their audience can view clips and whole films-even if those films are of a lesser quality-for free. Pornographers worry if, in the end, the price for content-namely if it is free-will far outweigh the quality of content. Even if what they present is better in production value, featuring popular contract players in exotic settings will an audience care if they can simply scroll across any website and download their dirty movies for free?