Hetero guys can coddle many a fantasy. When it comes to what makes their dicks rise they will believe a whole cornucopia of possibilities, the least of which is that a woman who is waiting on them, is in fact interested in them beyond the porn service she is providing. Tipping a waitress is all a waitress is really interested in her customers for, even if she is vigilant about doing a good job. And strippers, who see the very worst of men and their objectification, know best of all how to work a smile or a shaking ass to attract men to them, or make men feel they are attracted to them.

The concept of girls working for the tip is not lost on the men who tip them yet men still proceed as if the women could possibly be interested in them. The fantasy is enough to keep men coming back time and again and for women to work within the fantasy. There is always a hope that a guy and girl are making a connection-at least the hope exists from the man’s point of view-but for the most part a stripper stays far away from her audience. There is almost an unwritten code of ethics in this situation, ironic as that might seem.

It might be a little bit of the thrill of the chase. It might be the idea of the sexuality a stripper portrays, akin to wanting to sleep with a porn star that creates the allure. And it might also be the simple fact that most strippers need to be attractive to be able to do their job well. The full package; the slightly aloof woman showing only a small amount of her tits and ass to a seething group of men aching to jump her bones might be cliché but it fuels the very best sexual scenario and one even the most asexual of us would be hard pressed to ignore.

As long as there exists the interplay between men and women, whether on line across cams, over the phone with PSO’s or live and in person with strippers, women will always hold the upper hand in the interaction and men will allow it as long as they can coddle the ideal of scoring with the woman they are paying to pay attention to them.