Archive for June, 2011

« Older Entries
Newer Entries »

Travel Toys

Thursday, June 23rd, 2011

Just about all sex aficionados have run into this trouble: It’s time to go to the airport. You don’t want to put your favorite sex toys in checked baggage because God forbid they don’t arrive when you do at your destination. However, putting large chains or a ten-inch black dong in your carry-on luggage could prove embarrassing. When possible, some horny travelers opt to bring a scaled-down ho-bag with them on trips. That way, there is still lots of fun to be had, and airport security might hardly give it a second look.

hailey-long-black-dildo-fucking

Honestly, it is virtually unheard of that a TSA agent would cause any ruckus at all over a small sexual aid device. They have indeed seen just about everything, and with the vigilance over terrorist threats, there are more important things to watch for. Dildos of a smaller size won’t really raise any eyebrows. As far as vibrators are concerned, one good rule of thumb is to remove the batteries while travelling. They might not set off any official suspicions, but you will feel better knowing that they won’t start purring spontaneously as you carry your bags through a crowd.

blonde-zoe-big-dildo-orgasm-2509

One fun trend has been for companies to make sex toys that at first or even second glance look very much like an everyday item. Hairbrushes or wax fruit might conceal a battery that could send someone into orgasmic joy. Women’s makeup items are common- one company offers a powerful water-proof vibrator in the shape of a lipstick. Other slim models come in cases that are fairly nondescript, and could be someone’s case for eyeglasses, for example.

As long as it has a flared base, a butt plug could be shaped like just about anything as well. As with dildos and vibrators, popular camouflage designs for butt toys include fruit and vegetable shapes. When traveling, these might just register as toys for a child or a pet. No one has to be the wiser that you plan on engaging in corn-holing quite literally.

v21217_blonde_dildo_fucking_video_04

If bondage is your trip, you don’t necessarily have to bring big chains and long lengths of rope. A few scarves packed neatly can serve to blindfold or bond. Bondage tape looks just like packing tape and works wonders.

Tags: ,
Posted in Sex Toys | No Comments »

We Are Porn

Thursday, June 23rd, 2011

It has come to the attention of every man and woman that we are porn. We live lives of heightened realism where sex is all we think about, We indulge our whims every second of the day. We are connected to the life-giving technological teat, sucking dry all we can off our PDA’s and phones, tweeting until our thumbs become sore, aching to tell as much as listen, masturbating in mind and body the entire day through. We have our assholes opened, our mouths ready and our genitals constantly dripping for the next thing to divert us, to keep us from having whole conversations, from engaging a real person in real time.

7tgPpTciHpxjntj9uJuwi3YNo1_400

Like porn all we want is the faster bigger sloppy cumshot to appear across our screens of life, to wipe it away and have at it again.
We were given the wet pussy of opportunity and we jumped in face first. We gamed and were given access to others who did the same, we chatted and found that we could type just as fast with one hand, we set-up a cam and watched others do the same, knowing that sooner or later clothes would come off. We started-out interested we became titillated, we began the seduction we ended with the fucking and now all we want to do is fuck harder and harder. We drain our imaginations daily, fill up and come back for more. And like the very best adult performers, we actually believe there is someone out there who wants us, who is jerking or jilling off to our big tits, who salivates over our thick cock.

qdYs3sgJrpa0mll3U9aHejbao1_400

The wonderful thing is that at this point we could not even show-up to the set and we’d still get paid. We don’t really have to make a movie anymore. We could sit back on our laurels and rep and let the accolades wash over us. We have certainly seen and done enough that we should be satiated, experienced, jaded even but there is always another movie to be made, at least in our head, so we head for the bright lights of Facebook walls and tweets, where everyone is a star at least once a day and we strip and dance and self fellaciate or tickle deep and we are porn all over again to live another day.

qyaMgFJhBptf1ml2iIyJolNZo1_400

Tags: ,
Posted in Porn, Porn And Society, Porn Stars | No Comments »

The Boner Shrinker

Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011

For both men and women there is a person, an action or ever words said that can be the proverbial end to arousal. Men find their cocks going flaccid, women their pussies drying up, by something said or done by their partner. Seconds before we couldn’t have even articulated what might have caused such a reaction but like the classic petard of not being able to un-ring a bell, once something is said, done or tried and it turns us off, turned-off we are, maybe permanently.

alektraandjessicadrake

The boner-shrinker moments can be reasoned through even if not predicted or prevented. We know full well why certain things arouse us while others repel. When both feelings can come from the same person, a date we are seducing or even a long-term lover we thought, up to that moment, we knew everything about, it is startling to say the least but no less powerful. Just because we spend a good amount of time with someone and put a lot of attention into building an intimacy doesn’t mean they can’t literally be the buzz-kill in our life.

