The sounds of sex are some of the most stimulating aspects of fucking, intercourse, making the beast with two backs or whatever one may call it. Aural stimulation is much of what helps us on the way to orgasm, hearing the wet slippery sounds of cock in cunt, the slick lubed sounds of anal sex, the sloppy wet sucking of a hot and hungry blowjob. Most of all though one enjoys the sounds of moans and grunts and groans and whimpers, all the vocal noises that lovers make in the bedroom.
Women are frequently believed to make more noises. Some scientists even believe this has to do with our evolutionary past. They refer to this as female copulatory vocalization but we can call it screaming and moaning. These scientists believe that many women in prehistoric times engaged in gang bangs or cuckolding or other forms of group sex. The moans of a fertile, horny woman would be used to attract other horny men who would take turns on her. Other factors suggest this like the mushroom head of a man’s cock which may help to remove previous ejaculations and make sure it is the man’s spunk which will impregnate the girl. The fact that men come more quickly whereas many women can orgasm many times or take a lot longer to reach orgasm and feel satisfied may also suggest this early non-monogamous history.
But what can one do when lovers-male or female-is just too quiet? We all like applause, knowing that what one is doing with hands and fingers, with toes or cunts or cocks or assholes or lips or tongues — is bringing pleasure to the one receiving the pleasurable attentions.
Of course one can try encouraging one’s sex partner to be more vocal. For example when one is giving one’s boyfriend a handjob one can ask questions — inquire whether what one is doing feels good. Ask whether it is better if one strokes hard or soft, whether it is better to lick around the head or to deep throat the shaft during a blowjob. The same can be true with women too. Get a bedroom partner talking and one will have a better time, it can even lead to dirty talk, talk about how wet or hard or soft or good something feels and before one knows it one’s quiet lover will respond in kind.
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