There are people who feel unsure as to how to act when going to sex clubs for the first time. There may feel as if there is a set of rules to follow, and not everyone understands them. Sometimes the rules of a sex club are posted, but there are also other unwritten rules that are hard to figure out.
In all cases, courtesy is always the way to go, followed by common sense. Look at the other people. If there are naked girls, then nudity is okay. If there are people watching a sex scene, then the club welcomes voyeurs. Watching is almost always permissible, whereas touching without permission is usually not. Asking someone else about the unwritten rules in the club will help smooth the way for proper behavior. Its also a good idea to ask someone who is not having sex or engaging in other forms of kinky play. Interrupting a scene is considered bad behavior. Asking someone standing nearby who is watching the same scene will be far more comfortable for all concerned.
For exhibitionists, finding an available corner or piece of sex equipment is all that is needed to start showing off. Strip off clothes, or wear something sexy to draw attention. Dont be afraid of making noise, even laughing is okay. Public fucking can be fun and even funny. Theres no need to take it seriously, if the purpose is to have fun or entertain.
Drawing an audience for the kinky couple or single exhibitionist is not difficult. Just taking over a piece of equipment in a sex club may be enough to have people stop and watch. Fondling a breast or cock will draw an audience quickly.
Moans and other porn noises always make people look around to see what is happening. Even a sharp clap or spank will be enough to build an interested crowd.
If going to a sex club sounds like fun, check out locations around the country. On-line lists of sex events exist, and the ongoing sex clubs in larger cities advertise regularly in alternative newspapers and on-line sex news. Swingers groups for married couples are prevalent in every suburb as well as all major cities. Couples and singles both will quickly build a network around themselves once they are out and about in whatever kinky scene they wish to be known in.