limp-dick

Some actions, speech or attitudes that turn us off are fleeting; they only surface when our partner is challenged or not feeling their best or simply feels passionate about something. Those passing seconds might chill us to the bone, see us retreat up off a pussy, pop a cock from our mouth or roll over in frustration, but we can weather the storm of those rough seas and get back to loving our partner once again by simply swallowing what they said, ignoring-as best we could-some silly momentary action on their part. It’s the prolonged true differences, the real meat and potatoes of what people are made of, the contrary natures we all have that surface time and again that cause us to flee or rethink or love-affairs. A stop in the action over some quick hurtle can be hopped, skipped and jumped if it doesn’t speak to the very nature of who a person is.

rihanna

For the most part we are prepared to be confronted by the things we like and do not like about someone we are in a romance with. For those times we hope the caring we have built and the love we feel we see us through a few boner-shrinking seconds and get us back on the straight and narrow with our partner.

Tags: , ,
Posted in Sex | No Comments »

Spanking Sounds

Wednesday, June 22nd, 2011

People who enjoy spanking usually have very specific things that they like about it, and those reasons can vary wildly depending on the role the person takes in the spanking scene and it can sometimes even vary wildly depending on the style of the scene or even the spanking implement that is being used.

spanking_pictures

Most people who bottom for spanking scenes have a definite preference for either smacks that feel either stingy or thuddy, although some people do like both for different reasons and at different times. Maybe they like stingy at the beginning of the spanking to get their skin warmed up a bit and then prefer more thuddy for the second half of the spanking or more toward the end when they’re skin starts getting really sore. The thuddy sensation gives the smack a deeper feeling that resonates deeper in the muscle while the stingy sensation gives more of a surface sensation right on the skin.

spanking_sex

Many people who top during the spanking have a long list of things that they enjoy. Some love the feeling of having that much power over another person and love having them over-the-knee or having the opportunity to hold them down as they bend over something. Some love the sounds that their willing victims make as they receive each smack, sounds that get more primal as the heat and soreness begins to grow and take hold. Some love the sound of the implement or hand hitting the skin of the other person. The sounds can differ quite a bit depending on the implement used and the type of material the implement is made out of. Leather and wood make distinctively different sounds as the strike the skin, and even that sound can vary depending on the style of the implement. A leather belt can sound almost like a gunshot in a quiet room, but a paddle will sound very different to an experienced ear. A top that enjoys the sounds that the implements make can often tell just by the sound what the material is and sometimes even what type of implement it is. Someone who can do that is a true connoisseur of spanking sounds – they know and understand exactly what they’re doing and why, and they’re enjoying every minute detail of the spanking.

teen_spanking

Tags:
Posted in Fetishes, Sex | No Comments »

Simple Sex Toys

Tuesday, June 21st, 2011

It is absolutely true that a lot of naughty toys and erotic playthings that men and women can get, either in stores or by ordering on the internet, can be a bit expensive there are all kinds of sex toys that can be bought or made for very little more. While some of these ideas are good ones it is also very, very important to pay attention to safety rather than savings: for many uses the wrong kind of sex toy can be very risky and can lead to serious injury.

bree_olson_hot_vibrator_sex

An example of this is anything that is used for anal play. A toy made for anal play must be made out of a very smooth material and have a flange or such around the base as the anus of both men or women have a tendency to pull the toy inwards and without a flange or such the toy can get caught for a bit of time. One must be careful with anything they insert but more so when things going up your ass.

pic2

But one of the simplest sex toys out there, for both men and women, are vibrators that are not designed to be inserted into the anus or the vagina. They can be had for little money and as long as they are not so poorly made so as to be dangerous they can be purchased for very little money. Some sex toys, too, can be had for very little because they are designed for men and women to try them out and then, if they like them, move up to a better quality and more expensive toy’ which is always good advice as no one wants to spend a lot of money on something they may only use once.

masturbating_outside

So do some research and, best of all, have some fun experimenting and seeing what toys you can find out there’ but always play safely. Grabbing plenty of lube for play, discussing well what you and your partner want, making sure your adult playthings are charged-up, clean and ready to go makes the sex play with them all the better. These days one needn’t worry so much about materials as most toys are made safely due to laws making them be so, so all we have to worry about is why we are using the toys; and where we are going to put them.

