I hate to break it to ya guys, but Valentines Day is the one day out of the year that you need to throw your piggish tendencies aside and act like the loving and romantic man our ladies want us to be. So, put your porn aside for the next couple of days and get thinking. Not only do you want to be the romantic and loving type, but you also want to be the guy who stepped outside the box, who dared to do something a bit more kinky, and the guy who really impressed his woman.

Prolonged foreplay: When was the last time you engaged in prolonged foreplay that did not cultivate with penetration? We often underestimate how important it is to warm her up, make her feel special, and ultimately, have her so turned on that she’s begging for more. Sometimes the anticipating is hotter than the climax. Finally, if the idea of prolonged foreplay without leading to penetration is painful, think of it this way: There’s no better time than Valentine’s Day to make the sacrifice, and she’ll remember it for the rest of the year.

A warm bath: Fill the bathtub with rose petals and scented oils, which will help her relax and prep her body for what’s to come. Play some sensual music, dim the lights and light candles and make sure that you are clean before stepping in with her. There’s nothing that kills romance more than bathing in your own filth.

Massage oils: Shop around for some oils that come packed with flavor. Whatever type you prefer, you can rub down her body and lick off the remains.

New location: Sex on Valentine’s day? Oh wow, how original! The solution here does not involved modifying the act, but rather, involved modifying the location. For a real rush, consider public sex. The facts that it’s taboo and the fear of getting caught will allow you to completely release your inner kink.

Feed her: Try increasing your libido with food. Cutting up fruits like strawberries, melons, apples and chocolate can only serve to make the sexy fun more fun.

Blindfold her: Blindfold her and present her with different scents, making her guess which each one is. Make one of them an actual gift of perfume.

Buy her lingerie: Most men find this difficult, so they don’t. In reality, who cares what you buy because you’re just going to tear it off anyway.

Chocolate: What would this day be like without chocolate? Try melting it on each other and devour it off every inch of each other’s bodies. Try and incorporate it in any way you can because chocolate truly is the key to her heart.