When it comes down to the most basic body part we all happen to have and one thats sexual at the same time, our bottoms top the list. Not necessarily an erogenous zone, still a tickle, a spank and an insertion does attract and arouse many a man and woman. Gay men know the pleasures of anal play well as do hetero couples-especially men who admit to it-and all manner of attention back there adds greatly to sexual life. In a way, it’s the body part of free porn.
From the start of our recorded art, from sketches on walls up on through the great artists of history the back of our front has been celebrated, championed and has held fetishists enthralled. No matter the size, shape or skin color, there is as much a lid for every pot as there is an ass for each one of us-or more them one-that we find attractive, want to taste, rub or swat.
Nipples rise when there is arousal. Pussies will lubricate, cocks will unfurl to full erection, eyes will widen as will smiles. Ass cheeks might quiver, blush or flush with gooseflesh, can be revealed under a short skirt or caught in a pair of tight pants, but for the most part asses are indifferent to our obsession and love. Men can have as fine and firm a pair of gluteus as a woman can have a derriere that sways just right. Asses are where we are all equal and where we can make an impression without even having to try, but asses give so little back to all the attention paid them.
Our asses are a cultural marker to changes in our habits; peoples bottoms spread as they lead a more sedentary lifestyle and at the same time the paradigm of female attractiveness shifts from wide-hipped beauties to super athletic ladies with no butts at all. Watch the ass and one can watch the world.
The kink of spanking would be nothing without the ass, certain womens sexuality is based on how well she can sway, we can react to a lover in the most simplest of ways, still being sexual but at the same time cute patting our lovers rear-end. We can mark just where in the world we are by looking down. The ass can be what we obsess over or a passing interest. That which follows us surely is that which defines us.
