It is true that for some of us we cannot abide by any sexual encounter when we aren’t reaching orgasm or have not brought our lover there. For some people seduction, foreplay, canoodling has to lead to sex which has to lead to copious amounts of cum. For too many of us the label Xxx is synonymous with gonzo nasty sex we watch in porn but ache for in our real life and Xxx means scenes where fluids fly, partners have multiple orgasms and any and all sexual play leads to fucking/sucking and rubbing warm ready body parts to fruition.
It’s probably perfectly acceptable to expect all this fluid and action from/and with our fuck buddies-built as those relationships are on Xxx sex-but when it comes to steady lovers, spouses or people we are beginning to build an intimacy with Xxx, rivers of come, steady flowing streams of arousal are nice to shoot for but not realistic. We might think watching porn stars do it is hot and they do seem to be quite juicy people at all times, but porn sex is not real sex and even if we are managing some Xxx stuff a time or two, it’s not always about how much we release.
Xxx sex is for the youthful, dirty movie actors and those of us with a steady fuck-friend. Yes, we can have some Xxx moments with long-term lovers, our soul mate, a spouse and we can be looking to massage a prostate or be ever diligent going down on our woman, but all that fluid, those swinging from the chandelier moments, the working our skills like a Xxx star just don’t cut it 24/7 for most couples trying to make a living, keep the kids from sexting and meeting one another in bed for maybe a once-a-week romp where the woman might have shaved her legs and the man even cares to brush his teeth. In those sexual encounters we can sneak the very last thing we care about is putting three X’s together or measuring how much fluid we both lost during the sex!