Tags: ,
Posted in Sex, Sex Toys | No Comments »

Sex Is Everywhere

Tuesday, June 21st, 2011

Part of the reason to change your perspective about what sex is and can be is because it can really open up your world, for men as well as women. A good way of looking at how sex can be unique and different is to look at where sex is suggested but not shown. Many people have a favorite book, movie, or TV show that they feel is very erotic or sexually charged but is not explicit: the favorite is sexy but there is nothing immediately seen; the sex is only in the tension between the characters or the situation. This is true in the real world as it is in movies and books and TV shows.

tumblr_lkf3ffVICb1qcfdvmo1_400

The same is true about simply taking the time to see the sensual and pleasurable aspects in all kinds of things. Food, for instance, can be very sensual and erotic but not immediately so: a good meal with a lover can be just as stimulating and erotically charged as it can be with clothes off. This is also a great way to become simply more sensual and appreciative of the world around you. Food is good but there are also smells and other things that, too, can be sensual and almost erotic: incense and perfumes, certain types of clothing or cloth, or fine art can also change the way you look at the world and maybe open new doors of sensuality. How we talk to one another, react to our pleasures and take pleasure in how one another reacts is sexy to.

tumblr_lma8oqFq3F1qcfdvmo1_400

The bottom line is that by seeing the world only as sexy when we’re naked and having intercourse limits your world down to a very narrow focus. By spending some pleasurable time exploring the rest of the erotic and pleasurable in our life, by recognizing the sexual in so much more than just the body parts of your lover, you can really expand what sex is and can be. Erotic visual images are more than just gonzo porn and tickling and teasing goes beyond foreplay. Intimacy is not just fucking for romantic couples.

tumblr_ln1smtzbk01qcn698o1_400

Sex might be everywhere but it’s not always sexual. On-line or off, we can immerse ourselves in the desires we have and those we can cultivate.

Tags: ,
Posted in Sex, Sex And Society, Sexuality | No Comments »

Sex & Technology

Sunday, June 19th, 2011

Technology has made a lot of differences in our lives with computers and smart phones, but there are other advantages to better technology as well. Sex toys have come a really long way over the last several years. As technology increases, sex toys get better and better. There are silicone dildos that are really lifelike and realistic, with a feeling that is closer to real skin than people have ever experienced before. The amazing thing about some of these toys is how easy they are to clean and sterilize; many of them can be put through the dishwasher or boiled or even run through a professional sterilizer. Many can be wiped down with any kind of anti-bacterial available for purchase, without any harm whatsoever to the surface of the dildo. There are amazing vibrators available that have multiple speeds and actions, like rotation or a churning movement, that provide a level of vaginal, anal and clitoral never even imagined 20 years ago.

horny-lesbian-threesome

There are vibrating toys that are so small that they can be used in nearly any location because they are tiny and quiet and very portable and unnoticeable. Wireless remote control sex toys have opened up a whole new world of sexual fun and excitement. It’s really created some fun options that have gotten some men who might have been hesitant about vibrators in the past pretty interested in the fun that they can have with these toys. Having a remote control and having that much control over the sensation that the other person is feeling is a very powerful feeling. Glass and stainless steel toys are rapidly gaining in popularity, and for a lot of good reasons. They are smooth and weighty which provides a very different sensation than other dildos. Click here to see how Andrea likes to fucks glass.  They are great for temperature play because they can be heated and cooled very easily. Best of all, they’re very sanitary because they are completely non-porous and are really easy to clean and disinfect. There are also inflatable toys that are easy to insert in their smaller state, but easily pumped up to much larger sizes for some really fun and challenging vaginal and anal play. With all of these great toys to choose from, how could anyone doubt that technology is having a great affect on our sex lives as well as our everyday life?

girls-dildo

Tags: ,
Posted in Sex, Sex Toys | No Comments »

Safe Sex

Saturday, June 18th, 2011

condom

It’s a myth that there was ever once a time when fucking was safe. There has always been risks for sexual activity, no matter the age of the participants, from difficult childbirths and poor medical care to all sorts of diseases, these days the risks from unprotected sex and risky sexual activities can be very risky if not outright fatal. The important thing to remember about safe sex that the most dangerous thing is not any one activity but being ignorant about what is safe and what isn’t. Unprotected sex of any kind; oral or vaginal; but anal sex is extremely risky and even protected and with all kinds of precautions and such accidents can still happen and because anal sex also has the possibility of blood and body fluid mixing it is especially risky for many serious diseases or illnesses such as HIV and hepatitis.

in-condom-sex

Even other types of sexual activity, like oral sex, that may appear to have a lower risk have their own issues and problems. Herpes, for instance, can easily be spread by oral sex of all kinds and once you get herpes there simply is no getting rid of it. Beyond illnesses practicing safe sex is also key to avoid unplanned pregnancies. Unfortunately, many men and women have far too many inaccurate if not outright wrong beliefs about pregnancy, believing that certain times are safe when they simply are not; or that they may be statistically less likely but still carry other risks such as transmission of sexual illnesses or such. Education is the best defense against any unwanted complications from fucking and sucking we might not want to encounter. Condom use, dental dams and so many other approaches will keep us safe.

