You’re not dumb, but when it comes to anal sex, lots of dudes are doing it wrong. If you want to get that girl you’re dating to give up her brown flower and have her begging to take the dirt road every night, read on.
Most guys who’ve grown up watching free porn online have gotten the wrong impression of how anal sex happens. Although it seems like every girl has an asshole that stretches as wide as a wine bottle, porn stars have worked up slowly to putting big dicks in their butts.
With your girlfriend, working your way up is the best rule. Positive association is a great start. When you’re having great normal sex, go ahead and slip a wet finger into her ass, right as she’s orgasming.
Start doing that often until she’s comfortable and connects the idea of something up her butt, with climaxing. Then it’s time to move up to sex toys. Vibrators are great way to stretch out that asshole slowly and get her comfortable with bigger things in the caboose. Always remember to use lots and lots of lube.
Now that she’s used to cumming with things in her booty, it’s time for the main event. Get her really relaxed. Have a light meal, (emphasis on light!) a glass of wine or a beer (but only one ) and give her a massage.
Then bring out the sex toys and lube to start her engine. When she’s good and turned on, take the sex toy out, add some extra lube on your cock and her ass and slide on in. Chances are, you’ll both be ready for that tight ride.