P7084550

So take the time to be as informed as you can be about sexual illnesses, risks, safe sex practices, and pregnancy. As the old saying goes: no sex is worth dying over and if you do it right you can have great and safe sex for a very long time, have multiple partners and enjoy all kinds of activities. From kinks to straight vanilla sex we should enjoy how hot we get and how hot we can get another person, and with a little caution we can enjoy it all.

Tags: , ,
Posted in Anal, Oral, Sex | No Comments »

Power Exchange

Friday, June 17th, 2011

The nature of sexual power exchange is the idea that a person, within the context of erotic play, gives up control to another person; but in reality it is a bit more complicated than that and, as with a lot of sexual and erotic interests and play, it is very important to read as much as possible, take classes, and talk to people before trying it out. One reason why this is important is that the reality of power exchange play is that the person that many people assume is in control is not really: the bottom, submissive, or slave is the one who is actually in control as they always, for matter of safely, be able to change or alter the play at any time. The master or dominant is the one who has to be responsible and must always be willing to change the scene to protect and keep safe the person they are playing with. The dominant or master may have the attitude or such of being in control but if the other person involved ever wants the play or scene to change they that dominant or master must immediately respond to their needs.

11

Part of the way this can happen is through what are called safe-words: a code that the submissive can say that will be a signal to the dominant that they want the play to change. The words, ideally, should be ones that won’t be used commonly to avoid confusion and it’s best to have a specific few words at the ready to indicate levels ;darker colors for instance to indicate the play is growing ever more intense or painful This is also why communication must be there are all times, so that the submissive can talk to the dominant and vice versa. The dominant, too, must be able to say at any time that they are uncomfortable or do not want to proceed.

submissive

So, while power exchange can be an effective erotic component of kink play, it’s best to always learn as much about it before you try it out with anyone else so you can play safely for a very long time. There are so many levels to what we might seek sexually that it is best we keep open to all possibilities.

submissive-sex

Tags: , ,
Posted in Erotic Arts, Fetishes, Uncategorized | No Comments »

Legalizing Prostitution Would Help Sex Workers

Friday, June 17th, 2011

Although it is legal in some states and in many other countries around the world, prostitution is illegal in the majority of the united states. There are people who believe that making prostitution illegal reduces the occurrences or controls it in some way, but nothing could be further from the truth. The only thing it does successfully is keep the female participants abused and in danger. They usually feel they can’t report any abuse since what they’re doing is illegal, so they often just take whatever they get pimps and customers and even other prostitutes. Legalizing prostitution provides a way to regulate what goes on inside and also will help to keep everyone physically healthier  the clients and the prostitutes. On an emotional level, working in a legal brothel may give a woman a little more control over her own finances, especially if prostitution is legalized and the brothels have to pay the girls according to local labor laws. This would eliminate the problem of girls ending up with pimps and getting beat up and abused. It would also give the prostitutes a way to protect themselves legally against disreputable and dangerous clients.

dv1436040

In places where prostitution is legal, there are usually medical requirements and required standards for testing for sexually transmitted diseases on a regular basis. Any sex worker that comes up positive for a disease or an infection is required to get the proper treatment and cleared by a doctor before returning to work. This would greatly reduce the risk of spreading sexually transmitted diseases to customers and beyond as the customers go out into their real world and have sex with others. Having these procedures in place make both the prostitute and the customer feel much safer like this cab driver who gets a prostitute in this video on Orgasm.com.

3-701789

Having brothels for the sex workers to work in would also increase the safety and well-being of the workers. Streetwalking, cheap motels and getting into cars with strangers are all very dangerous no matter what a person’s gender or orientation. Prostitutes are in constant danger because of their work conditions, and brothels would alleviate quite a bit of that danger. Inside of a brothel, surrounded by many other prostitutes, a manager, security and bouncers, most people would probably think twice about hurting one of the workers.

prostitute

Tags:
Posted in Sex, Sex And Society, Uncategorized | No Comments »

« Older Entries
Newer Entries »